JustErin said:

fuck that! these are the same women who wonder why they've never really enjoyed sex or had an orgasm....they settle for "helping him arrive" by their early twenties and don't even consider the fact that they could have outerbody experiences if they put their minds to it

SirPsycho said:

Bingo!!! Poor girls don't know what they are missing.

Body and mind baby!!!

Hell yes...

SirPsycho said:

If it's in fact true it's very sad, because both men and women are missing out on so much.

shanti0608 said:

still rare cases (from my experience)...most women i've met were all talk...they may indeed enjoy giving head and turning me on...but it's like that shit has a time limit and all enthusiam and teamwork goes out to lyin on her back and screaming

shanti0608 said:

SirPsycho said:

Well I can only speak for myself... in that respect, if he is enjoying it and letting me know it, then I can keep going. Though I must admit that I do like to stop and switch it up with a little sex then go back to doing that for a while.

SirPsycho said:

I think it's totally rare as well.

I can't even begin to tell you how many guys have told me that they usually can't even get off with head because so many chicks either are horrible at it or are clearly disgusted doing it.

I even had one guy say to me once after I asked him what he liked, "shit, I dunno what to say...no other girl has ever asked me before".

shanti0608 said:

oh i didnt mean like she has to please me the whole time....i just mean i've seen the power shit from a playful back and forth "lets turn each other out thing" to "i'm just gonna lie here", or "i'll just stay in this position" before the 45 mins is up


but i know this is all relative to one persons experience

JustErin said:

That is where I think communication about your likes and dislikes really helps. I know it sounds silly but it does help in the long run.

I love to know what turns him on.

JustErin said:

so many toys/books/techniques/seminars and we (humans)'re so hopeless

JustErin said:

Wouldn't anybody, man or woman, want to know that ?

SirPsycho said:

None of that is even needed.

Just say what you want.

Unfortunately, I think many women don't even really want anything...or much. I just don't get it at all. I have had friends that have told me that they hated sex - HATED it. And others have told me that it feels like a chore, or that many times they are just to tired or stressed out to do it.

I personally don't get it. For something that feels so awesome and relieves so much stress...I don't understand how anyone could not be interested in it.

I don't think I have ever said no to someone I was involved with. Like ever...

Serious said:

Hell... that makes for good foreplay that can start in the morning and build all day as you think about what they like and think of ways to fulfill his wishes.

Serious said:

Not the ones that don't care, they are not interested.

JustErin said:

girl who you tellin



thats the type of shit that makes me start disrepectin every their exes


plus i lose respect for women who'll have sex when they dont want to. that angers me.

JustErin said:

I don't get it either, but people are different. Apart from that the only reason I can think of is that it may turn into a vicious circle if a woman may start to have sex without enjoying it and thus eventually loses interest in sex.

Serious said:

I will say that I have lost interest in having sex before. We were not very compatible. He was quiet, non responsive and high most of the time. I tried to get into it and enjoy it but it just was not happening.
It had nothing to do with him physically as far as size or anything, just the mental stimulation and also the way he was to me outside of the bedroom, transcended into the bedroom.
Damn... I am so glad that we are not still together.
Hopefully he is having awesome sex regularly like I am. Life is too short and we were too young to be living like that.

JustErin said:

I agree with that part as well. If you care about your partner and what makes you hot and him hot the sex will be hot as well. And if I wouldn't enjoy sex I wouldn't have it.

shanti0608 said:

Sure if just one person involved does care the sex will not exactly be mind blowing. Good for you (and Phil ) that you moved on with your life !

Serious said:

YEP!!!

Though by the sounds of it on this thread, you and I are pretty sexual compatible.

shanti0608 said:

Would we let Phil watch?

Serious said:

Good question... only if he promised to behave.

shanti0608 said:

Can he really be a good boy?

Serious said:

On rare occasions....

shanti0608 said:

That better be one of those !

Serious said:

Well I am sure we could think of a proper punishment if he misbehaves.

shanti0608 said:

But it has be to something that he sure won't be enjoying one way or another .

Serious said:

Well, that would be impossible.

In all honest this whole thread could have been done if sirpsycho had just orgnoted erin and asked her if she is lazy in bed.

Simple

mdiver said:

but where's the fun in that?