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PrintableThreadBare said: DevotedPuppy said: Okay so what do I write when I email him back? "A drink sounds great, give me a call sometime: 777-9311." <--not my real number, unfortunately.
Yup. Sounds good to me. 2-3 sentences tops! Christian Zombie Vampires | |
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Okay, I wrote the email based on what you all said, but I am too chicken to send it.  It has been in my "draft" folder all morning. I will send it later....maybe. | |
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superspaceboy said: DevotedPuppy said:  Ooooh, I like this idea. That puts the ball back into his court. I hate being the one who has to make decisions when other people are involved (indecisive Gemini hazard).
Although maybe he is not interested because he did have my email too; but I am the one that emailed him first. Plus he works for a very big, well-known finance company in New York, those types are always trying to "network" with people (although I have nothing to offer business wise). I guess if he calls, I'll just look at it as free alcohol!  Stop thinking about it too much.
How do you not think about it? It's pretty simple really. | |
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I'm with Erin - you can't really tell which way he's leaning BUT he probably wouldn't have suggested meeting again if he wasn't at least curious. Go out w/ him, see where it goes, don't get too excited (unless the evening warrants some excitement)    I never met you, but I LOVE you & I will forever!! Thank you for being YOU - my little Princey, the best to EVER do it | |
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JustErin said: superspaceboy said: Stop thinking about it too much.
How do you not think about it? It's pretty simple really. I meant overthink it. Christian Zombie Vampires | |
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LADIES..
We men aren't so complicated. This is a no-brainer. He. Is. Interested. Next.  | |
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HMM
I have to doff my hat to JustErin. Listen to her young uns... she knows. JustErin said: thekidsgirl said: agree 
I've been out on a bunch of "non-date dates" and they usually lead to great friendships ...but hey, you never know. Maybe you guys will click and the next time out will be a date-date I've never been on non-date dates with guys I've just met. I find it difficult to believe that a guy would actively pursue a woman just to be their friend. | |
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superspaceboy said: JustErin said:
How do you not think about it? It's pretty simple really. I meant overthink it. Yes, I know...but I can't see how what I said was really over thinking it.... | |
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JustErin said: superspaceboy said: I meant overthink it. Yes, I know...but I can't see how what I said was really over thinking it.... I think ssb's "overthinking it" comment was directed at me, not you. | |
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JustErin said: thekidsgirl said: agree
I've been out on a bunch of "non-date dates" and they usually lead to great friendships ...but hey, you never know. Maybe you guys will click and the next time out will be a date-date I've never been on non-date dates with guys I've just met. I find it difficult to believe that a guy would actively pursue a woman just to be their friend. Thats how I met most of my guy friends... by them just casually saying, something like "hey wanna get lunch tomorrow?" or something like that after meeting at school or at work. If you will, so will I | |
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Well, I guess
a. it wasn't a date b. he wasn't interested because I haven't heard anything since I emailed him my number the following day.
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DevotedPuppy said: Well, I guess
a. it wasn't a date b. he wasn't interested because I haven't heard anything since I emailed him my number the following day.
. [Edited 7/1/08 9:49am] awwwww.... I was wondering what happened. |
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MEN CAN BE...
Odd. | |
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papaaisaway said: MEN CAN BE...
Odd. He's gay.  | |
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DevotedPuppy said: Well, I guess
a. it wasn't a date b. he wasn't interested because I haven't heard anything since I emailed him my number the following day.
. [Edited 7/1/08 9:49am] You've got your answer though. Time to move on to the next one! | |
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DevotedPuppy said: Well, I guess
a. it wasn't a date b. he wasn't interested because I haven't heard anything since I emailed him my number the following day.
. [Edited 7/1/08 9:49am] I met you and I'll say he missed out. | |
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thekidsgirl said: JustErin said: I've never been on non-date dates with guys I've just met. I find it difficult to believe that a guy would actively pursue a woman just to be their friend. Thats how I met most of my guy friends... by them just casually saying, something like "hey wanna get lunch tomorrow?" or something like that after meeting at school or at work. Almost all of my female friends are women in which I've been interested at first and for some reason or another things didn't work out. Maybe your guy friends were interested in you and you didn't know it? | |
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DevotedPuppy said: Well, I guess
a. it wasn't a date b. he wasn't interested because I haven't heard anything since I emailed him my number the following day.
. [Edited 7/1/08 9:49am] Are you sure he's not doing that "I have to wait 3 1/4 days to call her." thing? It's so silly to me. MyeternalgrattitudetoPhil&Val.Herman said "We want sweaty truckers at the truck stop! We want cigar puffing men that look like they wanna beat the living daylights out of us" Val"sporking is spooning with benefits" | |
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newpower99 said: He's gay.
sextonseven said: I met you and I'll say he missed out. Thanks. I didn't want to say that & sound conceited, but I won't disagree with you.  (Was the Nikka Costa concert last night? How was it?)
MIGUELGOMEZ said: Are you sure he's not doing that "I have to wait 3 1/4 days to call her." thing? Maybe, but I emailed him about a week ago. Maybe he didn't want to call that weekend (too soon) and now this weekend is Independence Day. (Although dates don't have to be on weekends, either...) I suppose there's still a chance, but whatever. Easy come, easy go. | |
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DevotedPuppy said: Thanks. I didn't want to say that & sound conceited, but I won't disagree with you.
(Was the Nikka Costa concert last night? How was it?)Girl, why didn't you go?!? Purplecam and I had a blast! We're talking about it here: http://prince.org/msg/8/274888 | |
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