PinkOrchid said:

Why do some women care enough to get upset about it on a forum where 90% of the threads are filled of utter bulshit? I'll tell you why. This thread is about their worst fear; being a single mom and not being able to get a man.

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

.. we must come from the same neighborhood... that's another thread, but that is the truth.. i have SEEN that, more than once too ..and i dont understand that..

First of all I don't care enough to give them any kind of advice and secondly I know all women are not the same and some guys would actually take that risk. I did once and will never do it again.

If people want to get upset over what I'm saying, call me ignorant or whatever, or ignore me, that's cool. Whatever makes you feel good I'm all for it.
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omg Chris welcome the hell back and LMFAO this is the funniest fucking thread ever

AlienX2050 said:

are you writing another book?

AlienX2050 said:

I asked "how come".

Not going to answer the question?

JustErin said:

Well, for starters, if you date someone with kids that have been raised by someone else. They will not have your interests at heart. No matter how nice they appear, somewhere down the line you'd be in for hell. And if you were to get married to this person, you'd end up taking care of kids that don't really care about you. Especially if you have $$$. All they would want is money. And damnyum! You have to deal with the other parent's shit. Their parents aren't together for a reason and you will soon find out!

I'm just saying...if you're married and have kids, you best stay married unless you're being abused or some crazy shit like that. But if yall just can't get along, you better find a way to work it out.

Shit, after you have kids, you're basically roasted unless you don't take care of your kid(s) so you can do what you want. But if you're a responsible parent...shit ain't too much you can do but dedicate your life to yourself and to your child(dren).

You know?

Also, I have dated someone with kids and really enjoy them at times. But at the end of the day...hell...at the end of lunch, they gots to go home.

I got my own issues to deal with. hell, besides gas prices keep going up and I can't afford to feed other children.

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AlienX2050 said:

OK, cool.

I'm glad I don't have people as ignorant as you are around me. Phew!

Did I see that you have 2 kids yourself? Shitty for you if that's true since by your own rules you're totally undatable. Enjoy your life of romantic solitude.

Sucks to be you I guess.

AlienX2050 said:

OK, cool.

I'm glad I don't have people as ignorant as you are around me. Phew!

Did I see that you have 2 kids yourself? Shitty for you if that's true since by your own rules you're totally undatable. Enjoy your life of romantic solitude.

Sucks to be you I guess.

JustErin said:

You ought to quit it. You're being confrontational. You're acting like a pissed off woman. Yes, I do have 2 kids and I told you what I thought about it. And I'm not being arrogant. I don't know why you think that. And if you're cute, you're probably used to getting your way around these parts. Alot go getters on here that want it. Not me...not now.

I'm just saying, I don't care the situation, people don't need to put their kids in front of another man or woman but it happens. So be it.

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AlienX2050 said:

She's right though. the double standard is full of shit

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

Ya'll ain't listening. I hae said it time and time again...the same goes for a man. Hell, my cousin is married to a man who had 2 kids before he married her. Lawd, what a pissy mess they have now. She is in shit hell. I'm not kidding. But you know what? It's natural for someone not to listen to advice. It's just natural. Well, don't take it as advice. Just take it as a comment and we're just carrying on a conversation.

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JustErin said:

You ought to quit it. You're being confrontational. You're acting like a pissed off woman. Yes, I do have 2 kids and I told you what I thought about it. And I'm not being arrogant. I don't know why you think that. And if you're cute, you're probably used to getting your way around these parts. Alot go getters on here that want it. Not me...not now.

I'm just saying, I don't care the situation, people don't need to put their kids in front of another man or woman but it happens. So be it.

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AlienX2050 said:

But does the same go for you? I bet not

AlienX2050 said:

Oh, come on now. I'm not pissed off or being confrontational.

I didn't notice a post about you saying what you thought about it in terms of *you* dating, just saw that you said you have 2 kids, and that men should never date women with more than one kid.

So what I am getting from this last post of yours is that you feel that no one should get involves with someone with more than one kid - men or women....and that would include you.

You're calling yourself undatable, are you not?

JustErin said:

People with kids aren't undatable. You can date all you want but I'm saying it's going to be dysfunctional to some or a large degree. Hell, and that depends on what an individual sees as dysfunctional.

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AlienX2050 said:

Like I said, the dysfunctional attract the dysfunctional. I know of fucked up situations with blended families and I know of some that are awesome.

I think that says a lot right there.

Some people may only ever see situations were it's a mess because that's how they raised their kids in the first place, are that way themselves and are attracted to people that are the same way.

lawd here we go .... someone must be bored again


warning... do not click on threads created by this person.... ur only feeding his need to start shit and get ur pannies in a wad

purplekisses said:

Who me? Nooooo! Lawd Have Mercy Jesus!

In between
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AlienX2050 said:

what in between boredom or drunkenness????

purplekisses said:

Damnyum...C'mon on now...C'mon!
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AlienX2050 said:

what its not happy hour time there????

lawd here we go .... someone must be bored again


warning... do not click on threads created by this person.... ur only feeding his need to start shit and get ur pannies in a wad

purplekisses said:

Hey, from what I've seen on here many bait threads like this actually end up resulting in an interesting conversation about the topic.

Then the poor troll who made it usually doesn't know what to do at that point.

purplekisses said:

Hey, from what I've seen on here many bait threads like this actually end up resulting in an interesting conversation about the topic.

Then the poor troll who made it usually doesn't know what to do at that point.

JustErin said:

true... they like to post and sit back and watch... CC is very good at knowing just what to post to see the responses and knows what will get people going... sometimes it does get him in trouble... right CC???

eVeRsOlEsA said:

Shit, Ever! I wasn't being funny. Maybe it sounds that way but you know it's the truth!

Miss you!