Is it weird? What do you say? What happens if you both happen to know the same people?

I usually try to fuck them.

Then, yes, it usually gets weird. Either by rejection or by sneaking out while they sleep.

It was weird..I ran into an ex about a month ago at the mall. She was really surprised and shocked to see me, I could see it in her face. It had been over a year since we've seen eachother. I broke up with her over the phone kinda harshly to say the least. I threw alot of F bombs. But when we seen eachother we hugged and what not. She kept telling how good I looked over and over.

It was strange though. We had one or two ockward momments of silence. All I said was "So what's up? And then we just chatted for a few mintues when her jealous friend pulled her away. She called me later on that night. And now I'll leave the rest to yall's imagination.

Rinluv said:

So you broke up with her over the phone "kinda harsly" as you put it, she see's you for the 1st time in a year since ya'll breakup, gave you compliments and then called you on the phone when she got home?!?!

Are you packin' Kryptonite in your pants or something?!

Huge smiles, big hugs, some catch up chatter and a few jokes - usually

I run into her every day, we still live together
She is moving out in a couple of weeks though. We'll still be seeing each other a lot, we are best friends.

I talk to my ex all the time (phone/email) but I never hang out with her because every time we've ever hung out, even as "just friends", we end up having sex.

I'd say hi and then check if her ass has gotten bigger!

If I run into an ex and he gets up trying to talk, I know I didn't hit him hard enough, so I back up and try it again.

Not that I have any exes I particularly hate. It's just for recreation.

Paradisekiss03 said:

I do it all the time, he is my daughter's father so we kind of have to see each other and converse

Horsefeathers said:

It's never weird because I am friends with all my exes, some a bit closer than others but it's amicable with all of them.

JustErin said:

Yeah, that's me, too. I'd probably be perfect for you to break up with ...

One time, it led to getting involved again. Other times, it's been no big whoop.

JustErin said:

I'm friends with most of my exes, too.

Byron said:

It just makes life so much easier.

Even if times were shitty for a bit, I still cared about them (otherwise I never would have been with them in the first place) so when it's done and the shitty times are over, it's just much easier on everyone to move on and treat each other with respect.

JustErin said:

Showing sincere appreciation and respect for what you both gave to each other definitely makes Life easier and more peaceful, yeah ...

Byron said:

So, you're saying don't grab them by the lapels and say, "You fucking BITCH!!! I'VE BEEN WAITING FOR THIS MOMENT!!!"?

Ace said:

I try not to, no lol ...

Paradisekiss03 said:

Well. My ex is the father of my kids so I have to deal with him quite often. I just try and keep things friendly and positive because my number one concern is my kids and so that means being friends with their dad.

KidaDynamite said:

. I guess. And it made her weak in the kness.. I had a feeling she was gonna call me that night after she saw me.

depends on the ex. most of em i'm still either friends or at least friendly with.

I'm friends with most of my exes. So I do see them every now and again. Nothing awkward at all about it.

RUN!!! They all either have secret feelings or long overdue vendettas or want to be body buddies. The moment I hesitate is the moment one pounces. I tried being friendly with all of them but it doesn't work.

LadyLuvSexxy said:

nothing wrong with having a body buddy unless they happen to have fangs and a penchant for long black satin capes.

I can honestly say this never happenes to me. That is probably because I am not in the city I grew up and dated guys I suppose. I have only dated one person here in San Fran.

That aside, I have had these experiences. They were odd. One guy for some reason thought it was cool to tease me for some reason. The rest of the times it's been cordial.

I try to avoid my exes at all costs!

hokie said:

I know how you feel