Okay so when my wife and I were dating she gave head all the time, even volunteered much of the time,,it was great. After we married, I had to ask and she would do it, but not with the same enthusiasm. After our first child, head came to a screeching halt...and now after 7 years of marriage, head is all but a thing of the past. Why do women change like this? I know Im not the only one who has experienced this change.

someone please respond 2 this...

You're married fool. Sex changes after marriage! The rules are different!

Oh and after kids...oh lawd! Oh lawd! If you don't cater to your wife, your sex life is done buddy.

You better find a way to cater to her every need!

Shit, if you're an asshole or jerk to her, oh buddy...no sexy wexy for you.
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Some women DON'T change their desire to give



even after 23 yrs

Trust me

Never get married...

Do you give to her with the same enthusiasm as you used to?

Have you changed at all?

I hear some women will exchange head for currency.

All the time for me, sorry 'bout your luck dude
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shanti0608 said:

Hell yes,,i loves 2 eat some .....

SirPsycho said:

you scurred, huh?

I wish I could help ya, but this baffles me as well

thepope2the9s said:

Your answer explains a lot!

No problem here, even after 24, very close to 25 years.

PaisleyPark5083 said:

Makes you wonder what other ppl are wrong.
I think a lot of it comes down to communication.

Sign up for yoga class.

Yoga Masters can give themselves head.

G0d said:

http://www.videosift.com/...Yoga-Class

that's the mouth she kisses your kids with silly willy.

for some folks i think the excitement of love making wears off with the years, when you're dating everything is to impress and fresh and new. as your marriage goes on, and you have kids, the attraction for those type of things goes away. and people are more tired too. plus if a woman's emotional needs are not met, she does not put out as much, she doesn't feel like giving those special treats.

i don't have these problems....but i have some friends that have told me this.

BlueZebra said:

omg is that really what this is about?

maybe your dick stinks.

they have soap for that kinda thing.

Cinnie said:

not really, maybe he just needs to get her a pearl necklace or something.

BlueZebra said:

mdiver said:

seriously, I get the feeling he's not a giver

BlueZebra said:

Don't take this the wrong way but I have a pic of my dad giving my mum a pearl necklace on their 30th wedding anniversary

OK, now this may not be a popular opinion, but it is what I think.

BEFORE marriage, the head is like a pre-payment for all the the expectations she has of you, which she is confident you will meet, cause you aren't like all the other guys.
After kids and marriage, she is finding out how it really is. She doesn't initiate sex as much anymore because she is way too tired from picking up your slack. She'll have sex with you, it doesn't require that much effort and doesn't take up much time. In fact if you even bring up why she won't go down on you, you will probably only remind her of how much she resents her situation - which, if she complains about it, will earn her the label of nagging wife, she can't win.

How about, do some stuff around the house, organise your parents to take the kids over the weekend, tell her not to cook, you're bringing something home with you. Etc. THIS is sexy, you will suddenly become way more sexy, like magic! She will probably suck your dick without you even asking again once she realises you would go out of your way for her, and SHE is special to you.

Simple!

JuliePurplehead said:

She used to suck your cock as a way to get you to like her. Now that she's snagged you she no longer has to do things she never really liked to do in the first place....like head.

I feel for you man. That's a nasty thing to do to a person, pretend to be into something they are not into.

But from what I hear from guy friends, women do it all the time. I'm sure...no I know you're not alone in this.

JustErin said:

In other words: you got fucked.

For the few, perhabs even lousy blowjobs, she gave you before, you now get nothing but a tired, headache suffering bitch, who never wants to get it on like she used to.

You are gonna get frustrated, pissed off, angry and your self esteem will drop. Eventually you will stray, if you aren't already.

But you can also divorce her ass and find a better bitch to suck you off.

Relationships are a give and take. Maybe men should try to figure out why their wives are not as enthused about it anymore and try to do something about it instead of bitching to ppl on an internet site about it.

shanti0608 said:

Take me upstairs and fuck me!