take them home...?

This is for my gay men only..

Have any of u ever did this

My bf has a huge fantasy about this. And although it is not a big thing to me it is quite interesting. I for one cant stand a closeted gay guy, however for one night thing is fun.
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If hes going home home with you...how straight is he.

paisleypark4 said:

Yeah- has happened a couple of times...not sure if it's the drink talking or the drink lets the drinker be more open to other things. Never ever took advantage- they suggested it and they always seem to know what to do!!!

Speaking from the straight perspective, No matter how drunk I've ever been or could get, I would hope I have enough sense left to turn such propositions down, and why would you want some barfing, intoxicated meatloaf like me in the first place?

Straight dudes love it up the ass

i don't think it is horny to have sex with straight guys. it's hot to look at them, sure. but more... no. i like someone who knows what he is doing.

I dunno man, gay or straight taking advantage of someone when they are really drunk is awful.

If it can be considered rape when a guy does it to a girl, wouldn't it also be considered rape if a dude did it to another dude?

theodore said:

ArielB said:

The only straight guy I would do that to is my friend from high school. We still keep in touch and I've always had a crush on him. I heard rumors about him and that makes it even more of a fantasy. Ughhhh! But I would never take advantage of him. If he's drunk and says yes, it would still be on, but I wouldn't do anything to hurt him.

JustErin said:

what about when they are fully aware of what they are doing, not unconcious

paisleypark4 said:

I dunno. If someone is totally inebriated but not actually passed out, is it still being taken advantage of - meaning rape?

I know sometimes it doen't take more than a parking ticket to turn a straight guy, but still...

I mean if they insist or something perhaps. But to go to a bar with that intention or realize there is a straight guy there..to think of taking advantage of them, I am not sure about that. I think it's better left as a fantasy.

theodore said:

superspaceboy said:

superspaceboy said:

so what we did is bad even tho the dude wanted us to do it with him?

I wish I had a thousand million of these stories but sadly I have none

UncleGrandpa said:

Well I must say, you were perfectly behaved at the bar in san francisco Maybe you weren't drunk enough

paisleypark4 said:

Why get them drunk? Let's go do this and go our separate ways.

Actually the guys I'm attracted to are DL. I wish they weren't but finding a masculine, thick . . . .anyway someone interested in sports and openly gay and male . . .can be daunting.
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UncleGrandpa said:

I'm saying. . .

I'd rather proposition you sober, so you couldn't blame alcohol.

JustErin said:

Being taken advantage of and being raped are two distinct situations.
I can be taken advantage of without being raped.

superspaceboy said:

I'm not taking the chance that some drunk is going to hurl while I'm down there applying skillz he's too drunk to appreciate.

SUPRMAN said:

Because u gotta go online or over the phone to find them type of guys...they just dont be out there.



But yeah guys I had a shortlived happening with my partner and a straight guy while his girl was at the bar waiting on us...it was....interesting..my first time

SUPRMAN said:

it's not that hard if you know where to look. SD has softball leagues, football league and a rugby team. surly LA has similar

i think it's morally wrong.

http://www.youtube.com/wa...F4pg-pUqzY

thought I'd bung this in (very British!)

As a straight man, I think the level of intoxication is relative to the level of game being spit at me....if you got game, you can convince anyone that the sky is blue....
.....but I'm one who also thinks that if a gay man can convince a straight man, then the straight guy may have already had it in his mind....liquor or no liquor....

just my

LleeLlee said:

Yes, I've been very drunk, and never homosexual. Let's say "straight" men, not straight men!

paisleypark4 said:

Consensual sex is one thing.

Getting someone drunk, however, with the explicit purpose of taking advantage of them while they are inebriated, is another. It's simply not cool. Also not cool is enticing someone to cheat on their partner, particularly while he's drunk and she's waiting on you at the bar. That's just crass. You seriously couldn't find a single gay guy to join you and your partner?
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this thread is taken too seriously. maybe we should move it to politics and religion.