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Reply #30 posted 05/29/08 6:20pm

JustErin

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Genesia said:

JasmineFire said:


i guess if you're a real people person or if your peak was in high school or you just want to see how all the cool kids became losers then you should go.

I just see them as totally undesirable. the people from my past who i want in my life are already in it. No need to see the rest.


Bitter, party of one...your table is ready.


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and falloff to "...peak was in high school"
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Reply #31 posted 05/29/08 6:21pm

daPrettyman

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Anxiety said:

JustErin said:



Personally I'd just leave if it sucked.

I wouldn't mind seeing a few people I went to high school with. I've seen their pics on facebook. It would be funny to see how bad they went to shit in terms of looks in person. biggrin


i saw some recent pics of people i went to high school with on classmates.com, and it just confirmed the fact that i do NOT need to be going to a reunion. i mean, sure, it might be funny to see how bad some of the popular kids went to hell in their later years, but i'm talking some gummo-style shit here. pictures i wish i'd never seen, yet are engraved in my memory forever. trailers. tire swings. oakley sunglasses. i can't talk about this anymore. lol

I know where u r coming from on seeing the people from your past. Some of the are tore up---from the floor up.

With Myspace and Facebook, I have been able to get in contact with a lot of my HS classmates. Some of them look great....some don't. What amazes me is how many of them have grandchildren (I'm only 35). I went to a small-town school and some of the girls had kids when we were in middle school and high school. A couple of girls in my class have grandchildren that are under the age of 5 (that's scary as hell to me).
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Reply #32 posted 05/29/08 6:22pm

JustErin

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JasmineFire said:

Genesia said:



Oh, believe me - I didn't. I had a pretty difficult high school experience, in fact. I got over it.

I just can't understand why anyone who goes to a class reunion must (in your mind) have some sort of defect. rolleyes

being a people person is not a defect at all, in fact it's an asset. One that I don't have. lol

peaking in high school or wanting to see how badly certain people have aged aren't defects either, really.

I just don't understand why you think something is wrong with me for not wanting to go. There have been others on this thread who have expressed the same opinons as me. In fat, my initial post wasn't even really directed at you, I was answering JustErin. Let it go, girl! (or guy, as the case may be)

You need to chill. People are different. It's what makes the world a beautiful place. nod


Did you just call me fat? neutral
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Reply #33 posted 05/29/08 6:23pm

JasmineFire

JustErin said:

JasmineFire said:


being a people person is not a defect at all, in fact it's an asset. One that I don't have. lol

peaking in high school or wanting to see how badly certain people have aged aren't defects either, really.

I just don't understand why you think something is wrong with me for not wanting to go. There have been others on this thread who have expressed the same opinons as me. In fat, my initial post wasn't even really directed at you, I was answering JustErin. Let it go, girl! (or guy, as the case may be)

You need to chill. People are different. It's what makes the world a beautiful place. nod


Did you just call me fat? neutral

oops.

i meant voluptuous.

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Reply #34 posted 05/29/08 6:27pm

JustErin

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JasmineFire said:

JustErin said:



Did you just call me fat? neutral

oops.

i meant voluptuous.

wink


lol
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Reply #35 posted 05/29/08 6:28pm

eikonoklastes

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I went to my last reunion and really enjoyed it. It was so good to see the people that thought they were da-shiznet in school...now they have 10 kids and are on welfare.


..and after all these years you still hold a grudge against them? If you feel good about seeing those people doing worse than you right now, then I guess your high school days weren't too long ago. Or at least that's what I hope, because it's really pathetic.
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Reply #36 posted 05/29/08 6:29pm

Anxiety

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i saw some recent pics of people i went to high school with on classmates.com, and it just confirmed the fact that i do NOT need to be going to a reunion. i mean, sure, it might be funny to see how bad some of the popular kids went to hell in their later years, but i'm talking some gummo-style shit here. pictures i wish i'd never seen, yet are engraved in my memory forever. trailers. tire swings. oakley sunglasses. i can't talk about this anymore. lol

I know where u r coming from on seeing the people from your past. Some of the are tore up---from the floor up.

With Myspace and Facebook, I have been able to get in contact with a lot of my HS classmates. Some of them look great....some don't. What amazes me is how many of them have grandchildren (I'm only 35). I went to a small-town school and some of the girls had kids when we were in middle school and high school. A couple of girls in my class have grandchildren that are under the age of 5 (that's scary as hell to me).


if i found out that someone in my graduating class was a meemaw or a peepaw, i'd have to have a complete mindwipe and like, i don't know, join the hare krishnas and change my name to cinnamon or something. disbelief
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Reply #37 posted 05/29/08 6:29pm

JustErin

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eikonoklastes said:

daPrettyman said:



I went to my last reunion and really enjoyed it. It was so good to see the people that thought they were da-shiznet in school...now they have 10 kids and are on welfare.


..and after all these years you still hold a grudge against them? If you feel good about seeing those people doing worse than you right now, then I guess your high school days weren't too long ago. Or at least that's what I hope, because it's really pathetic.


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Reply #38 posted 05/29/08 6:33pm

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Anxiety said:

daPrettyman said:


I know where u r coming from on seeing the people from your past. Some of the are tore up---from the floor up.

With Myspace and Facebook, I have been able to get in contact with a lot of my HS classmates. Some of them look great....some don't. What amazes me is how many of them have grandchildren (I'm only 35). I went to a small-town school and some of the girls had kids when we were in middle school and high school. A couple of girls in my class have grandchildren that are under the age of 5 (that's scary as hell to me).


if i found out that someone in my graduating class was a meemaw or a peepaw, i'd have to have a complete mindwipe and like, i don't know, join the hare krishnas and change my name to cinnamon or something. disbelief

lol
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Reply #39 posted 05/29/08 6:34pm

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Anxiety said:

daPrettyman said:


I know where u r coming from on seeing the people from your past. Some of the are tore up---from the floor up.

With Myspace and Facebook, I have been able to get in contact with a lot of my HS classmates. Some of them look great....some don't. What amazes me is how many of them have grandchildren (I'm only 35). I went to a small-town school and some of the girls had kids when we were in middle school and high school. A couple of girls in my class have grandchildren that are under the age of 5 (that's scary as hell to me).


if i found out that someone in my graduating class was a meemaw or a peepaw, i'd have to have a complete mindwipe and like, i don't know, join the hare krishnas and change my name to cinnamon or something. disbelief

i found out that a few someones from my graduating class have pretty serious coke addictions. confused

i would rather stay away. seeing them in person would turn me all crazy like that ronald mcdonald commerical that sammij keeps posting.
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Reply #40 posted 05/29/08 6:35pm

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eikonoklastes said:

daPrettyman said:



I went to my last reunion and really enjoyed it. It was so good to see the people that thought they were da-shiznet in school...now they have 10 kids and are on welfare.


..and after all these years you still hold a grudge against them? If you feel good about seeing those people doing worse than you right now, then I guess your high school days weren't too long ago. Or at least that's what I hope, because it's really pathetic.

I never said I held a grudge against them. It just makes me feel good (which I know is probably wrong) to see people that made fun of me or totally ignored me in school having sh!tty lives. BTW, I've been out of school for 17 years.
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Reply #41 posted 05/29/08 6:38pm

Anxiety

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Anxiety said:



if i found out that someone in my graduating class was a meemaw or a peepaw, i'd have to have a complete mindwipe and like, i don't know, join the hare krishnas and change my name to cinnamon or something. disbelief

i found out that a few someones from my graduating class have pretty serious coke addictions. confused

i would rather stay away. seeing them in person would turn me all crazy like that ronald mcdonald commerical that sammij keeps posting.


oh, hell. coke addictions i can handle. finding out that the president of our art guild is now a grammaw is way outside of my ability to process. shake
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Reply #42 posted 05/29/08 6:38pm

eikonoklastes

JustErin said:

eikonoklastes said:



..and after all these years you still hold a grudge against them? If you feel good about seeing those people doing worse than you right now, then I guess your high school days weren't too long ago. Or at least that's what I hope, because it's really pathetic.


rolleyes


That's just my honest opinion. I don't live in the past and wish everyone well even if I couldn't stand them back then.
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Reply #43 posted 05/29/08 6:40pm

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eikonoklastes said:

JustErin said:



rolleyes


That's just my honest opinion. I don't live in the past and wish everyone well even if I couldn't stand them back then.


Need to go for anymore tests?
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Reply #44 posted 05/29/08 6:41pm

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JasmineFire said:

Genesia said:



Actually...one of my favorite things about going to a class reunion is seeing all the guys who were mean to me with paunches and no hair. lol

Bitter, party of one: your table is ready


No. Bitterness is about rancor or animosity. I don't feel either of those. Most of those guys were mean to me because I showed them up academically. It was they who were bitter...not I.

The guys who had it upstairs liked me - because I wasn't a threat to their "manhood." I love seeing them at the reunions - because we get to sharpen our wits on each other all over again. cool
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Reply #45 posted 05/29/08 6:43pm

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I live in the same town I went to high school in, gasp....24 years ago!!!
I run into people I went to school with all the time, I do not need to go to a reunion. I just go down to my local Starbucks and they are sitting there drinking their latte's. Enough is enough.
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Reply #46 posted 05/29/08 6:45pm

Imago

I have absolutely no interest in seeing people in high school, even to know how my friends from that period ended up lol


But, if I were interested in going, sure--why not.
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Reply #47 posted 05/29/08 6:49pm

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I'd ask her if she was interested, if yes, fine. If no, fine... But I would want to show her off a little. My wife is the greatest thing to happen to me, ever. When she gets dressed all fine to go out she breaks neck's with all the head turnin'
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Reply #48 posted 05/29/08 6:55pm

eikonoklastes

JustErin said:

eikonoklastes said:



That's just my honest opinion. I don't live in the past and wish everyone well even if I couldn't stand them back then.


Need to go for anymore tests?


In August and then again in October.

Oh thanks for reminding me. mad
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Reply #49 posted 05/29/08 6:56pm

JustErin

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eikonoklastes said:

JustErin said:



Need to go for anymore tests?


In August and then again in October.

Oh thanks for reminding me. mad


falloff

Couldn't resist.
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Reply #50 posted 05/29/08 6:56pm

JasmineFire

Anxiety said:

JasmineFire said:


i found out that a few someones from my graduating class have pretty serious coke addictions. confused

i would rather stay away. seeing them in person would turn me all crazy like that ronald mcdonald commerical that sammij keeps posting.


oh, hell. coke addictions i can handle. finding out that the president of our art guild is now a grammaw is way outside of my ability to process. shake

lol

i think i could handle that. there were a few teenage parents who i went to high school with and if their children take after them, and my math is correct...then it's about time for the grandbabies to start hatching.

this is kinda the same reason why i avoid going back to my dad's church. last Christmas i ran into the mother of a girl who i was friends with in high school. this woman's an old heroin addict..who may or may not have recovered. in anycase, she made a beeline to me after the service and started rambling all Courtney Love style at me for about 20 minutes. I expected her to start throwing her compact at me any minute. confused It should have been entertaining but it was just really sad. neutral
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Reply #51 posted 05/29/08 7:32pm

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Part of me sorta wants to go. However I went to a catholic HS...not sure how they would take to my partner. Not sure if I'd even bring that part up either. Then again, I didn't have a lot of friends anyways and my favorite teachers are long gone too.

Seriously, if I were you Bob, I'd take Casey JUST BECAUSE I went to a Catholic high school. lol

My 10-year HS reunion comes up in 2010, and I'm on the fence about it. IF my two best friends and I go, we're going to literally do it up right--arrive late, leave early, having crashed the place drunk, doing our best to further tarnish our already fucked-up reputations.

Don't worry, we'll have a taxi or something.
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Reply #52 posted 05/29/08 7:35pm

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Oh, and my boyfriend can only go if he's interested in crashing it with us. He's not worried about embarrassing himself, as he's more of a goof than I am, but all of our significant others are probably better off steering clear. cool
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Reply #53 posted 05/29/08 7:58pm

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I graduated with my hubby, so he got an invite too lol
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Reply #54 posted 05/29/08 8:03pm

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Yeah, probably but with the knowledge that they are going to be bored out of their skull.

And then you'll owe them something really, really nice.
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Reply #55 posted 05/29/08 9:47pm

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Yeah, probably but with the knowledge that they are going to be bored out of their skull.

And then you'll owe them something really, really nice.


The gift of fine jewelry is always appropriate. nod

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