Yes you, with the dicks, why are ya'll so confusing? Why do ya'll say one thing then your actions say another? Why when we have broken up with you all and have gotten a hold on the crying (at the moment) ya'll come crawling back saying how sorry you are how much you all love us? Why do ya'll do that when it was apparent that you agreed with breaking up, now is like you want to get back together almost a month and half later? Why when you know that us women are vulnerable? Why?

Okay thats my vent for the day.

FREE REGULAR SEX....

Because we're lonely! And breaking up sounds like a great idea until it happens.

missfee said:

NDRU said:

You mean it sounded good because he thought he had some pussy lined up, but found out some bitches only wanted him because he was in a relationship. Now they don't want to be with his sorry ass because they're enjoying getting dicked at least twice a week by two different guys and getting double the presents, attention etc. without all the drama.

missfee said:

All he wants is the sex.

Kick him to the curb it won't work. It will be as it was before the break up.

He ain't the last man on earth.

philosophically speaking, who's really at fault here? The leopard for being a leopard...or for the hunter mistaking the spots?

God, I love coming back to these kinds of topics after being gone for a while.....

My guess is he's got nothing else on the go so he wants attention (sex, affection, company, whatever) until someone else comes along.

If you're cool with just biding your time until someone better comes along, then I say hang out. If not, stick to your guns and tell him to "move on".

luv4u said:

Those are wise words, and so true!

Stay strong! U were just learning 2 do things 4 yourself!

IT WAS HIS LOSS!!!!! (now he has 2 live w/it.)

chocolate1 said:

No,no,no...don't get it wrong, I haven't done anything with him. Its just that now he keeps calling me. And yes I do ignore sometimes but that's when he calls even more. Don't get it twisted, I'm still learning to do things for myself. But I do appreciate the concern.

NDRU said:

my dad gave me an interesting insight into men when the master broke up with me after exactly one year of being together.
"He probably is just making sure you are the one he wants to marry"
WTF!!!!
so he was measuring my value to him by the amount of pain it caused him to be away from me?
(actually he said the real reason was because I didn't seem interested in children which I am not really)

missfee said:

i'm sorry but

missfee said:

If you keep answering the phone he thinks your interested, plus it's a payoff for him. Quit playing the game and change your number and move on with your life.

ZombieKitten said:

but you've learned to like them okay!

NDRU said:

well the one thing I have learned is not to pretend you like something when you don't

though I do love MY kids

reneGade20 said:

All I gotta say here is

Anxiety said:

That made me too.

luv4u said:

I'm sorry but that's easier said than done. Trying to ignore someone u r still in love with is difficult.

eikonoklastes said:

Yes.

missfee said:

Gosh, that sounds familiar. The woman I have just broken up with did the same with me several times**. I guess she is actually a man by heart and I am a woman!

** actually she never came back to me only 1 1/2 month later after I broke up but within a couple of days...
[Edited 6/12/08 6:03am]

Tremolina said:

People are just so Do they even realize when they are playing with peoples emotions? Are our we inadvertingly letting them play with them?

I know this may sound unrealistic but I really just wish that I could get over my ex completely without feeling anymore pain and meet a special guy right now. Everything takes time, but I'm also very lonely. I have taken the time to do some things that make me happy now that I wasn't able to do while in the relationship, but some days are just pure hell in dealing with my emotions. Its very hard to let someone go that you have known for 9 years. Honestly deep down I know that we can't be true friends again until somewhere further down the line but how do u let go of someone who has been your best friend for so long?

missfee said:

By going through an extended period of no contact at all.

missfee said:

The latter. I should have kept my door closed and my phone off all the times she came back begging for forgiveness, seducing my manhood, lying about her actions and manipulating my heart. Sadly, I was too weak.

JustErin said:

You know it.

It is very rare that u meet a woman who can HANDLE the truth.

Graycap23 said:

Graycap23 said:

What do u mean?

missfee said:

A simple example:
Man meets woman, and says, "Hello, Let's sleep together"
The woman goes nuts on the guy.