ok..so my ladyfriend seems really interested in putting her finger up my ass...like really interested...i shoot the idea down every time it comes up, but it comes back up like once or twice a month?!?!


and whats more is this isn't new....my last two girlfriends seemed very gung ho on some "let me just strap up once and i promise to lube it good" ...none of them suceeded but i'm noticing a trend...they're always like, "just try it once"...spouting off anatomy facts about milking the prostate and shit...



ok so granted...i tend to (attract and be attracted to) bisexual girls with alot of masculine energy....not like butch dykes or nothin...just pretty girls who are a bit boyish in attitude...but still...is this a hot thing to you guys..ladies? i mean, do more women fantasize about fucking men than we (men) would guess?

...i still refuse to do it, regarless of how cute her ass is...for 1, i'm uncomfortable enough when shit comes out my ass (pardon the pun)...and 2 my sex is good enough that i know she's just tryna have her cake and eat it...like, it's not like "well he sure cant fuck...so lets fingerbang his ass!" ....i mean well ok...so i am a freak...and chances are girls meet me and be like "oooh, i could prolly get his lil ass to do ANYTHING!...like...he'll fight it but he's curious enough to try that shit!"

um...no.





anyway, so...break it down for me ladies...cuz this shit dont make no sense to me





P.S.=> if this thread don't catch fire, i quit
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i love it!

ehuffnsd said:

getting fingerbanged?

Prostate massage · Sexuality
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Prostate massage and prostate milking are terms used to describe the massage or stimulation of the prostate gland (also referred to colloquially as the "P-spot", or the "male G-spot") in males, either for medical or sexual purposes.

The prostate is a part of the sexual response cycle in males, and is a key contributor to male orgasm. Located adjacent to the rectum, it can be stimulated manually. Seminal fluids collected in the prostate are released during orgasm.

[edit] Medical prostate massage

Prostate massage is part of the digital rectal examination (DRE) routinely given to men by urologists in order to look for nodules of prostate cancer and to obtain expressed prostatic secretions (EPS) for examination under microscope.

A few doctors, for a short period in the late 1990s, tried prostate massage in conjunction with antibiotics for the treatment of chronic bacterial prostatitis and benign prostatic hyperplasia (BPH).[1][2] However, in more recent trials, prostate massage was not shown to improve outcomes compared to antibiotics alone.[3] In addition, prostate massage can be extremely risky. Some of the documented consequences are life-threatening periprostatic hemorrhage,[4] cellulitis, Fournier's gangrene,[5] septicaemia, possible disturbance and metastasis of prostate cancer to other parts of the body, and hemorrhoidal flare-up.

Therefore, prostate massage is not used to treat any medical condition today.

Prostate massage should never be performed on patients with acute prostatitis, because the infection can spread elsewhere in the body if massage is performed.

[edit] Sexual prostate massage
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Done internally either by lubricated finger(s), a prostate massager or other medical instrument, prostate massage may result in ejaculation without any genital stimulation. The prostate can also be indirectly massaged externally through the perineum, although this may not be effective in the removal of fluid.

No more pressure should be used than for rubbing an eyeball. The procedure is initially undertaken gently using the index finger and a latex glove by massaging the lobes on either side of the prostate, taking care not to rub vigorously on the nerves in the middle.

If the prostate is full and stimulated sexually in some cases it may consciously and voluntarily be contracted, thereby emptying itself in the same way as during ejaculation but with none of the surrounding organs stimulated, without actually squeezing it digitally.

Electroejaculation is a procedure in which nerves are stimulated via an electric probe, which is inserted into the rectum adjacent to the prostate. It is most commonly encountered in animal husbandry for the purpose of collecting samples for testing or breeding. Prostate milking is also encountered as part of sexual activities, particularly involving the use of sexual denial.

Prostate massage, in the sexual context, can refer firstly to the stimulation of the prostate as part of conventional sexual activity - for example, as part of autoeroticism/masturbation, or as performed by a sexual partner on a male as part of normal, non-fetishistic sexual intercourse, in which case the purpose is predominantly the enhancement of sexual pleasure in the male - stimulation of the prostate and anus in itself, tends to increase the intensity of male ejaculation and orgasm; additionally, massaging the prostate tends to increase the volume of fluid that is accumulated in the prostate prior to ejaculation, thus increasing the volume of ejaculation and the pleasure that is associated with ejaculation.

A second, alternative type of prostate massage, also referred to as "prostate milking", predominantly refers to the sexual practice, common within the BDSM community, of relieving the buildup of seminal fluids within the prostate, by discharging the fluid through massage, without the male experiencing orgasm. Prostate milking is commonly practised by/upon participants of a sexual fetish known as erotic sexual denial that involves abstention from orgasm and ejaculation for considerable periods of time (often many weeks or months). In such cases, the purpose of the massage is to temporarily reduce the level of sexual arousal in the male recipient by prompting the release of the prostatic fluid that was accumulated during the period of time in which the male had not ejaculated.

The term "prostate milking" appears to carry a more specialized erotic meaning as compared to the general term of "prostate massage", since it specifically invokes a fetishism of the male seminal fluids (i.e. to "milk"); and as such, the term "prostate milking" is seldom used, if at all, outside of the communities which are involved in the sexual fetishes in question. When referring to stimulation of the prostate under more conventional circumstances (i.e. enhancement of the immediate orgasm as part of normal sex), the more general term "prostate massage" would probably be more appropriate. In the BDSM realm, the term "sissy milking" also refers specifically to prostate milking, as part of feminization, where 'feminized' males are popularly called "sissies" by others who share the fetish.

[edit] Risks

Even a non-invasive prostate massage may carry a risk, which is increased if the massage is 'vigorous'[1]. Bacteria or cancer cells may be liberated and spread through the blood stream; prostatic calculi if present, may tear delicate membranes within the prostate, an internal massage may result in perforation of bowel and/or contamination; it may cause a hemorrhoid flare-up.

[edit] Equipment

A prostate massager is an instrument used anally, designed to massage the prostate gland.

The shape of a prostate massager is similar to a finger, since prostate massages are traditionally given digitally. They usually have a slightly curved head to effectively massage the prostate. Lubricant is usually inserted into the anus. A prostate massager should be used with care because of the sensitivity of the prostate. Correct use involves a medium to light repetitive massage, or circular motion—the tool is not intended for use in a thrusting manner.

Not that i'm down with anal play or anything, just thought i'd give you some insight.


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wait...just for future refernce...i dont want anybody to explain anal play to me, i just wanna know why/how a girl can get off on that...

magnificentsynthesizer said:

best edit ever.

i'm so not clicking on that link at work

SirPsycho said:

But you are starting threads like this at work .

I think the stap-on thing sounds a bit MUCH

But otherwise, with the men I've known it really just depends on the person. The reality is there are a lot of nerve endings there (for better or worse) and you have some men that are staunchy against you going anywhere in that region (even if you make a mistake and grab their behinds too hard they CLENCH UP )or some men who, while not wanting a full "alien probe" in any shape form or fashion, will at least allow for light foreplay in the shower, or with feathers, etc, because well, it tickles .

I think it's a very intimate decision between two adults, and as long as rules for good hygiene are involved, I think the stigma attached to it should be squashed. I've always felt that many men feel that analplay is a hreat to their heterosexuality. I've always disagreed with that. Simple booty tickles don't make a man gay, wanting to be involved exclusively with other men physically and emotionally does. It's just another place with nerve endings to provide pleasure. Funny, because I always wondered why cunnilingus or female anal play doesn't have the same bad rap attached to it

SirPsycho said:

and more!

Serious said:

zing!

I dont do that.

I can prove it!

Get a lil and sum anal beads and let her have a go at it !

The admission of your desire for a hot thread designation takes credibility away from your claims of repeated attempts to penetrate your ass.

I'm afraid we'll have to smell your girlfriends fingers. By "we" I mean anyone but me.

Do you have any photos of her crusty fingernails?

ehuffnsd said:

Totally

SirPsycho said:

I actually didn't even read past that part.

SirPsycho said:

Could be two reasons: one could be the good, old fashioned, archaic, Freudian idea of penis envy. The second option is that she smply wants to give you pleasure and watch you get off in every way possible... It's always pleasing for a person to watch their partner enjoying the throes of ecstasy. However, I would say examine your partners very closely so you can get a clear idea of where their heads are at. Better yet, just ask them WHY they want to do this. if they can't even give you a clear cut answer as to why that pops their, er,uh, pistol, so to speak, then that CLEARLY is not the lady (should you ever want or be curious) to try to experiment that way with. You know, booty muscles clench up in UUURYBODY...and for good reason . There's got to be a level of both explicit trust and uninhibited vunerability there when you're going that deep with someone (no pun intended).
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Ottensen said:

universally? no...but i have met women who were grossed out by anal play and even the idea of head.

and its not a threat kinda thing...2 be honest, i let someone lick my ass once back in the day day and that shit just felt inapropriate...not like a "huh?..ohh...ohhhhh" ...i didnt get the big deal....and my homeboy used to go on and on about ass licking like he was liberated or somethin

Those girls sound like freaks. send them round my way.

And it's cool that you are not into anal play AS a guy. I'm really not either unless he really wants to do then I will. I enjoy watching chicks bang a guy with a strap-on on film but I really don't dig it in real life.

True freaky deaky edit.
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do like goin' down on a lady orally and eating that pussy and lickin' that ass tell its all nice and juicy ! Then placing a finger are 2 in her asshole,usin' my tounge on her clit and a vibrator in her pussy ! Then when she cums, watchin' it run down her ass crack and lickin' up all the sweet juice ! Now that is fun and pleasureable ! "Toss That Salad"

IrrisistableRich said:

you know they say a finger is just like marijuana meaning that it's just a gateway to bigger and harder things like dildos, broomsticks, gerbils and light bulbs.

just saying.

Ottensen said:

her most recent claim is: "because you'll like it, and i'll be gentle"
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magnificentsynthesizer said:

my love for this website is renewed daily...thank God for GD

IrrisistableRich said:

Chile, that's too much disclosure

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DanceWme said:

I know that's right!! HOLLA!!!!

Stymie said:

whats the appeal with it on film?

maybe you have a cute ass


let us see

SirPsycho said:

If I told you, you'd never try anal play.