SirPsycho said:

what can i say - you've rubbed off on me.

ZombieKitten said:

yeah ... I'm shy like that ... back then, it was e-mails ... she recently gave me her phone # ... They have a name for that, I can't remember.

Ok, so .... I met Arthur at school, in the cafeteria to be exact . I was a sophomore and he was a junior. He was friends with two of my friends and we'd hang out during lunch. I didn't really pay him much attention, but apparently he flirted with me for a long time. I was oblivious to it. So, anyway, one day, we were hanging out in the foyer waiting for the bell to ring to go to the next period and he asked me what I'd think about him and me being together. I was like WHAT?!!! I told him I'd think about it. So, he asked me again the next day and I told him I'd like to be his girlfriend I was kinda nervous 'cause I come from a strict, Catholic family and my parents did not want me dating. We had our first kiss in the library. We were together for about 7 months. We exchanged gifts on our birthdays and on Valentine's day. We'd hang out at school and during the weekend. I liked him a lot, but I wasn't ready for a real relationship, so we ended up breaking up. I consider him my first because he was just that. Boys didn't pay me any attention until then

sammij said:

why the face?

SirPsycho said:

i dunno, just feeling cheeky...

sammij said:

SirPsycho said:

alright alright, now you gotta answer your own questions
[Edited 5/19/08 18:09pm]

SirPsycho said:

I just didn't wanna answer the question.

Rhondab said:

you wouldn't...

sammij said:

Her name was/is tiffany, i was in 7th and she was in 8th grade i think. I met her at a church youth retreat.

So we're (all the kids) all sittin in a conference room at the hotel it was at and she comes up to me and says "i heard you like my girl tasha" and i was like "yeah she kinda cute" and my boy who was a lil older than both of us jumped in and says "that dont mean ya'll cant talk to each other" and she was like "i guess so" and she gave me her hotel room number. So after that we kinda hung around each other the rest of the week.

i'd sit with her at our bible study sessions and on our tours through the city (i forget what city we were in). i bought lil beanie babies and stuffed animals from the gift shop everyday and gave em to her. and she would wear my hat and jacket when we went out.

i remember she and the girls from her church went to the pool one day, and me and my boys was just walkin around lookin for shit to do..and she calls my name (actually she called me sisqo, cuz i used to dress like a pretty boy and pop-lock and sing...plus dru hill was the shit at the time...i used to call her janet cuz she looked like justice from poetic justice to me ) and jumps out of the pool, wraps her towel around her and walks up to me like "why havent you kissed me yet?" and i'm like "uh.. um..." and she was like "my girl said you must not like me cuz we aint kissed yet" and her girl was behind her was like "mmm hmm!" so she was like "do it or i'ma break up with you" so i kissed her. wasnt no tongue kiss or nothin (even tho i had done that already) but that was the first time i kissed somebody and forgot where i was for a a few seconds. then she smiled and was like "thanks" and went back to her room. after that, i was takin pictures of her booty when she wasnt lookin and tryna get her to like 24-7 (i was still a virgin tho, as was she)..and she'd be always say "no, my aunt stays in the room with me, and besides i'm not ready yet" i was mad i couldnt get none then, but i'll forever respect her for that. when the week was over i was leavin before she was (she was from jersey city, which aint to far from where i was but it wasnt like we had cars or nothin) so she wrote me a four page letter about how happy she was she met me and was cryin her eyes out cuz she was didnt want me to leave before she did.

we "stayed together" for about a year and a half after that even tho it was only a "phone relationship"...we would see each other at church events and we went out on one date (my first) to see "she's all that" on valentines day. eventually i broke up with her cuz we ran out of stuff to talk about and i was "bored". sad thing about it is, she's probably the nicest/most considerate woman i've ever been with and to this day, i consider her with the highest regard... but she likes girls now my parents loved her. in fact she was the only girlfriend i had that my parents liked for real for real. (as i got older my girlfriends were ghetto ass freaky girls who wore spikes and chains) my father still calls her his daughter in law and everybody from both our churches always make jokes when we sit next to each other like when are we gonna get married and finish the story(we still see each other at random church events, and actually i saw her just yesterday actually)

needless to say that was my first girlfriend/love. whenever i see her, my eyes still follow her around the room, and i still kinda get swept away by how pretty she is. she'll always come sit with me, and we're usually inseparable when we're in the same room until one of us has to leave.

SirPsycho said:

AWWWWW

and i gotta admit, that pic you posted of you when you were younger, like a teen, i always thought you were sisqo'esque
just as long as you're not as short




and a btw edit: that was so sweet, i almost didn't believe it, there was no freak factor to it
[Edited 5/19/08 19:05pm]

sammij said:

truth be told, i dig that shit much more than raw ass booty butt naked handcuff bite me hurt me call me a slut sex....but i am pretty fond of the latter...in case you cant tell

Mr. V had told me he liked me when we were in 7th grade. I slapped him since I had a boyfriend. I was kinda violent. hehe We became best buds by 9th grade and then he finally asked me to be his girlfriend while we were at the drive-in. He asked what I would say if he were to ask me and I told him, "probably yes." He waited about 5 minutes and then asked. I told him I had to think about it. I waited a few seconds and told him I was kidding and my answer was yes.

I still hadn't had my first kiss and finally maybe a month or 2 later, we had our first kiss... once again at the drive-in. He thought I was lying when I told him he was my first. I guess I had some skillz even then.


We never went on any dates really since we didn't drive, but my mom worked at the drive-in, so we just always had our drive-in movie dates. Sometimes some heavy petting was goin on and we got the flashlight shone on us a couple of times. hahaha Luckily they didn't see anything.

He was my first love and my even be my last. Who knows... we're kinda in the talking stages again... many many years later. I felt my heart break in a million pieces when we broke up. I never was affected like that in previous relationships. He understood me and my moods and my quirks like no other. I was the only one he ever trusted enough to share personal things with.

Yep, that pretty much covers it.

SirPsycho said:

SirPsycho said:

That was the sweetest lil story ever But, did you say she's into girls now???

SCNDLS said:

yeah ...it seems to be a trend with the women i get with

SirPsycho said:

Awww... That was such a sweet story!

My first real boyfriend was named Rodrick. He was the neighborhood bad boy/bully, always getting in trouble, breaking shit, and getting kicked out of school. I used to see him in the neighborhood causing trouble all the time.

But my first interaction with him was when I was in 6th grade and he was in 8th. I was walking home one day and that fool chased me on his bike and actually ran me over. Some adults actually had to intervene to protect me and he promptly told them to "fuck off!" I was scared of him and hated him for the next 2 years.

Unfortunately, my bestfriend lived next door to him. So, of course, I couldn't visit her without running into his crazy ass. The summer after my 9th grade year I spent a lot of time at my girlfriend's house and Rodrick would make it a point to come talk to me when no one was watching. He'd be real sweet and shy, but I was like "Nucca, you ran me over 3 years ago, I ain't fallin' for that bullshit." But over time he convinced me that he was REALLY feeling me. He didn't even remember doing it.

Rodrick had a reputation for fucking all the girls in the neighborhood and I wasn't even having that. But he used to write me the sweetest poems and shit. Then he asked me to "go" with him. Of course we had to keep it a secret because I wasn't allowed to date. Also, because of his bad rep in the neighborhood my mother used to always talk about him being a hoodlum so there's no way I could tell her I wanted to date him.

Amyway, my mother didn't come home from work til 10 pm at night so I was not allowed to have company in the house. So me and Rodrick would spend HOURS kissing and petting on the patio in our backyard. Even though he was a ho, he NEVER pressured me to have sex with him. We weren't "together" long, but I remember him buying me flowers a few times. I convinced myself we were a modern day Romeo and Juliet. But the reality was he was so smart but didn't want to do right. Then he got into slingin' and I couldn't have no parts of that so we drifted apart.

Years later, when I was in college, I came home to visit and was sitting in IHOP with my homegirl and I saw him. He was with some friends of his, I remember him telling them, "You see this girl right here, she was the love of my life." Needless to say that shit got my panties wet and I gave him my number.

We started talking and decided to see each other again. So one weekend I drove down to Austin to stay with him. And I remember he had candles burning, and flowers everywhere, and gifts for me in his apartment. He really wanted to make our first time together special after ALL those years of knowing each other and him not getting it. But, sadly, it was the BIGGEST disappointment ever. We shoulda just kept the fantasy alive.

SCNDLS said:

sssss ooooouuuchhhh.

Moonstar319 said:

i almost forgot...DMX's "How's it Goin Down" had come out not too long before/around that time...and we swore that was our song....


now that im older i laugh at how that was "our song" considering the storyline is X fuckin somebody's baby mama...but still that song always reminds me of that weekend

SirPsycho said:

and there it is!

I never had a boyfriend.....




le sigh

KidaDynamite said:

kida.... will you go steady with me?
i'm definitely not a boy, but... i can lurve u

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[Edited 5/19/08 20:07pm]

KidaDynamite said:

why not? ...don't tell me no guy ever liked you...

sammij said:

YES! YES! YES!

Holy crap. People are writing novels here.

KidaDynamite said:

JustErin said:

sorry?

sammij said:

Meaning, there are some long ass posts on this topic.

oops
[Edited 5/19/08 20:26pm]