SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

Oh shit, I was about to say something similar.

This is a really frustrating thread. I know I know...I don't have to be here.



You know what? More than some of the men here saying that they don't want to date single mothers the thing that upsets me is referring to women as bitches. That is totally annoying and really shows a high level of ignorance and disprespect.

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

So incredibly far from reality but whatevs, think what you want.

hokie said:

JustErin said:

Hey, I have a woman hating label to live up to!

eikonoklastes said:

surprise ...surprise..what a fucking shocker

hokie said:

and a TOTAL FUCKING TURN OFF TOO...

i feel the same way u do hun!!! pissed at this thread

This guy likes me but he has a 10 year old...hell no!

i never date anyone with more than one parent.

dating someone who has children from a previous relationship can be difficult but i don't think that having a child immediately puts someone on the do not date list.

i'd much rather date a man with a child who he loves and has an active role in raising than a man with a drug habit, abusive tendencies, or a bunch of other women who he's dating.

Anxiety said:

what???

Anxiety said:

Why do some men call women bitches? and then these men wonder why they are always single and nobody wants them?

babooshleeky said:

I was pissed at this thread at first but then i took a look at the people who are saying this shit.

I can't say I'm very surprised.

superspaceboy said:

Isn't she supposed to marry her husband's brother?
Oh, I'm quoting the Bible. I guess that's not one of the verses this Judeo-Christian country focuses on.

unlucky7 said:

See, even women say No!

JasmineFire said:

Agreed.

SUPRMAN said:

WOW... so many assumptions being made by men here.

I am a single mother, and I don't want any man I date to meet my kids unless I know marriage will be involved or he's going to stick around for the long haul.

Otherwise he just has to be OK with me dividing my time between him and my children.

My children already know and love their father, I am not looking for a new daddy for them. I just want fun and romance, and many single mothers are just like me.

Looking for a daddy for your kids should not be confused with wanting to date, I date to get laid, not fuck to find a babydaddy, and I don't fuck men in my home with my kids around either.

I wish men would stop putting all single mothers in a box called "needy" we are all not like that.

PinkOrchid said:

And yet those men almost always never have any problems getting chicks. Ironic isn't it?

PinkOrchid said:

Why do some women care enough to get upset about it on a forum where 90% of the threads are filled of utter bulshit? I'll tell you why. This thread is about their worst fear; being a single mom and not being able to get a man.

hokie said:

yes very true

paintedlady said:

yes..and i like your post

eikonoklastes said:

if that is somebody's worst fear then can I trade lives with them, please?

there are scarier things out there, especially if you have children.
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paintedlady said:

I think that the problem lies in the fact that some people grow up in dysfunctional environments, surround themselves in dysfunctional people so they just automatically assume everyone is that way.

I dunno, man...I know people base opinions on experiences but I do think that in many situations it's more of a case of it being about the kind of people you attract/are attracted to then it is about women/men in general.

eikonoklastes said:

wink edit
[Edited 6/11/08 16:40pm]

JustErin said:

I think this can be true but I think there is much more dysfunction than you are giving credit for.

babooshleeky said:

Don't wink Schleeky! Finger with Pride

eikonoklastes said:

See, another ignorant statement. My biggest fear is NOT not being able to get a man. It's not being able to take care of my kids. That is the most important thing to me. A man is not the most important thing in my life. Oh, and I do have a man who is perfectly fine with the status quo. But, as I said earlier my biggest gripe is with you calling women bitches. It's really just pathetic. You really must not have a lot of self confindence.

eikonoklastes said:

That's bullshit muscle man.

hokie said:

hahahahahaahhaha its scary how u keep taking the words outa my mouth

WELL SAID!!!!!