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Stymie said:

JustErin said:

That's right , bitch.

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I'm in love. mushy

You know. If I was into girls I could probably be really dominant with another woman, enjoy it even! I do like bossing people around! biggrin

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Reply #31 posted 06/26/08 8:39am

Tremolina	100% Dominator here.
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Reply #32 posted 06/26/08 8:40am

eikonoklastes

JustErin said:

If I was into girls I could probably be really dominant with another woman, enjoy it even! I do like bossing people around! biggrin

Let's have a threesome with another chick. You can boss her around, push her head over my dick til she gags, pull her hair, forced ATM, smack her around a bit....of course I will treat you no better than you treat her, but you won't have to perform any sexual acts on her.

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Reply #33 posted 06/26/08 8:41am

Anxiety	i think an effective submissive is the one who's actually in control. the dominant can only dominate as much as the submissive will allow.
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Reply #34 posted 06/26/08 8:47am

eikonoklastes	Anxiety said: i think an effective submissive is the one who's actually in control. the dominant can only dominate as much as the submissive will allow. But a good Dom can expand the sub's boundaries.
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Reply #35 posted 06/26/08 8:51am

Mach	SirPsycho said: dominate or submit? simple as that I would rather not pick one over the other because I enjoy both I rather stay open to the in the moment choices as the act unfolds Preset thoughts and expectations are so limiting
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Reply #36 posted 06/26/08 8:52am

Anxiety	eikonoklastes said: Anxiety said: i think an effective submissive is the one who's actually in control. the dominant can only dominate as much as the submissive will allow. But a good Dom can expand the sub's boundaries. true, which is another benefit of being a sub. it's very theraputic!
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Reply #37 posted 06/26/08 9:09am

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Anxiety said:

eikonoklastes said:

But a good Dom can expand the sub's boundaries.

true, which is another benefit of being a sub. it's very theraputic! biggrin

but that is also the danger... many subs i met have unresolved problems and it really seems not very wise to play games in that condition.

yes SIR!

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Reply #38 posted 06/26/08 9:37am

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eikonoklastes said:

JustErin said:

If I was into girls I could probably be really dominant with another woman, enjoy it even! I do like bossing people around! biggrin

Oh my...

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Reply #39 posted 06/26/08 9:40am

thekidsgirl

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both.

but on alternating days of the week

If you will, so will I

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Reply #40 posted 06/26/08 9:42am

thekidsgirl

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doubleup
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If you will, so will I

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Reply #41 posted 06/26/08 9:53am

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eikonoklastes said:

Anxiety said:

i think an effective submissive is the one who's actually in control. the dominant can only dominate as much as the submissive will allow.

But a good Dom can expand the sub's boundaries.

Right on both counts.

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Reply #42 posted 06/26/08 10:20am

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JustErin said:

eikonoklastes said:

But a good Dom can expand the sub's boundaries.

Right on both counts.

the real fun starts of course when the sub feels he (or she for that matter) has no control.

i think it all has to do with the "frame" that has been set beforehand.

yes SIR!

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Reply #43 posted 06/26/08 10:34am

Anxiety	dawntreader said: Anxiety said: true, which is another benefit of being a sub. it's very theraputic! but that is also the danger... many subs i met have unresolved problems and it really seems not very wise to play games in that condition. does a dom need to have good sub-dar in order not to end up with subs with issues?
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Reply #44 posted 06/26/08 10:49am

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Anxiety said:

dawntreader said:

but that is also the danger... many subs i met have unresolved problems and it really seems not very wise to play games in that condition.

does a dom need to have good sub-dar in order not to end up with subs with issues?

Wait, what kind of unsolved problems? Like them having an unfinished rubik's cube that they just can't seem to figure out?

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Reply #45 posted 06/26/08 11:01am

SirPsycho	dawntreader said: JustErin said: Right on both counts. the real fun starts of course when the sub feels he (or she for that matter) has no control. i think it all has to do with the "frame" that has been set beforehand. ...even when i know, a believable performance'll get you a home cooked dinner, word up
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Reply #46 posted 06/26/08 11:03am

baroque	like are we talking about S&M, cause if thats the case i woudn't mind wearing a leather dress and submit..is that weird? [Edited 6/26/08 11:03am]
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Reply #47 posted 06/26/08 11:06am

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baroque said:

like are we talking about S&M, cause if thats the case i woudn't mind wearing a leather dress and submit..is that weird?
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It could mean S&M, bondage, and all that roll playing stuff...but it doesn't have to.

I'm the ultimate sub but I'm not into all that dressup stuff or whips and chains.

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Reply #48 posted 06/26/08 11:32am

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Anxiety said:

dawntreader said:

but that is also the danger... many subs i met have unresolved problems and it really seems not very wise to play games in that condition.

does a dom need to have good sub-dar in order not to end up with subs with issues?

yes Sir!

yes SIR!

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Reply #49 posted 06/26/08 11:32am

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JustErin said:

Anxiety said:

does a dom need to have good sub-dar in order not to end up with subs with issues?

Wait, what kind of unsolved problems? Like them having an unfinished rubik's cube that they just can't seem to figure out?

yes SIR!

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Reply #50 posted 06/26/08 11:33am

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JustErin said:

baroque said:

like are we talking about S&M, cause if thats the case i woudn't mind wearing a leather dress and submit..is that weird?
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It could mean S&M, bondage, and all that roll playing stuff...but it doesn't have to.

I'm the ultimate sub but I'm not into all that dressup stuff or whips and chains.

yes SIR!

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Reply #51 posted 06/26/08 11:40am

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dawntreader said:

JustErin said:

It could mean S&M, bondage, and all that roll playing stuff...but it doesn't have to.

I'm the ultimate sub but I'm not into all that dressup stuff or whips and chains.

A little bit of bondage looks fun though.

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Reply #52 posted 06/26/08 11:44am

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JustErin said:

dawntreader said:

A little bit of bondage looks fun though.

feels good too!

yes SIR!

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Reply #53 posted 06/26/08 11:48am

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Mach said:

SirPsycho said:

dominate or submit?

simple as that

I would rather not pick one over the other lol

because I enjoy both

I rather stay open to the in the moment choices as the act unfolds

Preset thoughts and expectations are so limiting bored

well said.... clapping

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Hi Mach!!

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Reply #54 posted 06/26/08 11:50am

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Stymie said:

JustErin said:

That's right , bitch.

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I'm in love. mushy

you know, I still have that digicam on a tripod....jus sayin....mementos for prosperity's sake and all..... lol

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