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PrintableJustErin said: superspaceboy said: Wow! So if a woman loses her husband due to his death, she should never date anyone?
Why should there even be a distinction between a widow and someone who just left a relationship? I can't spell today!! 
[Edited 6/11/08 14:31pm] Dating someone who just got out of a relationship is a bad idea PERIOD. | |
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babooshleeky said: hokie said: Well, most likely your attitude will turn off most single mothers anyway. I know that any man worth dating will have to accept me as a package deal. I have 2 sons that are 5 and 8. I wouldn't even give you a second look or another minute of my time. You would never be someone I am remotely interested in. No matter how fine you are....
  u took the words right outa my mouth hun!!!!!  
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girls, if you don't already know him may i introduce you to the thread starter, also known as CC
he's a shit disturber from way back. 
the paradox i love is "ok, she doesn't have any kids... bonus. but she's 35 and never been married so something must be wrong with her"  conversely all the men in my age range who are out there looking all seem to have had their families young and are in a different place in their lives now. who wants to start a family when your kids are almost done highschool?   She couldn't stop crying 'cause she knew he was gone to stay | |
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hokie said: Well, most likely your attitude will turn off most single mothers anyway. I know that any man worth dating will have to accept me as a package deal. I have 2 sons that are 5 and 8. I wouldn't even give you a second look or another minute of my time. You would never be someone I am remotely interested in. No matter how fine you are....
 You said it Hokie! I would NEVER want to be with a man who couldn't take me for me, and deal with the fact that I had kids!!! Now yes...my kids are older, but I remember back in the day, when it was just my girls and I. I paid no attention to men who looked down at me, or felt I was not worth getting to know just because I had kids! It's a real shame some men think like that...could be missing out on something great.Proud Memaw to Seyhan Olivia Christine ,Zoey Cirilo Jaylee & Ellie Abigail Lillian  | |
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emm said: the paradox i love is "ok, she doesn't have any kids... bonus. but she's 35 and never been married so something must be wrong with her" Why you think men go for younger women? That's right, because older bitches who are single either have issues or kids. Actually most seem to have both. | |
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AlienX2050 said: No matter how sexy and how much sex you get, don't date a woman with kids.
I used to think like you, but I've relaxed my rules a bit the past few years. These days its rare I meet single women without kids. Two kids is my limit, though I did date a woman with three(but they were grown and real nice). I do avoid women with young(or bratty) kids. |
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Don't date women with even one child. The motherly instinct to provide for their child has many women using and abusing men. Just bang around if you can do it without commitment. Children really shouldn't be exposed to their mother's dating. 2010: Healing the Wounds of the Past.... http://prince.org/msg/8/325740 | |
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eikonoklastes said: emm said: the paradox i love is "ok, she doesn't have any kids... bonus. but she's 35 and never been married so something must be wrong with her" Why you think men go for younger women? That's right, because older bitches who are single either have issues or kids. Actually most seem to have both.  what's your excuse then?She couldn't stop crying 'cause she knew he was gone to stay | |
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JustErin said: So basically these people are supposed to just stay single? 
That's what Dr. Laura says 2010: Healing the Wounds of the Past.... http://prince.org/msg/8/325740 | |
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eikonoklastes said: emm said: the paradox i love is "ok, she doesn't have any kids... bonus. but she's 35 and never been married so something must be wrong with her" Why you think men go for younger women? That's right, because older bitches who are single either have issues or kids. Actually most seem to have both.
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emm said: eikonoklastes said: Why you think men go for younger women? That's right, because older bitches who are single either have issues or kids. Actually most seem to have both. what's your excuse then?My excuse for what? | |
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SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said: Don't date women with even one child. The motherly instinct to provide for their child has many women using and abusing men. Just bang around if you can do it without commitment. Children really shouldn't be exposed to their mother's dating.
I agree with this part of your statement! I never let my kids meet the man I was dating until I knew he was a good guy, and would be around for a bit. Needless to say..they didn't meet many. Proud Memaw to Seyhan Olivia Christine ,Zoey Cirilo Jaylee & Ellie Abigail Lillian | |
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MoniGram said: SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said: Don't date women with even one child. The motherly instinct to provide for their child has many women using and abusing men. Just bang around if you can do it without commitment. Children really shouldn't be exposed to their mother's dating.
I agree with this part of your statement! I never let my kids meet the man I was dating until I knew he was a good guy, and would be around for a bit. Needless to say..they didn't meet many. exactly | |
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MoniGram said: SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said: Don't date women with even one child. The motherly instinct to provide for their child has many women using and abusing men. Just bang around if you can do it without commitment. Children really shouldn't be exposed to their mother's dating.
I agree with this part of your statement! I never let my kids meet the man I was dating until I knew he was a good guy, and would be around for a bit. Needless to say..they didn't meet many. It's so not fair for kids to get used to someone and then the mom dumps them for whatever reason and they are not around anymore. Better that the kids have stability of not having the rug yanked out from under them 2010: Healing the Wounds of the Past.... http://prince.org/msg/8/325740 | |
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SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said: MoniGram said: I agree with this part of your statement! I never let my kids meet the man I was dating until I knew he was a good guy, and would be around for a bit. Needless to say..they didn't meet many. It's so not fair for kids to get used to someone and then the mom dumps them for whatever reason and they are not around anymore. Better that the kids have stability of not having the rug yanked out from under them Yes exactly....lucky for me..back in the day. I met a great guy, he adopted my girls, married me, gave me a great son..and we were one happy family. Up until a few years ago. But still...he was one of the good ones! And he is an awesome Daddy to my rugrats! Proud Memaw to Seyhan Olivia Christine ,Zoey Cirilo Jaylee & Ellie Abigail Lillian | |
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JustErin said: AlienX2050 said: Hell naaa. And it goes both ways. Don't do it unless you're committed to taking care of her kids... Shit, and don't let their asses be bad. Dude, what's the reason to not date someone with more than one kid? yeah! if they have one or 2 or three they still have kids, why is 1 ok and more than one not???? Rhythm floods my heart♥The melody it feeds my soul | |
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eikonoklastes said: emm said: the paradox i love is "ok, she doesn't have any kids... bonus. but she's 35 and never been married so something must be wrong with her" Why you think men go for younger women? That's right, because older bitches who are single either have issues or kids. Actually most seem to have both. Tom Leykis is that you? Leykis 101." An unapologetic primer to help men get laid with minimum effort, its "rules" - a retort to the women's self-help guide - include Never spend a lot of money impressing her on the first date, Stop seeing her if you don't get laid by the third date, and Never date single mothers.
Sounds like a few of his listeners have wandered in. | |
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SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said: Don't date women with even one child. The motherly instinct to provide for their child has many women using and abusing men. Just bang around if you can do it without commitment. Children really shouldn't be exposed to their mother's dating.
Gimme a fucking break. It's not that they shouldn't be exposed to it, it's how they are exposed to it that's important. | |
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veronikka said: JustErin said: Dude, what's the reason to not date someone with more than one kid? yeah! if they have one or 2 or three they still have kids, why is 1 ok and more than one not???? Maybe he feels 2+ is a bigger drain on his wallet. |
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uPtoWnNY said: veronikka said: yeah! if they have one or 2 or three they still have kids, why is 1 ok and more than one not???? Maybe he feels 2+ is a bigger drain on his wallet. Why would it be a drain on his wallet? | |
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JustErin said: SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said: Don't date women with even one child. The motherly instinct to provide for their child has many women using and abusing men. Just bang around if you can do it without commitment. Children really shouldn't be exposed to their mother's dating.
Gimme a fucking break. It's not that they shouldn't be exposed to it, it's how they are exposed to it that's important. No, your son shouldn't be exposed to your human sex toys!  2010: Healing the Wounds of the Past.... http://prince.org/msg/8/325740 | |
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JustErin said: uPtoWnNY said: Maybe he feels 2+ is a bigger drain on his wallet. Why would it be a drain on his wallet? If a man wanted to go to the nearest amusement park, why should he pay for your kid? It's not his 2010: Healing the Wounds of the Past.... http://prince.org/msg/8/325740 | |
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SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said: JustErin said: Why would it be a drain on his wallet? If a man wanted to go to the nearest amusement park, why should he pay for your kid? It's not his Who the fuck said he was expected to pay? | |
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SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said: JustErin said: Why would it be a drain on his wallet? If a man wanted to go to the nearest amusement park, why should he pay for your kid? It's not his Then again if you pay your chances of getting some ass later, when the kid's sleeping, will increase by 267%. Bitches love that shit. | |
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JustErin said: SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said: If a man wanted to go to the nearest amusement park, why should he pay for your kid? It's not his Who the fuck said he was expected to pay? I would love to see your face as he paid only for himself and you had to whip out your credit card! 2010: Healing the Wounds of the Past.... http://prince.org/msg/8/325740 | |
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JustErin said: SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said: If a man wanted to go to the nearest amusement park, why should he pay for your kid? It's not his Who the fuck said he was expected to pay? Well, I've been in situations(with single moms) where I was expected to pay. I've never met a single mother with your attitude. |
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uPtoWnNY said: JustErin said: Who the fuck said he was expected to pay? Well, I've been in situations(with single moms) where I was expected to pay. I've never met a single mother with your attitude. They only exist in cyberland 2010: Healing the Wounds of the Past.... http://prince.org/msg/8/325740 | |
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SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said: JustErin said: Who the fuck said he was expected to pay? I would love to see your face as he paid only for himself and you had to whip out your credit card! Dude, seriously. You don't know anything about me so assume away but you're seriously mistaken if you think that I expect others to pay for myself and my kid. [Edited 6/11/08 15:34pm] | |
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uPtoWnNY said: JustErin said: Who the fuck said he was expected to pay? Well, I've been in situations(with single moms) where I was expected to pay. I've never met a single mother with your attitude. That sucks. I can say that I've never met men with shitty attitudes towards single mothers. Thankfully, I must add. | |
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JustErin said: uPtoWnNY said: Well, I've been in situations(with single moms) where I was expected to pay. I've never met a single mother with your attitude. That sucks. I can say that I've never met men with shitty attitudes towards single mothers. Thankfully, I must add. Oh they have shitty attitudes, they just hide it from you because they know that vag will remain hidden and out of sight if they don't 2010: Healing the Wounds of the Past.... http://prince.org/msg/8/325740 | |
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