roodboi said:

i think you should ask her how she feels

NDRU said:

according to her she's more than happy, but i have enough female friends to know that many women bite their tongue to stroke the ego of the man they love...

plus, (like i said before) who enjoys being sore?

i've just known many women to say something's cool, then wait til they get mad about me to "tell me about where i could use improvement"

SirPsycho said:

Thanks. I had to go look and see what quote it was actually because I forgot.

Well, communication is key of course. I mean, wouldn't she just say something if she was in pain? I mean, I would. If she says she's sore, then that's a signal to stop pounding away most likely. AT least for a while anyway.

I like how this thread went from "I'm so amazing, I can last forever" to a "She's not wet enough, you're not turning her on enough" in one post.

Ok, I'm sorry, couldn't resist...now back to the serious responses.

minneapolisgenius said:

oh we stop when she's sore, i wouldnt dare keep going...i just usually have a lot more "time" left in me (this has been an issue since i was younger) and to her credit she'll do her best to stick it out with me

JustErin said:

i never implied i was amazing...i know your gonna laugh at me, but i hate that it takes me so long...i mean ok, i thought it was cool in high school, but people gotta work in the mornin

SirPsycho said:

No, no. I believe you.

It's just that these kinds of threads often come off as people just wanting to say things along these lines to brag.

But in all seriousness...

Lately since being with someone in his 30s (and not having been with him for few years) I've noticed that he now takes a lot longer to get off than he used to.

Honestly, I find it kinda annoying.

SirPsycho said:

I'm sort of the same. I could go only five seconds, but once I get past a certain point I could go forever.

Sometimes you just have to stop. But it doesn't mean you have to go to sleep unsatisfied. There are lots of ways, right? And she'll probably be plenty happy to accommodate you assuming it means stopping before it becomes torture for her.

JustErin said:

roodboi said:

The last time we were together he actually said, "Man...I'm sorry, I'm such a hard come now".

I think he maybe caught me rolling my eyes.

Or maybe I just don't turn him on now.

JustErin said:

Rolling your eyes definitely isn't gonna turn him on any more!

JustErin said:

..."a hard come"....classic....

JustErin said:

i wouldnt say all that, cuz its not like i dont want to come and i'm not enjoying myself, it just takes me awhile to get there...


interestingly enough tho...setting can change it all (for me)...i have this thing about innapropriate locations...so if theirs enough of a chance i'll be caught? 30-45 mins tops


me thinks i tried too many things in high school

SirPsycho said:

Like was said, just make sure you've got lube handy. You can tell if she's getting a little bored down there.

So if she's not complaining or wanting to stop but obviously is not as wet as she should be to be fully comfortable...add a squirt now and then.

JustErin said:

(what took you so long)

SirPsycho said:

I'm kinda like my little friend but instead of me being a 'hard come' I'm a 'hard get the the point-er'.

JustErin said:

you guy must have terrible sex than

SirPsycho said:

But actually no. Not at all. In fact, it used to be ridiculously hot and filthy.

These days it's still pretty awesome, but it's just not on the same level as it used to be on.

JustErin said:

i blame gas prices and the bush administration

Lube might help YOU finish sooner too, SirPsycho.

Cinnie said:

so i hear...




also, i'm shocked nobody has used the emoticon yet

Cinnie said:

Good point, it's not just for girls!

SirPsycho said:

I can't afford to license its use from Imago.

She might be saying, "harder" because she thinks it'll help you finish. You know...like..."I can take it if that's what you need."

But, yeah - if she's getting sore, grab the lube. It might help you...and it'll keep her more comfortable.

Cinnie said:

Thank you everybody for your responses

this thread had been educational

thekidsgirl said:

nahmsayin...dats how i do doe