have you just asked her why she stopped? | |
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Stymie said: have you just asked her why she stopped?
That would be way too simple | |
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shanti0608 said: Relationships are a give and take. Maybe men should try to figure out why their wives are not as enthused about it anymore and try to do something about it instead of bitching to ppl on an internet site about it.
I think it's very safe to say that there are many women who simply don't enjoy doing it. That's fine...but to pretend that you do like it just so that you can snag your man and then change your tune about it is wrong. The bottom line is if you enjoy doing something you don't just stop doing it. I don't buy the whole you gotta do this in order to get that or that partners are just too tired to do things they enjoy doing. Lame. | |
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mdiver said: shanti0608 said: Relationships are a give and take. Maybe men should try to figure out why their wives are not as enthused about it anymore and try to do something about it instead of bitching to ppl on an internet site about it.
Take me upstairs and fuck me! | |
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JustErin said: shanti0608 said: Relationships are a give and take. Maybe men should try to figure out why their wives are not as enthused about it anymore and try to do something about it instead of bitching to ppl on an internet site about it.
I think it's very safe to say that there are many women who simply don't enjoy doing it. That's fine...but to pretend that you do like it just so that you can snag your man and then change your tune about it is wrong. The bottom line is if you enjoy doing something you don't just stop doing it. I don't buy the whole you gotta do this in order to get that or that partners are just too tired to do things they enjoy doing. Lame. To be fair we really don't know why unless he actually has a conversation with his wife about it. In general there are things that we enjoy in life but for whatever reason overtime we lose interest. A relationship takes two and if he has a problem with her he needs to let her know. Maybe she's just too tired or so used to routine of children, housework, that she doesn't even notice she's not doing certain things anymore. Men do it as well. The question he's asking us should be directed to his wife-we aint suckin his dick and she won't either if he doesn't ask her | |
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JustErin said: shanti0608 said: Relationships are a give and take. Maybe men should try to figure out why their wives are not as enthused about it anymore and try to do something about it instead of bitching to ppl on an internet site about it.
I think it's very safe to say that there are many women who simply don't enjoy doing it. That's fine...but to pretend that you do like it just so that you can snag your man and then change your tune about it is wrong. The bottom line is if you enjoy doing something you don't just stop doing it. I don't buy the whole you gotta do this in order to get that or that partners are just too tired to do things they enjoy doing. Lame. I don't buy it either. That is why it important to be up front and communicate with your partner. When we commit to someone you should know their likes and dislikes. I could not imagine just doing something because I felt like I had to in order to "keep" or "get someone. You are cheating yourself big time when you do that. I enjoy sex and I enjoy doing certain things, there are other things that I do not enjoy doing as much. You should never start doing something that you do not enjoy....very misleading. You need to really communicate with your partner is all I am saying here. [Edited 7/20/08 9:59am] | |
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BlueZebra said: mdiver said: Take me upstairs and fuck me! I don't ALWAYS do as I am told. What is the fun in that? | |
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honeypot69 said: JustErin said: I think it's very safe to say that there are many women who simply don't enjoy doing it. That's fine...but to pretend that you do like it just so that you can snag your man and then change your tune about it is wrong. The bottom line is if you enjoy doing something you don't just stop doing it. I don't buy the whole you gotta do this in order to get that or that partners are just too tired to do things they enjoy doing. Lame. To be fair we really don't know why unless he actually has a conversation with his wife about it. In general there are things that we enjoy in life but for whatever reason overtime we lose interest. A relationship takes two and if he has a problem with her he needs to let her know. Maybe she's just too tired or so used to routine of children, housework, that she doesn't even notice she's not doing certain things anymore. Men do it as well. The question he's asking us should be directed to his wife-we aint suckin his dick and she won't either if he doesn't ask her and THERE it is. [...i think i can, i think i can, i think i can...] | |
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BlueZebra said: mdiver said: Take me upstairs and fuck me! I have your orgnote, you cant deny your love for me bitch | |
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mdiver said: BlueZebra said: I have your orgnote, you cant deny your love for me bitch what were the odds ?? | |
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BlueZebra said: mdiver said: I have your orgnote, you cant deny your love for me bitch what were the odds ?? | |
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mdiver said: BlueZebra said: what were the odds ?? it's all good Phil ... | |
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BlueZebra said: mdiver said: it's all good Phil ... I know bro In the meantime | |
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I guess we will have to put a warning label along with the thread title or have a rating next to it???? | |
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shanti0608 said: I guess we will have to put a warning label along with the thread title or have a rating next to it????
GD- Rated MA for Mature. We should have the stars back! The more stars the dirtier the thread is! This thread ain't special , it doesn't need a NSFW. In spite of the cost of living, it's still popular. |
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Sweeny79 said: shanti0608 said: I guess we will have to put a warning label along with the thread title or have a rating next to it????
GD- Rated MA for Mature. We should have the stars back! The more stars the dirtier the thread is! This thread ain't special , it doesn't need a NSFW. You are right, it is not special and surely does not warrant a NSFW. | |
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shanti0608 said: Sweeny79 said: GD- Rated MA for Mature. We should have the stars back! The more stars the dirtier the thread is! This thread ain't special , it doesn't need a NSFW. You are right, it is not special and surely does not warrant a NSFW. In spite of the cost of living, it's still popular. |
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Sweeny79 said: shanti0608 said: You are right, it is not special and surely does not warrant a NSFW. | |
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if that is so everyone, men should NOT start snoring a year after you marry them. That isn't fair to give the impression they don't snore while you are still dating | |
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ZombieKitten said: OK, now this may not be a popular opinion, but it is what I think.
BEFORE marriage, the head is like a pre-payment for all the the expectations she has of you, which she is confident you will meet, cause you aren't like all the other guys. After kids and marriage, she is finding out how it really is. She doesn't initiate sex as much anymore because she is way too tired from picking up your slack. She'll have sex with you, it doesn't require that much effort and doesn't take up much time. In fact if you even bring up why she won't go down on you, you will probably only remind her of how much she resents her situation - which, if she complains about it, will earn her the label of nagging wife, she can't win. How about, do some stuff around the house, organise your parents to take the kids over the weekend, tell her not to cook, you're bringing something home with you. Etc. THIS is sexy, you will suddenly become way more sexy, like magic! She will probably suck your dick without you even asking again once she realises you would go out of your way for her, and SHE is special to you. Simple! | |
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Amaxx said: ZombieKitten said: OK, now this may not be a popular opinion, but it is what I think.
BEFORE marriage, the head is like a pre-payment for all the the expectations she has of you, which she is confident you will meet, cause you aren't like all the other guys. After kids and marriage, she is finding out how it really is. She doesn't initiate sex as much anymore because she is way too tired from picking up your slack. She'll have sex with you, it doesn't require that much effort and doesn't take up much time. In fact if you even bring up why she won't go down on you, you will probably only remind her of how much she resents her situation - which, if she complains about it, will earn her the label of nagging wife, she can't win. How about, do some stuff around the house, organise your parents to take the kids over the weekend, tell her not to cook, you're bringing something home with you. Etc. THIS is sexy, you will suddenly become way more sexy, like magic! She will probably suck your dick without you even asking again once she realises you would go out of your way for her, and SHE is special to you. Simple! do you snore? | |
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JustErin said: She used to suck your cock as a way to get you to like her. Now that she's snagged you she no longer has to do things she never really liked to do in the first place....like head.
I feel for you man. That's a nasty thing to do to a person, pretend to be into something they are not into. But from what I hear from guy friends, women do it all the time. I'm sure...no I know you're not alone in this. Thank U for your honesty & understanding! | |
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maybe your cock and balls have lost their youthful glow and your beer gut is sagging over your waist line. | |
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ZombieKitten said: Amaxx said: do you snore? Only when I've got a cold! | |
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Amaxx said: ZombieKitten said: do you snore? Only when I've got a cold! tell her you're buying one of these: http://www.sextoytesters....nnamon.jpg | |
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ZombieKitten said: Amaxx said: Only when I've got a cold! tell her you're buying one of these: http://www.sextoytesters....nnamon.jpg i wonder if they will pass those out at night time in old folks homes | |
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actually it looks like some cheap carnival toy | |
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ZombieKitten said: Amaxx said: Only when I've got a cold! tell her you're buying one of these: http://www.sextoytesters....nnamon.jpg | |
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im sure it made in China and will fill ur penis full of lead particles, then it will get cancer and fall off | |
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horatio said: actually it looks like some cheap carnival toy
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