I've always fantasized about dating an older man. I never had the opportunity. I would do it. Only to a certain point though. Probably at this point 10-15 years older would be my limit. I wouldn't be completely set on that though because you never know about love. Sometimes it has a mind of it's own.

I've never really thought about dating a younger guy. He would have to be very mature and responsible for me to go for it.

I'm more attracted to guys my age or a few years older. But I attract younger guys

I keep reading this title as "Anal Gape".

I need to lay off the porn me thinks.

JustErin said:

woman after me own heart.....:

when i was 24, i dated someone who was 39.

and when i was 30, i MIGHT have dated someone who was 19.

to be honest, the whole age thing was more of an annoyance than a turn-on, in both situations. i don't like dating outside of my generation. i want people to know my pop-culture references and i like having the same very basic life experiences in common. i don't need to know what it was like in the old timey days or what's hip with the kids these days, at least not during sexy times.

Anxiety said:

You mean... ed?
[Edited 6/25/08 17:51pm]

hokie said:

HE WAS PERFECTLY LEGAL!!!!

Anxiety said:

OMG...he was barely out of highschool!!!

hokie said:

true, but he WAS out of high school!

would it help if i told you it was the same guy i dated when i was 24 and he was 39? see, he had a rare condition that made him age backwards.

don't do the math, please.

Anxiety said:

A girl I've been seeing for some time now is 13 years younger than me. Neither one of us even acknowledges the age difference. I just think that things like that are so unimportant.

Anxiety said:

Anxiety said:

Anx!!! You hussy you!


My opinion of you has really gone downhill.


See, this is why I'm not spilling all my shit all over the org.

hokie said:

oh, come on, it was a long time ago. i'm pretty sure he's at least old enough to vote now.

Anxiety said:

You said he was 19 at the time.

hokie said:

i kid, i kid! i'm a kidder!

yeah, and i was 30. and it was the year 2000. he's basically almost as ready for AARP as i am now in 2008.

Anxiety said:

You're older than me!

hokie said:

i'm older than everyone, quit reminding me before i sic my beard of bees on you, grandchild.

Anxiety said:

I don't like bees! I'm scurred!

someone here mentioned the "half your age plus 7 years" rule
and i think it works pretty much in any scenario.
of course, if you are dating older then use his age to figure it out lol.

36/2=18+7=25

56/2=28+7=35

so using that formula my age range would be 25 on the low end of the scale
and 56 on the high end. (a 21 year gap.) although personally i think i would
stick more to 30 to 45

Older about 12 and younger about 3 years difference.

Biggest age gap...7 yrs younger.

14 year younger.....it was quite good!

I was dating someone much younger... but everyone thought she was older and I was younger...

and on a knowledge and lifestyle level, she was years ahead of others her age.

but, young people do go through big changes in their 20's... no matter how in tune they seem with you. Makes a long term thing very risky.

ufoclub said:

Hey, I'm old.

emm said:

40 is a good age for you....