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PrintableBlueZebra said: ZombieKitten said: I really think that misconception is a huge part in the downfall of many otherwise successful long-term relationships. I really believe it wears off, no matter who you are with, all it does is make you look for someone else, thinking it will be better with that person, when really if you do it the same way again, without work, it will wear off again. exactly. Hollywood fucked up our view on Love 
so it really would be better to just fuck around, without commitment, enjoy the short moments of bliss  If only I had known earlier  yup  | |
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BlueZebra said: ZombieKitten said: I really think that misconception is a huge part in the downfall of many otherwise successful long-term relationships. I really believe it wears off, no matter who you are with, all it does is make you look for someone else, thinking it will be better with that person, when really if you do it the same way again, without work, it will wear off again. exactly. Hollywood fucked up our view on Love
so it really would be better to just fuck around, without commitment, enjoy the short moments of bliss If only I had known earlier Yes! | |
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eikonoklastes said: Okay, I think I need to throw up now...
THERE you are. . . You REALLY scared me with all that talk about having feelings and being in love.  | |
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paintedlady said: If I am in love I can not be attracted to another person.
Are you the same? Is this just a woman thing? spell edit 
[Edited 7/1/08 21:44pm] being in love and being attracted to another are 2 different feelings. Personally, if Im in love then he is the one, thats it. But you can always admire.... Say it's just a dream...
U open up ur eyes and come 2 realize u simply imagined this So u lean over and give her a kiss Here on earth, here on earth, with u it's not so bad Here on earth, here on earth eye don't feel so sad Stay right here |
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As a guy here's a few thoughts;
- I'm in love and I notice hot women, it's instinctual. It's more like noticing a nice car or a mansion or a fine piece of art. "Yeah that's fine but what's the taxes/upkeep?" 
- Women that I've known that I just flirted with now are more aggressive because I've made a commitment to one woman, it must be that I have a confidence that I didn't have before when I was trying to get laid. I'd rather die than fuck-up what I've found though so whatever. - I've said this before but IMO, other women, the fine and the cool ones are just fantasies of what I would want if I didn't have the perfect person. I've chased attractive women my whole life and the majority, as human beings, are just fucked up because men have made them that way. As a decent person, you don't have a chance unless they've been raised in seclusion or with nuns. - On a physical stand point, guys want to fuck every woman...almost. Some have standards but there's a reason why prostitution is the oldest profession. We're wired to want to stick it in everything with a pulse. On this level, I'm no different but my mind steps in and says "would you want to hurt her like that?" or "why would you fuck-up a life of something great for an hour of fucking that?" Some guys don't have minds that step in, others think they'll never get caught. On both I KNOW better. | |
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ZombieKitten said: JasmineFire said: That's the kind of stuff I notice. I'm similar to you in that in order to be truly attracted to someone, I have to know them and click with them on a certain level. That kind of true attraction is rare for me. However, I don't need to get to know a man who looks good in his jeans when all I want to do is look at him in his jeans. He may be a jerk but that really doesn't matter to me because I'm not really interested in getting to know him when I have a perfectly good man at home. It's possible the male form doesn't really do it for me anyway, so an attractive guy would rarely even catch my attention, it might be more the way he moves, or the context I imagine him in. I have a group of guy friends that I love dearly, and we click on many levels, and have the best fun, but am I attracted to any of them? nope
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Slave2daGroove said: We're wired to want to stick it in everything with a pulse
I appreciate your honesty, but this kind of creeps me out  | |
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amorbella said: paintedlady said: If I am in love I can not be attracted to another person.
Are you the same? Is this just a woman thing? spell edit
[Edited 7/1/08 21:44pm] being in love and being attracted to another are 2 different feelings. Personally, if Im in love then he is the one, thats it. But you can always admire.... Yes exactly, being in love and being attracted to someone are different feelings... but I have never been able to become attracted to anyone or even notice another man enough to become attracted to him when I am in love. I never admire. No desire to do so. When I think of it, its rather odd to be so loyal. | |
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paintedlady said: amorbella said: being in love and being attracted to another are 2 different feelings. Personally, if Im in love then he is the one, thats it. But you can always admire.... Yes exactly, being in love and being attracted to someone are different feelings... but I have never been able to become attracted to anyone or even notice another man enough to become attracted to him when I am in love. I never admire. No desire to do so. When I think of it, its rather odd to be so loyal. creeeeepy! but same for me  | |
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ZombieKitten said: paintedlady said: Yes exactly, being in love and being attracted to someone are different feelings... but I have never been able to become attracted to anyone or even notice another man enough to become attracted to him when I am in love. I never admire. No desire to do so. When I think of it, its rather odd to be so loyal. creeeeepy! but same for me and I really wish I wasn't like that... too many opportunities past me by because of it. | |
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paintedlady said: ZombieKitten said: creeeeepy! but same for me and I really wish I wasn't like that... too many opportunities past me by because of it.damn 
you mean I could have been holding on to what I got but looking out for something better all this time?  instead of blind loyalty? | |
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Slave2daGroove said: As a guy here's a few thoughts;
- I'm in love and I notice hot women, it's instinctual. It's more like noticing a nice car or a mansion or a fine piece of art. "Yeah that's fine but what's the taxes/upkeep?"
- Women that I've known that I just flirted with now are more aggressive because I've made a commitment to one woman, it must be that I have a confidence that I didn't have before when I was trying to get laid. I'd rather die than fuck-up what I've found though so whatever. - I've said this before but IMO, other women, the fine and the cool ones are just fantasies of what I would want if I didn't have the perfect person. I've chased attractive women my whole life and the majority, as human beings, are just fucked up because men have made them that way. As a decent person, you don't have a chance unless they've been raised in seclusion or with nuns. - On a physical stand point, guys want to fuck every woman...almost. Some have standards but there's a reason why prostitution is the oldest profession. We're wired to want to stick it in everything with a pulse. On this level, I'm no different but my mind steps in and says "would you want to hurt her like that?" or "why would you fuck-up a life of something great for an hour of fucking that?" Some guys don't have minds that step in, others think they'll never get caught. On both I KNOW better. thought provoking as always..... men are so wired differently. I wonder if more women as they get older and wiser become this way as well... you know more open to wanting to screw everything in sight since it seems now to be a trend among mature singles. | |
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Slave2daGroove said: As a guy here's a few thoughts;
- I'm in love and I notice hot women, it's instinctual. It's more like noticing a nice car or a mansion or a fine piece of art. "Yeah that's fine but what's the taxes/upkeep?"
- Women that I've known that I just flirted with now are more aggressive because I've made a commitment to one woman, it must be that I have a confidence that I didn't have before when I was trying to get laid. I'd rather die than fuck-up what I've found though so whatever. - I've said this before but IMO, other women, the fine and the cool ones are just fantasies of what I would want if I didn't have the perfect person. I've chased attractive women my whole life and the majority, as human beings, are just fucked up because men have made them that way. As a decent person, you don't have a chance unless they've been raised in seclusion or with nuns. - On a physical stand point, guys want to fuck every woman...almost. Some have standards but there's a reason why prostitution is the oldest profession. We're wired to want to stick it in everything with a pulse. On this level, I'm no different but my mind steps in and says "would you want to hurt her like that?" or "why would you fuck-up a life of something great for an hour of fucking that?" Some guys don't have minds that step in, others think they'll never get caught. On both I KNOW better.  i enjoyed and agree with ur entire post..and im not even a man! due to the content i suggest you like this... | |
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ZombieKitten said: paintedlady said: and I really wish I wasn't like that... too many opportunities past me by because of it.damn
you mean I could have been holding on to what I got but looking out for something better all this time? instead of blind loyalty? blind loyalty is great if you two have something worthwhile to show for it.... and you two do.  look at those gorgeous kids | |
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paintedlady said: ZombieKitten said: damn
you mean I could have been holding on to what I got but looking out for something better all this time? instead of blind loyalty? blind loyalty is great if you two have something worthwhile to show for it.... and you two do. look at those gorgeous kids they're OK but geez school holidays sure are long  | |
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ZombieKitten said: paintedlady said: blind loyalty is great if you two have something worthwhile to show for it.... and you two do. look at those gorgeous kids they're OK but geez school holidays sure are long My teen is out for the summer too.... wait until they become teens! | |
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ZombieKitten said: Slave2daGroove said: We're wired to want to stick it in everything with a pulse
I appreciate your honesty, but this kind of creeps me out 
sorry Charlotte...if a man denies this he's lying or neutered... | |
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paintedlady said: Slave2daGroove said: As a guy here's a few thoughts;
- I'm in love and I notice hot women, it's instinctual. It's more like noticing a nice car or a mansion or a fine piece of art. "Yeah that's fine but what's the taxes/upkeep?"
- Women that I've known that I just flirted with now are more aggressive because I've made a commitment to one woman, it must be that I have a confidence that I didn't have before when I was trying to get laid. I'd rather die than fuck-up what I've found though so whatever. - I've said this before but IMO, other women, the fine and the cool ones are just fantasies of what I would want if I didn't have the perfect person. I've chased attractive women my whole life and the majority, as human beings, are just fucked up because men have made them that way. As a decent person, you don't have a chance unless they've been raised in seclusion or with nuns. - On a physical stand point, guys want to fuck every woman...almost. Some have standards but there's a reason why prostitution is the oldest profession. We're wired to want to stick it in everything with a pulse. On this level, I'm no different but my mind steps in and says "would you want to hurt her like that?" or "why would you fuck-up a life of something great for an hour of fucking that?" Some guys don't have minds that step in, others think they'll never get caught. On both I KNOW better. thought provoking as always..... men are so wired differently. I wonder if more women as they get older and wiser become this way as well... you know more open to wanting to screw everything in sight since it seems now to be a trend among mature singles. I think not. Viagra will make you want sex but love makes you want sex with your wife. The cutest are an old couple who still hold hands, hug and sneek a kiss in...I hope to be like them. 
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Slave2daGroove said: ZombieKitten said: I appreciate your honesty, but this kind of creeps me out
sorry Charlotte...if a man denies this he's lying or neutered... somebody right now wants to revoke your brotherhood card, for telling too much truth | |
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paintedlady said: Slave2daGroove said:
sorry Charlotte...if a man denies this he's lying or neutered... somebody right now wants to revoke your brotherhood card, for telling too much truth that's it, I'm sewing it shut celibacy here I come baby!!! | |
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paintedlady said: Slave2daGroove said:
sorry Charlotte...if a man denies this he's lying or neutered... somebody right now wants to revoke your brotherhood card, for telling too much truth
The mystery is women...maybe I need to start THAT thread? Let the learning begin... | |
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paintedlady said: Slave2daGroove said: As a guy here's a few thoughts;
- I'm in love and I notice hot women, it's instinctual. It's more like noticing a nice car or a mansion or a fine piece of art. "Yeah that's fine but what's the taxes/upkeep?"
- Women that I've known that I just flirted with now are more aggressive because I've made a commitment to one woman, it must be that I have a confidence that I didn't have before when I was trying to get laid. I'd rather die than fuck-up what I've found though so whatever. - I've said this before but IMO, other women, the fine and the cool ones are just fantasies of what I would want if I didn't have the perfect person. I've chased attractive women my whole life and the majority, as human beings, are just fucked up because men have made them that way. As a decent person, you don't have a chance unless they've been raised in seclusion or with nuns. - On a physical stand point, guys want to fuck every woman...almost. Some have standards but there's a reason why prostitution is the oldest profession. We're wired to want to stick it in everything with a pulse. On this level, I'm no different but my mind steps in and says "would you want to hurt her like that?" or "why would you fuck-up a life of something great for an hour of fucking that?" Some guys don't have minds that step in, others think they'll never get caught. On both I KNOW better. thought provoking as always..... men are so wired differently. I wonder if more women as they get older and wiser become this way as well... you know more open to wanting to screw everything in sight since it seems now to be a trend among mature singles. What mature singles are you hanging out with?? | |
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ZombieKitten said: paintedlady said: somebody right now wants to revoke your brotherhood card, for telling too much truth that's it, I'm sewing it shut celibacy here I come baby!!!  don't do it! keep it to hold change or...have more kids...
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Slave2daGroove said: ZombieKitten said: that's it, I'm sewing it shut celibacy here I come baby!!! don't do it! keep it to hold change or...have more kids...
 hey!!!!
naaah, either way, moths will fly out | |
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ZombieKitten said: Slave2daGroove said: don't do it! keep it to hold change or...have more kids...
hey!!!!
naaah, either way, moths will fly out What is your man's cell phone number!?!? WTF is up with that? It needs regualar attention, why doesn't he know that? What do I dial to call down under, like letters and numbers or what?  | |
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Slave2daGroove said: ZombieKitten said: hey!!!!
naaah, either way, moths will fly out What is your man's cell phone number!?!? WTF is up with that? It needs regualar attention, why doesn't he know that? What do I dial to call down under, like letters and numbers or what? I'm not sure, you put some 0000s in front or something | |
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What Jasminefire said.
I totally agree. MyeternalgrattitudetoPhil&Val.Herman said "We want sweaty truckers at the truck stop! We want cigar puffing men that look like they wanna beat the living daylights out of us" Val"sporking is spooning with benefits" | |
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JustErin said: paintedlady said: thought provoking as always..... men are so wired differently. I wonder if more women as they get older and wiser become this way as well... you know more open to wanting to screw everything in sight since it seems now to be a trend among mature singles. What mature singles are you hanging out with?? I just know too many old hos | |
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Slave2daGroove said: As a guy here's a few thoughts;
- I'm in love and I notice hot women, it's instinctual. It's more like noticing a nice car or a mansion or a fine piece of art. "Yeah that's fine but what's the taxes/upkeep?"
- Women that I've known that I just flirted with now are more aggressive because I've made a commitment to one woman, it must be that I have a confidence that I didn't have before when I was trying to get laid. I'd rather die than fuck-up what I've found though so whatever. - I've said this before but IMO, other women, the fine and the cool ones are just fantasies of what I would want if I didn't have the perfect person. I've chased attractive women my whole life and the majority, as human beings, are just fucked up because men have made them that way. As a decent person, you don't have a chance unless they've been raised in seclusion or with nuns. - On a physical stand point, guys want to fuck every woman...almost. Some have standards but there's a reason why prostitution is the oldest profession. We're wired to want to stick it in everything with a pulse. On this level, I'm no different but my mind steps in and says "would you want to hurt her like that?" or "why would you fuck-up a life of something great for an hour of fucking that?" Some guys don't have minds that step in, others think they'll never get caught. On both I KNOW better. My goodness. Yes. | |
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ThreadBare said: paintedlady said: ^^ LMAO @ that. Thanks for your honesty. Good points.
When it rains it pours huh? The stories I could tell ya. My twenties and early thirties were a straight-up romantic comedy. My best buddy keeps trying to get me to write about it. And, it wasn't like a "How to Be a Player" thing. It was romantic comedy. juggled women around, huh? i c ... you should write about it... | |
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