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JustErin said: I still crave attention from men...
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SirPsycho said: missmad said: it is sooooo hard wanting someone to cuddle with but i can't keep thinking about it,
i get jealous with people i know and are wrapped in their boyfriends arms or just whispering 
i don't want to live my life alone.....
love M hopefully this won't be deleted i don't mean to be be mean, but i honestly believe this is a contributing factor to bad choices when entering a relationship. We all desire companionship, yes, but that greater the desire is, the easier it is to fall in to the arms of the nearest person available. And, of course, this in no way garentees that that person is a good pick. Only that they are/can be a quick fix to loneliness.... Though no one likes to hear it, I've come to believe the true challange and test to finding a good partner is to truly become comfortable being alone (to be alone without being lonely>) and by doing so, the serach becomes less urgent therefor causing the margin of error to go down. Not to mention as the old saying goes...the moment you stop looking, there it is....as far as I know there is no shortage of cuddle-buddies in the world (especially as far as men go) but if you find your self super-choosy about it then the what you rreally want isn't someone to cuddle with and the desire is much deeper...in conclusion, i know you'll hate me for this statement, but once you learn to overcome/not give a fuck about your fear of "dying alone" you'll realize that it is virtually impossible. Good advice. | |
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besides...its not like your ugly, so that helps | |
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LleeLlee said: Good advice. thanks. i had to learn to be alone without being lonely too, but once i did...alot of things changed | |
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ZombieKitten said: evenstar3 said: i want someone to sleep with at night, no sex or emotions involved. is that weird?
 I want the opposite, someone that I can fuck, then send on their way so I can rest in peace. Is that too much to ask?  Me too. Shake it til ya make it  | |
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i'm not weird!  | |
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I don't know if it's age or schizophrenia but I can take it or leave it. I think it has a lot to do with me being an only child. I can entertain myself. BUT yeah, sometimes I want TOTAL romance.....*sigh*. MyeternalgrattitudetoPhil&Val.Herman said "We want sweaty truckers at the truck stop! We want cigar puffing men that look like they wanna beat the living daylights out of us" Val"sporking is spooning with benefits" | |
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MIGUELGOMEZ said: I don't know if it's age or schizophrenia but I can take it or leave it. I think it has a lot to do with me being an only child. I can entertain myself. BUT yeah, sometimes I want TOTAL romance.....*sigh*.
Let's hear it for only children!!!!
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JustErin said: ZombieKitten said: I want the opposite, someone that I can fuck, then send on their way so I can rest in peace. Is that too much to ask? Ya, is it weird to only want that? I really have no idea what's going on with me but I seriously have no interest in loving male affection and what not. It's sooooo different than what I used to be like. I used to crave it. Don't get me wrong, I still crave attention from men...just not all that mushy stuff.  it's weird when you're married and there are no spare beds in the house except the one in the garage  | |
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shanti0608 said: MIGUELGOMEZ said: I don't know if it's age or schizophrenia but I can take it or leave it. I think it has a lot to do with me being an only child. I can entertain myself. BUT yeah, sometimes I want TOTAL romance.....*sigh*.
Let's hear it for only children!!!!
Woohoo!!!  MyeternalgrattitudetoPhil&Val.Herman said "We want sweaty truckers at the truck stop! We want cigar puffing men that look like they wanna beat the living daylights out of us" Val"sporking is spooning with benefits" | |
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ZombieKitten said: JustErin said: Ya, is it weird to only want that? I really have no idea what's going on with me but I seriously have no interest in loving male affection and what not. It's sooooo different than what I used to be like. I used to crave it. Don't get me wrong, I still crave attention from men...just not all that mushy stuff. it's weird when you're married and there are no spare beds in the house except the one in the garage cars ! you don't even have to call a cap to send them off. | |
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BlueZebra said: ZombieKitten said: it's weird when you're married and there are no spare beds in the house except the one in the garage cars ! you don't even have to call a cap to send them off. you send your wife off for a drive in the middle of the night?  | |
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ZombieKitten said: BlueZebra said: cars ! you don't even have to call a cap to send them off. you send your wife off for a drive in the middle of the night? no ... I'd never | |
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BlueZebra said: ZombieKitten said: you send your wife off for a drive in the middle of the night? no ... I'd never but it's OK for her to tell you to go for a drive? | |
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SirPsycho said: missmad said: it is sooooo hard wanting someone to cuddle with but i can't keep thinking about it,
i get jealous with people i know and are wrapped in their boyfriends arms or just whispering
i don't want to live my life alone.....
love M hopefully this won't be deleted i don't mean to be be mean, but i honestly believe this is a contributing factor to bad choices when entering a relationship. We all desire companionship, yes, but that greater the desire is, the easier it is to fall in to the arms of the nearest person available. And, of course, this in no way garentees that that person is a good pick. Only that they are/can be a quick fix to loneliness.... Though no one likes to hear it, I've come to believe the true challange and test to finding a good partner is to truly become comfortable being alone (to be alone without being lonely>) and by doing so, the serach becomes less urgent therefor causing the margin of error to go down. Not to mention as the old saying goes...the moment you stop looking, there it is....as far as I know there is no shortage of cuddle-buddies in the world (especially as far as men go) but if you find your self super-choosy about it then the what you rreally want isn't someone to cuddle with and the desire is much deeper...in conclusion, i know you'll hate me for this statement, but once you learn to overcome/not give a fuck about your fear of "dying alone" you'll realize that it is virtually impossible.   We don’t mourn artists because we knew them. We mourn them because they helped us know ourselves. | |
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ZombieKitten said: JustErin said: Ya, is it weird to only want that? I really have no idea what's going on with me but I seriously have no interest in loving male affection and what not. It's sooooo different than what I used to be like. I used to crave it. Don't get me wrong, I still crave attention from men...just not all that mushy stuff. it's weird when you're married and there are no spare beds in the house except the one in the garage yeah and add snoring to the equation and you get no sex & no sleep My Legacy
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you don't want someone just for the sake of having someone, believe me.
because one day you will wake up and realize that it's not enough. you will want someone who understands and appreciates you who you can in turn understand and appreciate. just having a warm form cuddling up in the bed isn't going to cut it down the line when they're getting on your last nerve and you're wondering if it's worth it to clean up after them all the time and put up with all their football watching, x-box playing, junk food wrappers all over the house nonsense. hold out for the one you will feel like you've known forever. it's a drag to not have what you want right now, but the patience is soooo worth it. | |
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NDRU said: ZombieKitten said: it's weird when you're married and there are no spare beds in the house except the one in the garage yeah and add snoring to the equation and you get no sex & no sleep that's me  | |
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ZombieKitten said: BlueZebra said: no ... I'd never but it's OK for her to tell you to go for a drive? oh, hell yes. | |
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ZombieKitten said: NDRU said: yeah and add snoring to the equation and you get no sex & no sleep that's me you know, I don't snore! uh, oh  My Legacy
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NDRU said: ZombieKitten said: that's me you know, I don't snore! uh, oh I know!!
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BlueZebra said: ZombieKitten said: but it's OK for her to tell you to go for a drive? oh, hell yes.  so you reckon I could do this too?  | |
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SirPsycho said: missmad said: it is sooooo hard wanting someone to cuddle with but i can't keep thinking about it,
i get jealous with people i know and are wrapped in their boyfriends arms or just whispering
i don't want to live my life alone.....
love M hopefully this won't be deleted i don't mean to be be mean, but i honestly believe this is a contributing factor to bad choices when entering a relationship. We all desire companionship, yes, but that greater the desire is, the easier it is to fall in to the arms of the nearest person available. And, of course, this in no way garentees that that person is a good pick. Only that they are/can be a quick fix to loneliness.... Though no one likes to hear it, I've come to believe the true challange and test to finding a good partner is to truly become comfortable being alone (to be alone without being lonely>) and by doing so, the serach becomes less urgent therefor causing the margin of error to go down. Not to mention as the old saying goes...the moment you stop looking, there it is....as far as I know there is no shortage of cuddle-buddies in the world (especially as far as men go) but if you find your self super-choosy about it then the what you rreally want isn't someone to cuddle with and the desire is much deeper...in conclusion, i know you'll hate me for this statement, but once you learn to overcome/not give a fuck about your fear of "dying alone" you'll realize that it is virtually impossible. ...The most lonely I've ever felt was while in a relationship.
I'll probably spend the rest of my life alone...and if so, I'm cool with that. Whatever happens, happens. I could never enter a relationship just in order to have one, and I would hate it if my family was trying to push me towards one just because they felt I needed one lol... | |
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Byron said: The most lonely I've ever felt was while in a relationship.
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SirPsycho said: besides...its not like your ugly, so that helps
she is totally beautiful! you should see her smile  | |
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SirPsycho said: missmad said: it is sooooo hard wanting someone to cuddle with but i can't keep thinking about it,
i get jealous with people i know and are wrapped in their boyfriends arms or just whispering
i don't want to live my life alone.....
love M hopefully this won't be deleted i don't mean to be be mean, but i honestly believe this is a contributing factor to bad choices when entering a relationship. We all desire companionship, yes, but that greater the desire is, the easier it is to fall in to the arms of the nearest person available. And, of course, this in no way garentees that that person is a good pick. Only that they are/can be a quick fix to loneliness.... Though no one likes to hear it, I've come to believe the true challange and test to finding a good partner is to truly become comfortable being alone (to be alone without being lonely>) and by doing so, the serach becomes less urgent therefor causing the margin of error to go down. Not to mention as the old saying goes...the moment you stop looking, there it is....as far as I know there is no shortage of cuddle-buddies in the world (especially as far as men go) but if you find your self super-choosy about it then the what you rreally want isn't someone to cuddle with and the desire is much deeper...in conclusion, i know you'll hate me for this statement, but once you learn to overcome/not give a fuck about your fear of "dying alone" you'll realize that it is virtually impossible. I agree with you completely  i don't hate you. i don't know you 2 hate you.
deep down i want to know someone and have someone know me thus the relationship not just some joe and harry. [Edited 7/15/08 19:19pm] | |
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ZombieKitten said: SirPsycho said: besides...its not like your ugly, so that helps
she is totally beautiful! you should see her smile awwwww thats is sweet Charlotte! | |
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SirPsycho said: besides...its not like your ugly, so that helps
thanks hun | |
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CarrieMpls said: ...take naps together. Completely non-sexual, but it was oddly very comforting.
I feel, being together like that is the essence of being in a relationship. Anything else is icing on the cake. | |
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ZombieKitten said: JustErin said: Ya, is it weird to only want that? I really have no idea what's going on with me but I seriously have no interest in loving male affection and what not. It's sooooo different than what I used to be like. I used to crave it. Don't get me wrong, I still crave attention from men...just not all that mushy stuff. it's weird when you're married and there are no spare beds in the house except the one in the garage We have a master bedroom and I have my own bedroom for those times I just HAVE to be alone | |
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