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Reply #30 posted 07/05/08 10:10am

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ZombieKitten said:

angelcat said:



i feel you. i have found myself at 32, a mum of two, i work part-time but kids come first, but recently i have been wondering how i got here?

i know that i couldn't have the comfort i have without my partners job but i feel like i am now just somebodies mum or partner.

how did i get here????


exactly!!!
my last 9 years have been kind of a blur
at what point did I think having 3 kids would be fun nuts at what point did I lose my insanity lol


its really scary coming to that realisation.

what now?
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Reply #31 posted 07/05/08 10:48am

Ocean

ZombieKitten said:

angelcat said:



i feel you. i have found myself at 32, a mum of two, i work part-time but kids come first, but recently i have been wondering how i got here?

i know that i couldn't have the comfort i have without my partners job but i feel like i am now just somebodies mum or partner.

how did i get here????


exactly!!!
my last 9 years have been kind of a blur
at what point did I think having 3 kids would be fun nuts at what point did I lose my insanity lol
I went through a HUGE stage like this.....I had no idea who I was...I was defined by being a wife, mother, daughter and then to top it there were DNA test with my dad that said I wasn't his (a year later we found out the the test was wrong....mum always said it was) ...but during that period I lost it ...didn't know who or what I was ..just wanted and did runaway for a period
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Reply #32 posted 07/05/08 1:41pm

FunkMistress

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angelcat said:

FunkMistress said:

I wouldn't know what the fuck to do with myself. I derive so much meaning and purpose from taking care of other people and performing what I've defined as my duties in life.


i feel you. i have found myself at 32, a mum of two, i work part-time but kids come first, but recently i have been wondering how i got here?

i know that i couldn't have the comfort i have without my partners job but i feel like i am now just somebodies mum or partner.

how did i get here????


Oh, I meant it as a positive. I take real joy and comfort in what I described. Like I said, it's what I have defined as my duties, not what someone else has put on me.
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Reply #33 posted 07/05/08 1:49pm

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StillGotIt said:

I love being alone, but I also love being loved. I'd rather be loved than needed though.
I totally Agree! I would rather be loved, than needed!
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Reply #34 posted 07/06/08 7:30am

ZombieKitten

Ocean said:

ZombieKitten said:



exactly!!!
my last 9 years have been kind of a blur
at what point did I think having 3 kids would be fun nuts at what point did I lose my insanity lol
I went through a HUGE stage like this.....I had no idea who I was...I was defined by being a wife, mother, daughter and then to top it there were DNA test with my dad that said I wasn't his (a year later we found out the the test was wrong....mum always said it was) ...but during that period I lost it ...didn't know who or what I was ..just wanted and did runaway for a period

comfort
man what a tough time you must have been through cry
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Reply #35 posted 07/06/08 7:31am

ZombieKitten

angelcat said:

ZombieKitten said:



exactly!!!
my last 9 years have been kind of a blur
at what point did I think having 3 kids would be fun nuts at what point did I lose my insanity lol


its really scary coming to that realisation.

what now?


onwards and upwards!
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Reply #36 posted 07/06/08 9:34am

uPtoWnNY

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Would you feel like a free spirit or just unwanted?
hmmm


I'm pretty much a free spirit now - single, no kids, and the only person I'm responsible for is me. Love being alone and I wouldn't have it any other way.
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Reply #37 posted 07/06/08 10:05am

angelcat

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Ocean said:

ZombieKitten said:



exactly!!!
my last 9 years have been kind of a blur
at what point did I think having 3 kids would be fun nuts at what point did I lose my insanity lol
I went through a HUGE stage like this.....I had no idea who I was...I was defined by being a wife, mother, daughter and then to top it there were DNA test with my dad that said I wasn't his (a year later we found out the the test was wrong....mum always said it was) ...but during that period I lost it ...didn't know who or what I was ..just wanted and did runaway for a period


that must have been rough.

i do love my life, but just with my eldest starting school this september it has made me re-assess what i am doing.
so much of my time is spentlooking after my family that i am starting to panic about what i will do when they have moved on, i know that i am thinking way into the future but the first 5 years have flown.
i just think that now is the time for me to do something for myself.
i just don't know what? comfort comfort
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Reply #38 posted 07/06/08 12:52pm

Ace

uPtoWnNY said:

ZombieKitten said:

Would you feel like a free spirit or just unwanted?
hmmm


I'm pretty much a free spirit now - single, no kids, and the only person I'm responsible for is me. Love being alone and I wouldn't have it any other way.

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