I can kinda relate.
By and large, I love life and feel very fortunate for how things have worked out for me. But at times, I do sense that my friends who maybe aren't happy with the way things are going in their lives don't necessarily wanna hear about a promotion or about your latest shopping spree or what have you. So by and large, I've learned to avoid certain topics with certain people. It's not a big deal by any means. I just kinda see it as, it is what it is. | |
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DanceWme said: Sometimes people cant stand stand to see u happy or hate it when ur at a point in ur life that they wish they were.
As long as ur not getting cocky or rubbing things in their face. But all u gotta do is keep on being happy. Dont let their little comments and negativity bring u down. They dont invite u out for drinks, fuck 'em. Go get a nice bottle of Jack Daniels and drink it with ur lover. And when ur drunk, go piss on ur so called friends doorsteps. If they were ur friends, they'd be happy for u. What? | |
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It happens. I think that maybe your "rubbing your glee" in her face was not intentional (if she is really your friend I doubt you'd purposely hurt her)but just you reflecting how you felt on the inside-happiness shows. Unless it was intentional-well then thats just fucked up. But if your friends love you they'll be happy that your happy and get over whatever it is thats going on with them. Give them time, they'll be okay. | |
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This hit hard for me...
I had three of the closest people to me STAB, rip out, chew up, and spit my heart out because I wasnt "lost" in their world. Thank god my husband knew first hand how close we girls were, because I would have lost my mind trying to figure out what the hell happened to my friends. Once I no longer pissed and moaned how AWFUL my life was they fuckin toasted me over with a blow torch i still sting from it and have not had a close girlfriend for many years... i miss having girlfriends ... | |
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ZAUBERFLOTE said: This hit hard for me...
I had three of the closest people to me STAB, rip out, chew up, and spit my heart out because I wasnt "lost" in their world. Thank god my husband knew first hand how close we girls were, because I would have lost my mind trying to figure out what the hell happened to my friends. Once I no longer pissed and moaned how AWFUL my life was they fuckin toasted me over with a blow torch i still sting from it and have not had a close girlfriend for many years... i miss having girlfriends ... Ahhhhh fuck em! | |
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Muse2NOPharaoh said: ZAUBERFLOTE said: This hit hard for me...
I had three of the closest people to me STAB, rip out, chew up, and spit my heart out because I wasnt "lost" in their world. Thank god my husband knew first hand how close we girls were, because I would have lost my mind trying to figure out what the hell happened to my friends. Once I no longer pissed and moaned how AWFUL my life was they fuckin toasted me over with a blow torch i still sting from it and have not had a close girlfriend for many years... i miss having girlfriends ... Ahhhhh fuck em! Thats all you can do. You can't stress over people's 'stuff'. we all got 'stuff' goin on [Edited 7/7/08 18:25pm] | |
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honeypot69 said: Muse2NOPharaoh said: Ahhhhh fuck em! Thats all you can do. You can't stress over people's 'stuff'. we all got 'stuff' goin on [Edited 7/7/08 18:25pm] and hopefully giving it a break they'll pull their head out of their butts and get it right with them and you. Staying in the game,in the moment however creates hard feelings. | |
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