I recently reconnected with a girl I was friends with in high school
and we had been talking and IMing alot...

So naturally I suggested that we get lunch together, so I drove the 40 miles to her place and we had a nice time hanging out.

Well then she started contacting me all the time, and wanting to go out to lesbian clubs every week (she's a lesbian), and everytime I got on the computer I'd have tons of messages from her

...Well to make a long story short...I started avoiding her because I can't handle 'clingy' people, and last night we had a big fight because she wanted to me to go to a pride festival with her, and I was just burned out on her so I kinda just dodged her call...

I admit, that I should have been straight foreward and said to her that I just needed her to back off

but I feel like she was waaayy tooo sensitive
I can't deal with that

so she dramatically told me last night to loose her number and 'unfriend' her on myspace, etc.
then she proceeded to throw out all these insults at me and I just kinda laughed cause they were some good jabs...then she got mad at that!

So in conclusion...

I often wonder why guys are so hard to figure out, but compared to girls, guys are open books! GIRLS ARE PSYCHO!

who agrees?

I agree with u.

Females are just too damn much. Thats why 80% of my friends are guys.
We talk tooooo much and are way too sensitive.


BUT...maybe she wanted to be more than friends with u and felt u didnt want that so of course..she's pissed!

most of my close friends are females, but they tend to be the kinds of females who like hanging out with guys more than girls. i don't know what that means, but there you go.

she sounds fucking crazy

Anxiety said:

mmmm hmmm

"clingy" people... i had my share of that too.

I'm thankful that my female friends are nothing like this.

They're awesome like me.

theodore said:

Anxiety said:

JustErin said:

That was my thought as well.

All ny friends at uni are girls and from that I've experienced from anecdotes my girl friends have told me that with (and between) girls, it is everything that *isn't* said that is important to girls.


Well.


How fucking stupid.

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Spookymuffin said:

The obvious shouldn't have to be stated!

Girls can be crazy. I have never understood the following ladies:

Your man has some girl who either likes him and flirts all the time, he's cheated on you with or is his ex. Why is it girls get mad at the other girl and not the guy seeing as he does nothing to stop such behavior.

Spookymuffin said:

you're on repeat

superspaceboy said:

Because they know the games girls play and they are pissed that their game wasn't good enough

superspaceboy said:

I've never understood this either. As far as I'm concerned, they're both at fault, but I'd be more pissed at my man for engaging such behavior than I would for some random lady for trying.

CarrieMpls said:

When my first ex Paul and I took some time apart to "figure things out" he started seeing some guy and I saw them at the club and this guy comes over to me telling me no hard feelings and he doesn't have any problems with me and I looked at him like are you fucking kidding me? you're with my fucking boyfriend! I just told him

Look, my problem is with him, not you.

But I just wanted to clear the air

Um, again my problem is with him not you. Leave me alone and everything is fine

I didn't take it out on him because without my exes actions this guy couldn't have gotten anywhere near him.

Later that night I fought him and his friend in the parking lot cuz he wouldn't take my advice and stay out of my face

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CarrieMpls said:

That's what I would think. I've had concersation with girls who are going on about this girl or that girl "Who know I'm dating him...what's her deal?" When really it's probably the guy who is equally to blame and probably either festers it or does NOTHING to stop the behavior.

superspaceboy said:

OH MY GOD!!! I ALWAYS HAVE THIS ARGUMENT WITH PEOPLE!!!!

1) They should be mad at their partner.

2) If they don't trust that person, what the hell are they doing with them?

I have dated both, and in general, women are CRAZY.

I'll console you.

I had this guy who would call me 3 or 4 times a day..so I ended up not picking up the phone...the next day at work he would ask me if I'm mad at him. He drained me...

Is this about dating women or hanging out with a clingy friend? I've never had friends who were clingy like that. We do our own thing and hook up whenever. If one decides to do something else then its whatever see ya whenever I know some women who are crazy like that but then again I know some men who are crazy like that too so
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I had a friend back in the day name who was like. She was always with unavailable men (married or with long term girlfriends they had no intention of leaving). and when they were not available she would have a fit. I think that it boils down to someone lacking something in their lives and using whomever they've attached themselves to as some sort of surrogate for whatever it is they are missing in their lives, be it friends, a lover, a father figure etc, etc. Its not an emotionally healthy thing. Its a good thing you got out of it. Sounds like it could've easily turned toxic

honeypot69 said:

i think this clingy friend had a crush on her and wasn't handling it well.

JasmineFire said:

oh ok. I see. Well that unfortunate. lucky she's not boiling any rabbits

honeypot69 said:

boiling rabbits? like voodoo?

JasmineFire said:

fatal attraction comes more to mind

honeypot69 said:

i'm a dummy when it comes to movies.