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Black Woman’s Hair Touched One Too Many Times Speaking of throwin' Bs. . .
(NEW YORK) Venitra Davies, an African American attorney at Dewey, Cheatum, and Howe, was escorted from her office building Monday after assaulting the firm’s new white office manager. According to New York City police office Tony De La Cruz, witnesses saw the two in the kitchen Monday making their morning coffee. “Then out of nowhere, Davies let out something like war cry before punching out the victim,” said De La Cruz. “I have no idea why she was so upset,” Abby Spitz, the target of Davies’ aggression, told De La Cruz after regaining consciousness. “All I did was say ‘Good Morning’ and then complimented her on her hair.” Davies told The Peoples News it was Spitz’s next comment and actions that pushed her over the edge. “Abby looked at me and said ‘Oh my gosh. Your hair is so curly. How’d you do that? Is it real?,’” said Davies, who had spent all day Saturday at the salon. “She then proceeded to raise her hand in the direction of my head.” That’s when the normally prim and professional Davies snapped and cold clocked her co-worker. Spitz, who had just started at the firm the week prior, had not been privy to the protocol around Davies’ hair. On an almost weekly basis Davies’ hairstyle can go from a sleek, short pageboy, to long and luscious, to an electrifying natural fro. Her white co-workers, who struggle to grow out bangs or end up looking like poodles after failed attempts at perms, don’t understand how Davies can pull off her quick changes. In fact, Spitz was not the first employee at the firm to have a too-close-for-comfort reaction to Davies’ varying styles. Cassidy Wankman, a senior partner, holds that honor. During an off-site retreat in 2003, Wankman absently ran his fingers through Davies’ hair when she was trying out the long sleek signature hairstyle of Naomi Campbell. “It looked so shiny I just had to touch it,” he said. “Venitra shot me a look and told me to never touch her hair. I knew she meant business.” But Wankman’s actions opened the door for other colleagues to satisfy their curiosity about Davies’ mane by reaching out and touching it. “I’ve asked them a thousand times, please don’t touch my hair,” says Davies, 37, who last year put a sign on her desk reading ‘Don’t Touch My Hair.’ “Abby caught me on the wrong day.” De La Cruz says one of the leading causes of office assaults is white people touching black women’s hair. “When black women get their hair done, it’s best to just say it looks nice and move on,” he says | |
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black, white, or whatever what makes people think that they have the right to put their hands on another person without their permission.
WHO THE FUCK CARES HOW IT LOOKS! You can't just pet a person because you're amazed at their hair. Black women are not pets and even with pets, you don't go touching them without permission either. | |
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I agree!I cant stand when people of any ethnicity touch my hair ESPECIALLY if I dont know them and my hair IS real [Edited 7/23/08 18:51pm] | |
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JasmineFire said: black, white, or whatever what makes people think that they have the right to put their hands on another person without their permission.
WHO THE FUCK CARES HOW IT LOOKS! You can't just pet a person because you're amazed at their hair. Black women are not pets and even with pets, you don't go touching them without permission either. [Edited 7/23/08 18:52pm] | |
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Ok, that WOULD be annoying, but... You can't go around punching people out. | |
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SCNDLS said: Speaking of throwin' Bs. . .
(NEW YORK) Venitra Davies, an African American attorney at Dewey, Cheatum, and Howe, | |
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SCNDLS said: JasmineFire said: black, white, or whatever what makes people think that they have the right to put their hands on another person without their permission.
WHO THE FUCK CARES HOW IT LOOKS! You can't just pet a person because you're amazed at their hair. Black women are not pets and even with pets, you don't go touching them without permission either. [Edited 7/23/08 18:52pm] | |
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evenstar3 said: SCNDLS said: Speaking of throwin' Bs. . .
(NEW YORK) Venitra Davies, an African American attorney at Dewey, Cheatum, and Howe, | |
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SCNDLS said: JasmineFire said: black, white, or whatever what makes people think that they have the right to put their hands on another person without their permission.
WHO THE FUCK CARES HOW IT LOOKS! You can't just pet a person because you're amazed at their hair. Black women are not pets and even with pets, you don't go touching them without permission either. [Edited 7/23/08 18:52pm] I've had guys try to do this to me, especially now that I wear my hair curly. i usually just duck my head out of the way and tell them not to touch me. | |
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I've never had this happen to me. I wish... | |
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evenstar3 said: SCNDLS said: Speaking of throwin' Bs. . .
(NEW YORK) Venitra Davies, an African American attorney at Dewey, Cheatum, and Howe, Exactly. This is the gag name of one of the joke firms mentioned at the end of "Car Talk" on NPR... | |
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honeypot69 said: I've never had this happen to me. I wish...
. . . a muthafucka would. | |
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ThreadBare said: evenstar3 said: Exactly. This is the gag name of one of the joke firms mentioned at the end of "Car Talk" on NPR... I this article real? | |
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SCNDLS said: honeypot69 said: I've never had this happen to me. I wish...
. . . a muthafucka would. yep yep | |
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honeypot69 said: ThreadBare said: Exactly. This is the gag name of one of the joke firms mentioned at the end of "Car Talk" on NPR... I this article real? I'm wondering. I saw the firm's name and thought... "Nahhhh... " | |
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evenstar3 said: SCNDLS said: Speaking of throwin' Bs. . .
(NEW YORK) Venitra Davies, an African American attorney at Dewey, Cheatum, and Howe, Oh Snap!!! [Edited 7/23/08 19:26pm] surviving on the thought of loving you, it's just like the water
I ain't felt this way in years... | |
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ThreadBare said: evenstar3 said: Exactly. This is the gag name of one of the joke firms mentioned at the end of "Car Talk" on NPR... Uh, that joke probably dates back at least half a century. | |
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Ace said: ThreadBare said: Exactly. This is the gag name of one of the joke firms mentioned at the end of "Car Talk" on NPR... Uh, that joke probably dates back at least half a century. Could be. Actually, it's a registered trademark of the show... | |
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People want to touch and sometimes do touch my hair all the time. | |
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ThreadBare said: Ace said: Uh, that joke probably dates back at least half a century. Could be. Actually, it's a registered trademark of the show... From Wikipedia: Dewey, Cheatem & Howe ("Do we cheat 'em? And how!") is the gag name of a fictional law firm, used in several parody settings. For example, a popular Three Stooges poster features the Stooges as bumbling members of such a firm (although the name was never used in an actual episode, "Dewey, Burnham, and Howe" was used). Similarly, mention of a firm by this name is employed by comic figures such as Johnny Carson, Groucho Marx and Daffy Duck. In Leisure Suit Larry 3, the protagonist must pay several visits to a firm by this name. The name pokes fun at the perceived propensity of some lawyers to take advantage of their clients. Many law professors perversely work "Dewey, Cheatem & Howe" into the hypotheticals presented on final exams, especially in professional responsibility and legal ethics courses. Click and Clack the Tappet Brothers, the pseudonyms of Tom and Ray Magliozzi of NPR's Car Talk radio program, named their corporation for managing the business end of Car Talk "Dewey, Cheetham & Howe." The DC&H corporate offices are located on a third-floor office, directly above the corner of Brattle and JFK Streets, in Harvard Square in Cambridge, Massachusetts. The office is clearly visible from the square and, like the show, is a perennial source of amusement to the denizens of Cambridge. The name is mentioned in the film One Night at McCool's during an early scene with Paul Reiser and Matt Dillon. The UK magazine Private Eye uses the similarly-inspired "Sue, Grabbitt and Runne" (sue, grab it and run) when satirising the legal profession, reflecting the magazine's experience defending from libel lawsuits. In the Simpsons episode "Bart the Fink" the family visits the law firm: "Dewey, Cheathem, Howe, & Weissmann" (the joke being that the addition of "Weissmann" ruins the pun). Similarly, on the sitcom 30 Rock there is a brief mention of the law firm "Dewey, Cheatham and Livingston". In a set of legal forms published for lawyers and other legal professionals, one fictitious law-firm name is "Skrewer, Widow & Children." In episode 4x02 of Gilmore Girls "Lorelai's First Day at Yale," Luke Danes tells a lawyer who represents his ex-wife that his lawyer was "Don Dewey; he works at the firm of Dewey, Cheatham and Howe." He also gives Dewey's phone number as 555-5555. When the lawyer says his bosses are going to learn about Luke's joking around, Luke replies, "Oh, come on; they've heard that one before." The champion standardbred race horse Deweycheatumnhowe takes his name from this pun. | |
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does all this apply to pubes as well??? | |
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roodboi said: does all this apply to pubes as well???
As long as it's not done in the workplace. | |
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SCNDLS said: roodboi said: does all this apply to pubes as well???
As long as it's not done in the workplace. girl, you can be at the top and bottom of my "totem pole" with that kinda talk.... | |
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A drunken man at a gay bar once yanked my hair on the back of my head. When I turned around to find out what the heck was happening, he proceeded to say "I thought it was a wig!" by way of explination. I hated that. |
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roodboi said: SCNDLS said: As long as it's not done in the workplace. girl, you can be at the top and bottom of my "totem pole" with that kinda talk.... | |
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CarrieMpls said: A drunken man at a gay bar once yanked my hair on the back of my head. When I turned around to find out what the heck was happening, he proceeded to say "I thought it was a wig!" by way of explination.
I hated that. | |
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CarrieMpls said: A drunken man at a gay bar once yanked my hair on the back of my head. When I turned around to find out what the heck was happening, he proceeded to say "I thought it was a wig!" by way of explination.
I hated that. That's when you proceeded to knock his ass out...right?! surviving on the thought of loving you, it's just like the water
I ain't felt this way in years... | |
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ThreadBare said: honeypot69 said: I this article real? I'm wondering. I saw the firm's name and thought... "Nahhhh... " yeah, i'm thinking it's not. | |
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KidaDynamite said: CarrieMpls said: A drunken man at a gay bar once yanked my hair on the back of my head. When I turned around to find out what the heck was happening, he proceeded to say "I thought it was a wig!" by way of explination.
I hated that. That's when you proceeded to knock his ass out...right?! exactly!I remember one time I was in line to get in this club.It was my 1st club experience and it was a teen club.So Im already nervous and the guy behind me twirls my hair thru his fingers and said..."...mmm she got sum purrrty hair" I proceeded to snatch my hair out his fingers and push his fingers away w/o even looking back | |
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