JustErin said:

were you here back in the day when there was a sex and romance forum?

XxAxX said:

i use to see you post in there all the time.

If people judge me and my life, my marraige, my understanding I have with my partner, my relations with others here by the tiny TINY bit of the info/insight I show/share here ...

all I can say is that's so sad really

And much more a reflection on THEM then anything they think they know of me and my life.

There is not ONE thing I do or say on this HELLO !! PUBLIC forum that I would hesitate to show my Husband

Good lord

Mach said:

but what if he wants to see your orgnotes?

magnificentsynthesizer said:

Open for him to look at except personal ones ( NON sexual mind you ) about Mod stuff or personal info - Hell last guy that "hit on me " here via orgnotes - I did show Him to get his perspective and opinion

damn - I don't live a secret life from my husband

Mach said:

i was just kidding.

do your thing!

magnificentsynthesizer said:

Open for him to look at except personal ones ( NON sexual mind you ) about Mod stuff or personal info - Hell last guy that "hit on me " here via orgnotes - I did show Him to get his perspective and opinion

damn - I don't live a secret life from my husband

It is fun to share our orgnotes and laugh....

some of the crazy shit women send my man.....

shanti0608 said:

Ooohhh...share here!

JustErin said:

Ha!!!




It is nothing that nobody hasn't already seen before...if you know what I mean.

shanti0608 said:

I don't...but ok!

JustErin said:

hehehe (like I am sure that he is not the only orger that receives the "things" that he has rec'd in orgnote)

Muse2NOPharaoh said:

you said gash

so does anybody know what this thread is about yet?
I honestly got a headache reading the intial post

ZombieKitten said:

judging by the last post i think it has something to do with the IRS

Secondly, the love that Anx and I share is my our own business! Please respect that undying, profound, unconditional, love that we have and mention it no more!

SirPsycho said:

it's tax time
thanks for reminding me to accountant

BlueZebra said:

Agreed. Knowing Muse and where she is coming from it's more to do with "if this is what's out there, why am I bothering?" because it's so different than what she'd look/is looking for in the relationship sense than being Judgy McJudgerson on each individual orger that has ever uttered a flirting word.

Now - I can completely understand how it could be perceived that way too. But I don't see it as an effort to call out any one (or 12 dozen) orger(s). I think it's more at a point of exapseration.

JustErin said:

It's not abierman abnormal to take issue with certain behaviour. I agree that this would be suitable for orgnotes but I honestly don't think this thread was meant to be a lashing out to certain people.

Yes, I resolve any issues/misunderstandings I have through orgnotes, thank you very much.

You're thinking it's about you, isn't it you little attention whore ?

XxAxX said:

Oh well, but it is.....only you would never know....

it's in the context of Muse's posts.....

Sorry, Karen.....you know it, I do, and so do many others.....

Do we have enough material for a 'Threads You Wish Muse Hadn't Started' thread yet?

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BlueZebra said:

I think it was meant as both, but is primarily meant as a public "venting" on specific orger(s).

Here's one clue that it was not only about the world of relationships in general: "I see gorgeous woman demean those that perhaps aren't". What, exactly, does that have to do with wondering if she should "reinvest" herself into a relationship? Unless it's the convoluted logic that being in a relationship keeps one from "being one' self", thus leading to the gorgeous to demean those who "perhaps aren't"...which I don't see or buy.

If you want my honest opinion, one of the problems I see around here are people thinking they know WAY too much about others based solely on what's posted. It's been happening since this place was first introduced over 6 years ago. It's one thing to have some generic viewpoints about other people when they're kept to just being viewpoints that aren't really expressed. It's a HUGELY different thing, though, to feel a need to actually TELL the other person what you think of them or their actions, as if no dialogue or discussion about your perceptions was necessary first. To do so is to believe your own perception is carved-in-stone fact...and that's a rather arrogant stance to take. That usually points to something within the person giving their judgements moreso than the person they're judging.

Trust me, I've had a boatload of opinions about people on this site, but you'd never know...because I would never feel I had the moral authority to tell them of my views on them. I'm well aware that I live in a glass house. Only if I knew the person extremely intimately for a long period of time would I offer up my views, and even then I would only do it in private. I wouldn't use the public threads to let them know how I feel.

This topic would have had a better discussion if the specific issues Muse seems to have with specific Orgers had been left off the table.