FunkMistress said: abierman said: People who say this are actually craving for a partner..... Bullshit Aksel, I was very happy when I was single and didn't mind saying so. I mean, I wasn't proclaiming it from the rooftops every day (that shit is suspect), but I was satisfied with my life. Of course, I feel even more satisfied and happy now, but I wasn't sitting around pining for a partner before I met my stallionesque lover. You have a way with words beautiful lady.... | |
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LleeLlee said: JustErin said: Oh come on! I love being single. That doesn't mean that I don't have relationships with others, it's just that I am not in a long term committed relationship - and I am certainly not craving it. I always thought single meant no relationships. I thought it meant 'not married' or not in a committed relationship. I think most people who are just dating people consider themselves to be single. | |
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JustErin said: LleeLlee said: I always thought single meant no relationships. I thought it meant 'not married' or not in a committed relationship. I think most people who are just dating people consider themselves to be single. Okay. I was happy single, but Im happier now. | |
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JustErin said: abierman said: People who say this are actually craving for a partner..... Oh come on! I love being single. That doesn't mean that I don't have relationships with others, it's just that I am not in a long term committed relationship - and I am certainly not craving it. Agreed! RIP, mom. I will forever miss and love you. | |
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JustErin said: LleeLlee said: I always thought single meant no relationships. I thought it meant 'not married' or not in a committed relationship. I think most people who are just dating people consider themselves to be single. That was always my understanding of it as well. RIP, mom. I will forever miss and love you. | |
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LleeLlee said: JustErin said: I thought it meant 'not married' or not in a committed relationship. I think most people who are just dating people consider themselves to be single. Okay. I was happy single, but Im happier now. I don't doubt that when I find someone I want to be totally committed to I will be happier too...well, maybe not happier but maybe a different happy. | |
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abierman said: psychodelicide said: Not in love, but that's perfectly okay. I don't need a man to make me happy anyway, I like being single.
People who say this are actually craving for a partner..... Such bullshit... [...i think i can, i think i can, i think i can...] | |
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Yes,yes and yes | |
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sammij said: abierman said: People who say this are actually craving for a partner..... Such bullshit... Isn't it? RIP, mom. I will forever miss and love you. | |
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psychodelicide said: sammij said: Such bullshit... Isn't it? Listen, I doubt he meant any real harm in saying that. I think that people just say that because they were miserable when they were single. Like I keep saying over and over on here....it's hard for some people to grasp the idea that not everyone thinks and feels the same way as they do. | |
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JustErin said: psychodelicide said: Isn't it? Listen, I doubt he meant any real harm in saying that. I think that people just say that because they were miserable when they were single. Like I keep saying over and over on here....it's hard for some people to grasp the idea that not everyone thinks and feels the same way as they do. Hopefully, abierman didn't mean any harm by it, because myself and others on this thread are not feeling his comment. I just didn't like his seemingly stereotypical comment, because what may be true for one person may not be true for everybody. It's true, a lot of people seem to be of the opinion that you need to have a soul mate or a partner to be happy. Which makes them marry the wrong person, just so they are not alone for the rest of their lives. I've seen that happen to members of my own family. But it's nice to know that not everybody feels that way. [Edited 7/2/08 14:41pm] RIP, mom. I will forever miss and love you. | |
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Too many people are either out there impregnating or getting impregnated by someone may not even be their significant other in every sense of the term. This is true for many of my young cousins within the immediate family, especially. Because of this, I'm glad to be one of the few single individuals walking on this turf with no temptations. I'm not ready for those temptations. Plus, looking at my cousins being in their slump, all the while ultimately bringing new life into their many inevitably non-precarious life-thriving situations really makes you think twice about wanting to have relations with the first hottie you meet. This sig is just a fig of your imago-neigh-shun | |
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