it is sooooo hard wanting someone to cuddle with but i can't keep thinking about it,

i get jealous with people i know and are wrapped in their boyfriends arms or just whispering
i don't want to live my life alone.....

love M

hopefully this won't be deleted

i want someone to sleep with at night, no sex or emotions involved. is that weird?

evenstar3 said:

Love your avatar

FuNkeNsteiN said:

thanks

someone that wraps his/her arms around you without words, a warm embrace you want to last forever.

BlueZebra said:

Christopher said:

evenstar3 said:

Not at all.

We don't sleep all cuddled up, we pretty much keep to our own sides when it comes to sleeping. But if he's not there, I can't fucking sleep worth a damn.

Christopher said:

x100

evenstar3 said:

I want the opposite, someone that I can fuck, then send on their way so I can rest in peace. Is that too much to ask?

BlueZebra said:

I googled eternal embrace
http://www.claudemariotti...736943.jpg

FuNkeNsteiN said:

So do I. So cute .

Being without someone to hug is hard .

evenstar3 said:

Holy shit, I used to drive 15 minutes from my base in Sembach German to Volgoway(sp?) just so I could sleep in the same bed as my friend Lisa. No sex, no interest--just someone to sleep with. It was the wierdest thing looking back, but at that time, we didn't think so.

ZombieKitten said:

Ya, is it weird to only want that?

I really have no idea what's going on with me but I seriously have no interest in loving male affection and what not.

It's sooooo different than what I used to be like. I used to crave it. Don't get me wrong, I still crave attention from men...just not all that mushy stuff.

Imago said:

In college my best friend and I used to take naps together. Completely non-sexual, but it was oddly very comforting.

If we're in the same bed, we.are.doing.it!

Christopher said:

CarrieMpls said:

bingo.

It felt like we 'belonged' to something when we did it
You have to picture 18/19 year olds, in a foreign country, with no relatives or friends from our 'real lives' around. We tended to bond very strongly, sexual, non-sexual, and everything in between. I remember napping with male friends, completely non-sexual, without even thinking about the 'wierd' aspects of it.

I think in your early 20s it's comforting. As you age, it tends to feel annoying if you don't get the nookie to go along with it sometimes.
Honestly last year, I had reached a point though where I didn't give a shit about the sex--I just wanted someone who would actually make me feel less lonely.

Lawd, life.

DanceWme said:

Hell naw

FunkMistress said:

I'm the exact same way.

ZombieKitten said:

yeah...me too!

CarrieMpls said:

When I was in sixth, seventh and eighth grade, my best friend and I used to sneak in each other's windows to sleep together.

JustErin said:

I think we all got that by now.

missmad said:

Wanna spoon?

hokie said:

As long as you don't steal the covers

eikonoklastes said:

Shut up.

missmad said:

i don't mean to be be mean, but i honestly believe this is a contributing factor to bad choices when entering a relationship. We all desire companionship, yes, but that greater the desire is, the easier it is to fall in to the arms of the nearest person available. And, of course, this in no way garentees that that person is a good pick. Only that they are/can be a quick fix to loneliness.... Though no one likes to hear it, I've come to believe the true challange and test to finding a good partner is to truly become comfortable being alone (to be alone without being lonely>) and by doing so, the serach becomes less urgent therefor causing the margin of error to go down. Not to mention as the old saying goes...the moment you stop looking, there it is....as far as I know there is no shortage of cuddle-buddies in the world (especially as far as men go) but if you find your self super-choosy about it then the what you rreally want isn't someone to cuddle with and the desire is much deeper...in conclusion, i know you'll hate me for this statement, but once you learn to overcome/not give a fuck about your fear of "dying alone" you'll realize that it is virtually impossible.