No!

thekidsgirl said:

I was sort of unattracted to him, but he was a really slobbery kisser, but I was kinda of distant so that he would dump me and I would not feel so bad.

thekidsgirl said:

That just doesn't make sense

Nope. Never happened. I can't date someone that I'm not attracted to. Those people are called friends.

Yes I have when I was young (high school), we were friends since freshman year and he was very nice to me, but I had him on "like him like a brother" status since I didn't feel any physical attraction.

During senior year he got up the gumption to ask me out, I said that I wasn't feeling him like that but he was persistent, so I caved in and decided to stop being vain and allow him a shot.

We went on several dates and I had sex with him, once, HUGE mistake. It was horrible, I cringed the entire time we were having sex, and I couldn't bring myself to kiss the guy on the lips, I would always turn my face away. The sex lasted for what seemed an eternity, I didn't enjoy it at all and after I nearly ran out of his house. I couldn't get away fast enough.

He was a relatively handsome and very gentlemanly, great manners and awesome personality.... but if there was no sexual attraction, I gave him a chance, and I shouldn't have, it only hurt him, and left me with a deep sense of regret. I never did it again, I am not nearly as vain as I used to be when I was younger, but I will never date a man that I am not attracted to... ever.

violator said:

I've heard that guys don't really keep female friends they don't find attractive

So as English is not my first language what is the exact definition of "dating" .

ZombieKitten said:

I heard that as well and I guess it may well be true.

Serious said:

I think it works the other way too this won't be the first time I admit I am only friends with men I find attractive in some way! (unless they are family or something)

Serious said:

going out on a date more than once?

we don't "date" here in Australia either, we drink a lot and then pash. Simple!

ZombieKitten said:

I think my male friends all feel attracted to me in some way. I don't feel attracted to most of them at all. But I am so damn picky, I feel attracted to so few men, so maybe it's just me .

ZombieKitten said:

So what if I am going out with a man quite often without any intention from my side that I'd ever want sex with him. Is that a date? ?

Serious said:

I don't have so many male friends, but they are all pretty cute

ZombieKitten said:

I think that's true...as a general rule that is.

Every male friend I have ever had (safe one) eventually wanted to hook up.

And if I'm being honest, since I actually ended up hooking up with most of them I guess I was friends with them because there was at least some attraction there on my part as well.

JustErin said:

I don't have any straight male friends.

CarrieMpls said:

Girl, get to it then!!

ZombieKitten said:

I think that's true for most guys, but not for me.

violator said:

You have ugly friends?

JustErin said:

I wouldn't call them ugly, but I'm definitely not attracted to them.

Yeah..I dated this real handsome type. Like, muscular and whatnot. I prefer medium to chubby guys. I did it to see if I could be attracted to him. D= But, I just kept wondering if he could bench press me. I dunno...eh...he was just a prettyboy. I'm into the humble down to earth types.

Janfriend said:

I mean like...

Did you take him/her out cause you felt bad for him/her?
Maybe the other person was a friend who had a crush on you and you were being nice?
Maybe it was because you were using the other person?
Did friends pressure you to get together?
...whatever

paintedlady said:

wow, thats a sad story...I'm guessing ya'll didn't remain frieends

violator said:

you can find someone attractive without being attracted to him or her

thekidsgirl said:

Funny thing, after that day we had sex, I was feeling horrible so, I called him and told him how I felt.
I tried to be gentle about it, but it still must have hurt him.

He basically called me all kinds of bitches, and told me he never wanted to talk to me again. I stopped feeling bad at that moment and became angry at him for not understanding.

A year later he called me.... he was asking why didn't I keep in contact, and why haven't I called him. WTF? I reminded him of all the names he called me in our last conversation, and told him to f@^# off.

Hadn't heard from him after that.

never dated, was afraid...don't really trust...

thekidsgirl said:

I understood the question

The concept of doing such a thing makes no sense, imo

unlucky7 said:

Same here.

I wouldnt say I wasnt attracted to him, he was good looking, just not my type. I wasn't interested. So I guess I wasn't attracted to him. But he kept on so I finally gave in (two years later).

Four years later we are living together and I cannot begin to tell you how wonderful a man he is. Sometimes what you are initially attracted to and what you go for is not what is good for you. I'm the first to attest to thinking outside of your own constraints of what is attractive to you. You may end up as retarded happy as I am. Thank God that man was one helluva PEST!

KatSkrizzle said:

wow!!!!

shanti0608 said:

This happens to me all the time.