SCNDLS said:

Like one of the DN posters said, "C-Rod is now complaining about his cheating ways. This is the same woman who wore an FU t-shirt to Yankee Stadium and after she caught him cheating, went and got pregnant again. Before they even got married they were together for seven or eight years. It is difficult for me to believe he did not cheat back then. She must have been aware of his wandering ways, so why the heck did she marry him?....C-Rod runs to Paris and spends $100k with the trainer and leaves a 3 1/2 year old and a 2 month old with the nanny."

Please, I'm not buying the 'victim' crap.

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

If she signed a prenup and it still holds water, then she's entitled to whatever they agreed she'd get in the event of a divorce. His first team was the Mariners who drafted him straight outta high school but I don't know how much money he had. When he came to Texas 2000 his contract was worth over $250 million (he got most but not all of it) then he got another contract with the Yankees in 2004 for $275 million. They got married in 2002. So I believe the law states that she's entitled to half of his money after they got married and the prenup only applies to what he already earned. If anyone knows this to be different please correct me.

Now, when he got married he KNEW his money would be jeopardized if he fucked up and if he didn't initiate a POST-nuptial with her. Therefore, he coulda prevented this by not cheating (which is preferable) or stemmed the bleeding by getting divorced sooner. So maybe she doesn't DESERVE all that but the law says she's ENTITLED to it so why should she accept less especially since he's been blatantly cheating all along.

SCNDLS said:

Like one of the DN posters said, "C-Rod is now complaining about his cheating ways. This is the same woman who wore an FU t-shirt to Yankee Stadium and after she caught him cheating, went and got pregnant again. Before they even got married they were together for seven or eight years. It is difficult for me to believe he did not cheat back then. She must have been aware of his wandering ways, so why the heck did she marry him?....C-Rod runs to Paris and spends $100k with the trainer and leaves a 3 1/2 year old and a 2 month old with the nanny."

Please, I'm not buying the 'victim' crap.

And A-Rod was dumb for getting married in the first place. If you're a player at heart, why go through that sh!t? Just stay single, but these dudes never learn.

uPtoWnNY said:

I still don't see a response to my question about how she broke her wedding vows and what she did that doesn't make her an angel. So wearing a FU t-shirt justifies him flying all over the country to fuck strippers. Being aware of his cheating doesn't mean for all women that they walk out, regardless of how much money is involved. Also, according to her Myspace page, they only dated for 4 years before marrying most of which he was living in another state. So it's plausible that she had no idea he was cheating before they got married. As for her running to Paris, it kinda makes sense. I've seen video of how the press is stalking him all over NYC. She prolly wanted to take her kids out of that environment and figured it would be calmer overseas.

As for her running to Paris, it kinda makes sense. I've seen video of how the press is stalking him all over NYC. She prolly wanted to take her kids out of that environment and figured it would be calmer overseas.

SCNDLS said:

With Lenny Kravitz.

SCNDLS said:

If women are aware their man is cheating, it should not be used against him later in a divorce.

SCNDLS said:

With Lenny Kravitz.

SCNDLS said:

Oh I know what the law says but why does she fucking deserve half of his hard earnings. Let her slug some shit out of the ballpark if she wants to earn millions

SCNDLS said:

With Lenny Kravitz.

SCNDLS said:

Is there some proof of his cheating? What I read today says he wasn't.

and if he was, both of them are dumbasses.

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

Ummmm, why do folks get all up in arms about half when there are millions involved??? If I married a guy tomorrow and divorced him in 2 years, he'd be entitled to half the equity in MY house and rental properties that I already owned before we got married. I know several women that had to pay their exes alimony and give them half of their assets when the women were the primary breadwinners. Regardless of how much money is at stake the principle is still the same and cuts both ways.

Me personally, if I was divorcing a man because the shit just didn't work out and we could be amicable about it I wouldn't have a problem with saying, we both just leave with what we came with. BUT if that muthafucka cheated on me blatantly and neglected our children, you better believe I would accept whatever the law and the judge said I was entitled to. Call it vindictiveness or whatever but it is what it is. And all men, especially athletes and celebs with more to lose, know what's at risk. If they don't wanna pay, then don't play. Stay your ass single.

Stymie said:

He was caught with a stripper in Toronto I believe last year. THEN after it hit the papers he flew into Dallas with the same stripper from Canada and I saw them with my own two eyes at the Ghostbar. THEN he was seen at a local stripclub with the Canadian stripper getting lap dances. I also think there were reports of him in Las Vegas with this same stripper. So yeah he's BEEN cheating.

Ummmm, why do folks get all up in arms about half when there are millions involved??? If I married a guy tomorrow and divorced him in 2 years, he'd be entitled to half the equity in MY house and rental properties that I already owned before we got married. I know several women that had to pay their exes alimony and give them half of their assets when the women were the primary breadwinners. Regardless of how much money is at stake the principle is still th

sextonseven said:

SO, if she's not divorced, isn't that cheating?

SCNDLS said:

You my muthafucka, but this is fucked up.

Stymie said:

Who knows if Lenny's even at the house. Celebs lend each other their homes ALL the time. But, hey, if you gon' cheat then, I'd definitely pick Lenny.

Stymie said:

Who knows if Lenny's even at the house. Celebs lend each other their homes ALL the time. But, hey, if you gon' cheat then, I'd definitely pick Lenny.

And A-Rod was dumb for getting married in the first place. If you're a player at heart, why go through that sh!t? Just stay single, but these dudes never learn.

SCNDLS said:

Like one of the DN posters said, "C-Rod is now complaining about his cheating ways. This is the same woman who wore an FU t-shirt to Yankee Stadium and after she caught him cheating, went and got pregnant again. Before they even got married they were together for seven or eight years. It is difficult for me to believe he did not cheat back then. She must have been aware of his wandering ways, so why the heck did she marry him?....C-Rod runs to Paris and spends $100k with the trainer and leaves a 3 1/2 year old and a 2 month old with the nanny."

Please, I'm not buying the 'victim' crap.

Stymie said:

If the laws are so unfair then they should be changed. That's why I believe in fidelity clauses for both parties. If I ever married a celeb (which I never would cuz they get on my fuckin' nerves) I'd have a fidelity clause that states if the shit don't work out or we're incompatible or unhappy we can cut our losses and get divorced everybody leaves with what you came with. BUT if it's due to cheating that's your ass. Sorry.

SCNDLS said:

...and from what I hear, Lenny leaves 'em begging for more!

Someone told me C-Rod was in one of R.Kelly's sex-romp videos. Anyone know about this?

I don't know either of them personally, but I would venture to guess that they are both somewhat to blame. I say blame for lack of a better term. If in fact she has known, even before they married, that he was a habitual cheater then she loses smartness points for marrying him anyway. He obviously loses big points for chronically putting his dick where it doesn't belong.

uPtoWnNY said:

I heard that about Gary Sheffield's wife, not C-Rod.

hokie said:

I have no idea what's going on in their marriage, this whole thread is just fun speculation. BUT if you really love someone and they make a mistake and you both make earnest attempts to save the marriage why should the woman be considered stupid? Because she trusted and believed him after he said he'd never do it again? Besides, no one but her knows what she knew when. Like I said, he was in another state MOST of the time they dated. And if you know these players, they keep ho's in different states so she may not have had proof of his infidelities until recently. I'm just sayin she may not have been aware of his daliances (I've always liked that word ).

sextonseven said:

Yes, the gospel singer. She was in a video with Rrrrruh who she dated for years.