ok...so maybe not so much...but i do have a question which, i think may split people if you really stop to think of it...




is 69 (the imfamous sexual position) really fun? or is it just a mutual attempt at "special performance"?...

..."theatrics" if you will...




bare with me...


so we can all agree that head is nice, and with that said almost nobody is turning down "free" head...and yes i presume the notion of 69 is supposed to be teamwork and an instant "get" for what it is your "giving"...

but is it just me or does it always come out....unbalanced


i mean, by design, one side will always be overstimulated and stop working on their end right?

which brings to mind the possibility that whether or not both parties can admit it...they're more interested in recieving and would probably be happier lying on their back...or even just giving (if your the extra generous type)...but either postion is arguablly more comfortable...

not to mention, 69 always seems to place....things....at an angle that requires a little extra effort for access...









so yeah thats all...just popped in my head real quick so i thought i'd toss it in the air...

i still will most likely engage in 69 again, probably cuz i am a showoff and like to do "extra uneccesary shit"...but i thought it would be an interesting "position" on an all too familiar "exercise"




lets get it.

Sorry but I disagree, love the position, love the feel of whats goin' down (pun sorta intended but not really tho'), love the concept, love the results!

SCNDLS said:

why u hidin' fo?

well, i mean, you know - it beats someone taking a staple gun to your taint.

RenHoek said:

do you prefer it over serving or being served tho? (ie one head/one objective)

I dig 69 myself. I'm a voyeur so the visual is everything and there is plenty of that during 69. But back to your point, I agree. It's usually her that seems to stop in my experience. Not that I'm complaining, must be doing something right.

Anxiety said:

wow.



































i would....yes. i would think so.

SirPsycho said:

I have NO idea how I could possibly "inspire" a thread such as this.


But on the real, to answer your question. My experience has been that it's only enjoyable if you're on top because then it's more optional whether you reciprocate or not. I mean I can just sit there and let him do his thing and occassionally . . . uh. . . nevermind.

SCNDLS said:

right....unless a brotha chosin to get on top of yo ass....cuz that shit is damn near abuse

SirPsycho said:

And gravity ain't no joke. I mean damn a girl's gotta breathe.

SCNDLS said:

yeah...poor ladies....never let it be said we dont appreciate the effort..






clap it up fellas

SCNDLS said:

this is so unfair

i love it
it's always something fun to do - not all the time of course but it's a nice treat

only if i'm ontop, it looks hotter, turns each other on more, and more stuff gets done...

but about the stimulation, it'll always be one who gets theirs moreso than the other, i don't think that's really avoidable well, i'm sure it is, but i'm not there yet... (a tad insatiable, this one)

sammij said:

no shit.

BlueZebra said:

Sorry honey, but I'm kinda selfish. That's why I try to find guys that are "givers" and don't mind a selfish bitch like myself.

SirPsycho said:

i just like having fun. big fun.

SCNDLS said:

last time I checked I was still considered a giver. Don't think that will change anytime soon.

BlueZebra said:

Hey, you. . . where you at exactly????

sammij said:

you should come to jersey then

SirPsycho said:

one day...

but there's a lot of big fun right here in canada y'know
[Edited 7/14/08 16:06pm]

I definitely get distracted and can't do my "fair share".


I'd rather have a situation where I can concentrate on pleasing my partner and make sure that's my main focus.

Oh, but I love getting some good

I love getting! Yes! Please! More!


So givers get a big in my book.

SCNDLS said:

Belgium, girl. You passed your chance while you were in Rotterdam

BlueZebra said:

Actually I was supposed to be there right now but Shell cancelled the training the week before.

SirPsycho said:

Oh hell no! Serving or gettin' served is always preferable... allows one to sit back and enjoy...

Also on the whole gravity issue, ladies must be on top!

SCNDLS said:

Right, NSJ was past weekend wasn't it ?

BlueZebra said:

Yeah, $400 in show tickets down the muthafuckin' drain. Oh well.

SCNDLS said:

wtf, I would have bought those stupid !

BlueZebra said:

I didn't know.I still have one for Erykah Badu in Amsterdam next week.