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my baby girl... update 6-6 oh my god!
i was at home this evening, my daughter and her friend had just walked out the door on their way over to her friends house. next thing i know, her friend is comming in yelling 'brianna just fell through the glass - please help - she needs you!! so i jump up, go running out in the front yard and heres my daughter on all fours INSIDE a broken fish tank!!!! apparently, she was trying to empty the stuff that the girls had put in earlier today (mud, leaves, rocks, whatever else was in there) and she decided to put her KNEE on the glass to brace herself to be able to reach in and pull out the other stuff. of course her weight broke the glass and her knee slid right through the glass. when i went out she was impaled on a large piece of glass, both in the front and in the back of her leg, her arms were cut and bleeding pretty badly, but her KNEE was cut in the worst way imaginable... the cut was about 5 inches long, and about 2 1/2 inches deep! blood was pouring out all inside the fish tank (what was left of it) and she was screaming for me to help her. i immediately went to her to try to pick her up out of the glass, thank god i couldnt lift her and the glass was everywhere stabbing her if i moved her at all. i called 911 for help and then called over my neighbor guy - who i dont even know but he was outside- for help to lift her. he was intelligent enough at that moment (i was NOT thinking) and he said no we should not move her, we dont know what bleeding will start, the glass thats in there may be blocking the blood flow, we need to leave her until they get here. the first police got there and my baby girl was screaming for someone to help her. i was sitting in the mud in front of her helping her to hold up her body so she could rest a bit as her arms were getting very weak. the second cop showed up and they were trying to help her, but they said the same thing, we cant move her until the ambulance gets here because we dont want more bleeding.... at that point i was filled with fear... i didnt know what would happen if/when they moved her out of there! poor brianna was crying so hard - i think at that time more out of fear than anything, i was soaking wet and all muddy trying to get her to calm down and she kept asking me 'mommy, am i going to die????' i did my best to stay as calm as possible and keep her from panicing, even though i had NO idea what was about to happen... the police called the ambulance and told them to go code yellow, not sure what that means, but they said they would be there very soon. the cop was describing what the injury was and the level of seriousness. every word out of his mouth was making me more and more scared as i tried to keep myself together and not let brianna know what i was thinking... the ambulance gets there, they are trying to figure out how to get her out without cutting her more. the cop goes to his car and gets out a pair of huge metal clipper things to cut away the top edge of the tank (later i told bri, whats up with that??? they had to use the jaws of life to get you out of the tank!) it took 5 men to free brianna from this tank, when they got her out, she was in the firemen's arms, and you could see the injury to her leg!!! OH MY GOD! thats all i can say about it... it was HUGE and so fucking deep... so much of my baby's insides were on the outside i just wanted to scream!!! brianna and i had made a deal not to look at the cut on her leg, so i pretended not to know what was going on and told her i was sure it wasnt a big thing at all. the whole time my heart was beating out of control and i was scared out of my mind... they get her in the ambulance, now i dont know what the fuck to do, i have kids here with me that i cant leave alone, and they cant get us all inside the ambulance. i was STUCK! thankfully, brianna was content with jacob going with her and i would follow behind with the other kids and go directly to the hospital with them. as soon as the door closed with her inside the ambulance, i totally LOST it! i was crying and i couldnt catch my breath... the guy said, i cant let you drive like that, you have to calm down so we can go... a big deep breath and i once again stuffed my feelings, we were on our way. by this time, everyone on my block was outside trying to find out if she was going to be ok. we left and started on the drive. 1/2 way there, they pulled off the road and STOPPED for no reason!!!!! my heart sank. i got out and ran up to the driver and said, what the hell is going on????? what is wrong with her???? i had no idea why they would just STOP! he said, they are starting an IV ... i went back to the back of the ambulance and felt so helpless because i couldnt get to her, but the guy inside gave me a thumbs up and we were on our way again. the ambulance parked in the overhang, i parked my car and was waiting when they opened the doors... i told bri 'see, i told you i would be right here waiting for you' they took my baby in, she had to have x-rays to make sure there was no more glass stuck inside her. those turned out good, nothing was left inside. then they numbed it all up - my baby was SCREAMING and crying so hard i was trying to stay focused on her and trying to keep her calm... i know i had tears falling, although i know i wasnt crying... that was the worst of it, after that, she was fine... they had given her drugs for pain, something like valium to calm her down and a few other shots of whatever the hell they gave her. they stitched her up _30 damn stitches_ on my baby's leg - 5 inside and 25 on the outside. she was a trooper, i know that had to be hell for her... now shes in a brace to keep her from bending the leg and we are instructed to see a plastic surgeon in 5 days to get the schedual of what to do from here....shes all drugged up and sleeping on the couch, its 2 in the morning and i dont want to leave her, i know me, i will be over her all night whew! what a fucking day! [Edited 6/6/08 23:40pm] One of the best days of my life... http://prince.org/msg/100/291111
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nakedpianoplayer said: oh my god!
i am sorry this happen to her just pray for her love and jesus christ will heal her and u love peacea nd god bleless u and her love .colleeni was at home this evening, my daughter and her friend had just walked out the door on their way over to her friends house. next thing i know, her friend is comming in yelling 'brianna just fell through the glass - please help - she needs you!! so i jump up, go running out in the front yard and heres my daughter on all fours INSIDE a broken fish tank!!!! apparently, she was trying to empty the stuff that the girls had put in earlier today (mud, leaves, rocks, whatever else was in there) and she decided to put her KNEE on the glass to brace herself to be able to reach in and pull out the other stuff. of course her weight broke the glass and her knee slid right through the glass. when i went out she was impaled on a large piece of glass, both in the front and in the back of her leg, her arms were cut and bleeding pretty badly, but her KNEE was cut in the worst way imaginable... the cut was about 5 inches long, and about 2 1/2 inches deep! blood was pouring out all inside the fish tank (what was left of it) and she was screaming for me to help her. i immediately went to her to try to pick her up out of the glass, thank god i couldnt lift her and the glass was everywhere stabbing her if i moved her at all. i called 911 for help and then called over my neighbor guy - who i dont even know but he was outside- for help to lift her. he was intelligent enough at that moment (i was NOT thinking) and he said no we should not move her, we dont know what bleeding will start, the glass thats in there may be blocking the blood flow, we need to leave her until they get here. the first police got there and my baby girl was screaming for someone to help her. i was sitting in the mud in front of her helping her to hold up her body so she could rest a bit as her arms were getting very weak. the second cop showed up and they were trying to help her, but they said the same thing, we cant move her until the ambulance gets here because we dont want more bleeding.... at that point i was filled with fear... i didnt know what would happen if/when they moved her out of there! poor brianna was crying so hard - i think at that time more out of fear than anything, i was soaking wet and all muddy trying to get her to calm down and she kept asking me 'mommy, am i going to die????' i did my best to stay as calm as possible and keep her from panicing, even though i had NO idea what was about to happen... the police called the ambulance and told them to go code yellow, not sure what that means, but they said they would be there very soon. the cop was describing what the injury was and the level of seriousness. every word out of his mouth was making me more and more scared as i tried to keep myself together and not let brianna know what i was thinking... the ambulance gets there, they are trying to figure out how to get her out without cutting her more. the cop goes to his car and gets out a pair of huge metal clipper things to cut away the top edge of the tank (later i told bri, whats up with that??? they had to use the jaws of life to get you out of the tank!) it took 5 men to free brianna from this tank, when they got her out, she was in the firemen's arms, and you could see the injury to her leg!!! OH MY GOD! thats all i can say about it... it was HUGE and so fucking deep... so much of my baby's insides were on the outside i just wanted to scream!!! brianna and i had made a deal not to look at the cut on her leg, so i pretended not to know what was going on and told her i was sure it wasnt a big thing at all. the whole time my heart was beating out of control and i was scared out of my mind... they get her in the ambulance, now i dont know what the fuck to do, i have kids here with me that i cant leave alone, and they cant get us all inside the ambulance. i was STUCK! thankfully, brianna was content with jacob going with her and i would follow behind with the other kids and go directly to the hospital with them. as soon as the door closed with her inside the ambulance, i totally LOST it! i was crying and i couldnt catch my breath... the guy said, i cant let you drive like that, you have to calm down so we can go... a big deep breath and i once again stuffed my feelings, we were on our way. by this time, everyone on my block was outside trying to find out if she was going to be ok. we left and started on the drive. 1/2 way there, they pulled off the road and STOPPED for no reason!!!!! my heart sank. i got out and ran up to the driver and said, what the hell is going on????? what is wrong with her???? i had no idea why they would just STOP! he said, they are starting an IV ... i went back to the back of the ambulance and felt so helpless because i couldnt get to her, but the guy inside gave me a thumbs up and we were on our way again. the ambulance parked in the overhang, i parked my car and was waiting when they opened the doors... i told bri 'see, i told you i would be right here waiting for you' they took my baby in, she had to have x-rays to make sure there was no more glass stuck inside her. those turned out good, nothing was left inside. then they numbed it all up - my baby was SCREAMING and crying so hard i was trying to stay focused on her and trying to keep her calm... i know i had tears falling, although i know i wasnt crying... that was the worst of it, after that, she was fine... they had given her drugs for pain, something like valium to calm her down and a few other shots of whatever the hell they gave her. they stitched her up _30 damn stitches_ on my baby's leg - 5 inside and 25 on the outside. she was a trooper, i know that had to be hell for her... now shes in a brace to keep her from bending the leg and we are instructed to see a plastic surgeon in 5 days to get the schedual of what to do from here....shes all drugged up and sleeping on the couch, its 2 in the morning and i dont want to leave her, i know me, i will be over her all night whew! what a fucking day! 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thanks ladies
im going to try to rest now, i'll lay on the floor in front of the couch and hope that i hear her right away if she wakes up and needs me... One of the best days of my life... http://prince.org/msg/100/291111
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Dang, how frightening for both of you. Sounds like she'll be fine though, thank God. | |
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omg... so glad she's safe.
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goodness I cant eve imagine going through that
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veronikka said: goodness I cant eve imagine going through that
me neither | |
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madartista said: omg... so glad she's safe.
for you for holding it together. | |
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Damn Well done for the reactions you had and being there for her
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omg
how frightening - my heart is in my mouth just reading that heres to a speedy recovery- 4 both of u!!! seems that i was busy doing something close to nothing, but different than the day before | |
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You poor thing, I don't know how I would cope with such a thing. Wow for speedy recovery! | |
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God what a story. I hope she recovers soon. "I saw a woman with major Hammer pants on the subway a few weeks ago and totally thought of you." - sextonseven | |
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I can't fathom | |
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for your stregnth &
for your brave baby girl! | |
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How frightening! So sorry she had to go through that! Glad everything turned out alright after the whole thing... Hope she recovers soon. | |
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That must have been a total nightmare. I hope she recovers fast . With a very special thank you to Tina: Is hammer already absolute, how much some people verändern...ICH hope is never so I will be! And if, then I hope that I would then have wen in my environment who joins me in the A.... | |
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omg love...I'm so sorry u had to go through that..I can imagine how sick u must have felt ..... for u and ur daughter .... | |
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Wow, that is scarry, had tears welling up.
She is young and will heal, just give her plenty of love and reasurance oh mama I wish I could resist ... | |
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OMG, how scary!!!!! RIP, mom. I will forever miss and love you. | |
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Oh hun, I started crying when I read this. I can't even begin to imagine the fear you were going thru. My heart went out to your daughter as I read this...I felt like it was my own little girl!
I am glad she is home now, and is safely resting on your sofa. My heart, my prayers, and thoughts go to you and your daughter. Proud Memaw to Seyhan Olivia Christine ,Zoey Cirilo Jaylee & Ellie Abigail Lillian | |
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wow....well i felt your fear when i read this hun! i think u handled it pretty well...they would have had to calm me with drugs..i cant imagine. i am really glad she is ok and with u at home. damn what a scary thing to go thru. and many prayers for u and your daughter! | |
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I am tearing up right now!
I read your post to my sister... Our hearts go out to U & your daughter. We are glad everything turned out, well, okay. We will both pray for speedy recovery. "Love Hurts. Your lies, they cut me. Now your words don't mean a thing. I don't give a damn if you ever loved me..." -Cher, "Woman's World" | |
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Thank God she will be OK... so frightening, she is a very brave girl.
A speedy recovery to her, and you keep on being the great mommie that you are, you kept a cool head under some intense pressure. | |
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How terrifying! I got teary eyed just reading that. I can't even imagine.... Big for you and your daughter. I hope that she recovers soon [Edited 5/31/08 8:25am] | |
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poor girl, glad she's ok. | |
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Oh my god! How scary for all of you.
hope she gets all better soon. | |
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I read the first paragraph and didn't have the spine to go further.
THANK GOD it looks like everything will be OK. Stuff like this can be SO upsetting. I pray for a quick recovery. Ὅσον ζῇς φαίνου
μηδὲν ὅλως σὺ λυποῦ πρὸς ὀλίγον ἐστὶ τὸ ζῆν τὸ τέλος ὁ χρόνος ἀπαιτεῖ.” | |
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My god! | |
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thank you guys so much!!!
actually, today is better than i thought it would be. i finally fell asleep around 4 in the morning i think... she was up at 7 needing to go to the bathroom. she cant get there on her own, so i helped her in and we got pain meds in her right away this morning so really she is content on the couch. its really sad that her summer is starting this way, there wont be any swimming for a long time for her, thats sad because she loves the pool. thankfully yesterday when she went swimming i got in with them for the first time this season - that water is COLD!! its good though, im glad we got to play together before she got laid up like this. she has so many bandages all over her, 7 not including her leg wound. they were pulling pieces of glass out from all over her her brother has been a huge help, he hates to see his baby sister hurt like this... i know when push comes to shove, as they are kids and they argue like cats and dogs most of the time, it was her brother in the ambulance with her and her brother she asked to come and see her in the emergency room. he was strong for her and did exactly what i would have wanted from him... im glad to see the love between my kids when its needed!! i really appreciate your well wishings, it means a lot to me. thank you for taking the time to read my long, icky story lol... last night when i got back i was so scared and it was late, there was noone to talk to but i knew you guys would be around, thanks again for being there side note, i dropped the dog off at the vets office this morning, he has been sick for almost a week now, they suspect a bowel obstruction. he is being sedated now for x-rays and they will call in an hour to tell me if he will be going to surgery this afternoon. thankfully they are close, and again thank god my son is here to cover for me if i have to run up there for a few minutes. flowers all around One of the best days of my life... http://prince.org/msg/100/291111
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