Remember that bitch I was ranting about? It's finally over! She told me to remove a facebook tag of a kid pic of herself, but the way she told me was so dramatic and childish, accusing me of making it look bad for her reptuation, so I acted stubborn and told her to get over it. If she asked me to just do it without saying all this stuff about how I'm making her look bad, I would have, but I'm annoyed with her anyways and her narcissistic personality. She called me mean and said not to talk to her again. Ding dong, the bitch is dead!

And no, she didn't come to my party, she didn't like the club I chose and was trying to talk me out of going to that one and telling me to phone everyone an hour before it to change it, I said no and she didn't come. Good thing too, it was the best night I'd had in ages and everyone loved my choices. I don't have picky friends anyways, they know how to have fun wherever we go, too bad she's miserable.
[Edited 6/29/08 16:31pm]

what?

alphastreet said:

Uh huh

Uh huh

I told you that bitch crazy

Uh huh

Mars23 said:

alpha,, I remember ur story. Good 4 u.

I'm happy too, but at the same time I really made her feel miserable over the pic, and want to just tell her everything that was on my mind, but I don't know how to do that without bashing her personality, cause I can't change her no matter how many times she thinks she can "advise" me on everything that's unnecessary.

alphastreet said:

How old are you both?

in our mid 20's, but I know we sound young. I don't usually act like that, she does, but when she does, I myself regress cause she just gets on my nerves!

in the kid pic, we were 10. She was so stressed over her flowery bell bottoms and hair tied back.

I also forgot to mention that I finally told her she is nothing special and I'm not removing the pic, cause no one else had issues with their pic, and it wasn't a terrible one at all or I wouldn't have put it up in the first place. That's when she said not to message her again after requesting a few times and I said no LOL
[Edited 6/30/08 2:30am]

alphastreet said:

ok, I just wondered. I wasn't sure how to respond and did assume you were younger.

Isn't it funny how some people can just "get" to us by the things they say or the way they say them? I have the same in my life with certain people, where I react negatively to things they say or do where I wouldn't if someone else had said or done the exact same thing.

My honest belief is that those people we have the most difficulties with are the ones we can learn the most from - there is something within you that makes you react the way you do to your cousin's behaviour, and vice versa. If you look within, I'm sure you will find lessons you can learn.

And now I know you're old enough to take it, here's my opinion, for what it's worth ... families shouldn't fall out over such trivial things. So, she's prone to drama? You've just made it a whole lot worse by reacting in a similarly dramatic way. Wouldn't it have been cooler if you'd taken a more mature line, removed the picture that offended her and asked her to send her one she preferred instead? Have you tried to understand why she objected to the picture so much? And if she is controlling, perhaps there's a reason why - we all have reasons for the way we are.

Anyway, I hope you two can sort this out - like I said, familes shouldn't fall out over silly things like this.

rasplicious said:

Oh yeah she's always been controlling and we have unresolved teenage issues anyways. We stopped talking for about 5 years as a result then put it behind us and started talking again when we were like 21. I know I reacted the way I did cause of a buildup of recent things about her that annoyed me and it's more than the pic. I've taken down stuff she didn't like before and I agreed, but she always bashes how she used to look before though for a kid, she dressed pretty cool, and probably better than now.

My family thinks I'm being immature about it more than her actually and I'm laughing at how pathetic it is, but even if this incident gets forgotten, she's still a picky bitch. She was upset I sent her an invite to my party a month early and kept bringing it up and whining while my other friends were happy to be invited and made sure they were free to come. I had a good turnout as a result of planning in advance. Sometime before then, everyone loved my new hairdo except her and tried to convince me to get rid of it, what kind of person does that? I got too many compliments so I know it's not a lie, and the important thing is I myself like it. And she's someone who does not experiment with her look like I do, and has looked the same for the past 10 years with a few bad dye jobs in between that people who went to her school that I know laughed at her for it, and I felt bad that time.

I'm sure I could learn stuff from her, she has taught me a lot before, but she has also taught me I don't want to be anything like her at all right now. We don't even enjoy the same things, she doesn't know how to let go and have fun unless it's with her friends and she feels like one of those ditses on sex and the city or the hills, she also thinks she's better than everyone else and makes that known. However, though I am more down to earth than her in general, I sure don't feel like it right now and feel competitive with her whenever she says anything to get me going.
[Edited 6/30/08 2:55am]
[Edited 6/30/08 2:59am]
[Edited 6/30/08 3:01am]
[Edited 6/30/08 3:02am]

alphastreet said:

YOU HAD A PARTY AND I WASN'T INVITED?!

Then it really wasn't a party if I wasn't there

I heard you can get lives at Target ... and you might even get a reduction if you both take one

hahah I'm thinking I should apologize but I also want to tell her what's on my mind, but I'm not sure how to do it without pissing her off more.