Exactly. That's what I try to remind myself of when I feel like I want vengeance: that people like him are already suffering more than I'll ever know, and I don't need to add to the misery. I just need to move forward and continue trying to create happiness.

That's really messed up! I know you're going to get them good for this.

I want to be like Jesus, I really do.

I want to forgive my ex-boss and pray that happiness comes into his life.

But I also want to take action to make it less likely that he will continue to treat people like this.

Just remember, Jesus demolished a fig tree for not having fruit on its limbs when he happened to pass it