...tell me about (who you consider) your very first semi-serious pre-sex girlfriend/boyfriend...


{someone who's obviously important enough to warrent that title}


where did you meet?

who approached who?

where was your first ?

(depending on how old you were) did you go on dates?

how did you feel?/why do you consider them your first?

did you give each other gifts?

pretty much, paint me a picture of you, young and in love....so innocent...yakno when compared to the sick twisted perverted orger we've all come to know and love

lol.. mr. walker was my first boyfriend...

just started high school, after years of frightening boys (as in boys were scared of me), i managed to catch the eye of a boy that was always... i mean ALWAYS a joker.. he was in my geography class

one day a mutual friend had us send notes to each other, apparently he wanted to talk to me because he, well, err, liked me

i was floored simply because it's never happened to me before, and he confessed, in note-form lol, that it's never happened to him either... and i thought he was gorgeous... he had these set of hazel eyes, that in the summer, or if he'd get angry, they'd turn this shade of green.. wow... just remembering it now...

that night anyway, he called me (after he asked for my number) and he asked me out because he was so nervous.. but for a 15 year old... his voice was so deep.. i remember just being paralyzed by chills because i've never been wooed by a boy before...

we first kissed one night at his house while watching american pie
first he kissed me right under my bottom lip (i guess he saw the lil beauty mark i have hiding there) and i went in for the actual kiss after that...
his lips!

we stayed together for almost 2 years...
after giving him confident boosts every day that we were together, he felt he didn't really need to see me anymore
he was with someone new quite quickly after, he dumped me in the winter and he was taken by that summer

i was crushed... and there's apart of me that still is
once in a while we'll see each other, and my heart still skips a beat... but i'm generally always googly-eyed over some silly boy

we had a nasty break up...so many tears that i couldnt cry to my parents because - well - they didn't know any of it had happened until now...

fin.
[Edited 5/19/08 16:14pm]

oh, and the first teddy bear he gave me on valentines day is right here beside me, i just took it out of hiding about a year ago.


oh and he was my first everything but sex pretty much
it was all awkward but it was so fun because we were so comfortable with each other when we were naked (showers together, the whole 9... almost)
[Edited 5/19/08 16:25pm]

where did you meet? We met behind my High School

who approached who? Her BFF approached me and asked if I liked her.

where was your first kisses? On the back porch of my house.

(depending on how old you were) did you go on dates? We would go see movies and take walks. We would ride the bus together to get form A to Z.

how did you feel?/why do you consider them your first? I loved her, thought she was the best thing ever. We never had intercourse but we made it to third base almost every time we met.

did you give each other gifts? I gave her flowers regularly and I brought her lingerie and dresses from Europe.

pretty much, paint me a picture of you, young and in love....so innocent...yakno when compared to the sick twisted perverted orger we've all come to know and love cool

After 20 years of silence and separation MySpace came through and we've connected again. We have yet to meet but we write semi-regularly.

Never had one

me neither

go outside and play

SirPsycho said:

What does "pre-sex" mean exactly? One I never had sex with? Or do you just wanna know all the goofy shit we did before we got around to the fuckery?

'splain this shit

oh my god

his name was Ben

I was so in love with him he distracted me from my studies for 2 years

I don't really remember, but I had a few pre-sex boyfriends.

JustErin said:

actually, first boyfriend I got, I waited about an hour, to confirm he was indeed my boyfriend then I jumped his bones. I couldn't help it

before him I only had crushes

ZombieKitten said:

BlueZebra said:

I practically made him sign a contract. I made sure if he introduced me to friends he would say "my girlfriend Charlotte"

ZombieKitten said:

Wow! You've always been hardcore

Rhondab said:

come again?

Her name was Elsie
We met at a party, where I asked her to dance, she gave me her phone #
We had a few dates (10 or something)
We never

You should know that I was studying at Uni that period and she was studying in another city (and living at home). Sometimes she came to me (she had a Beamer, Elsie was tha bomb). I used to call her every Wednesday, whether we met or not.
Then all of a sudden, her mom would pick up and not let me talk to her. I was devastated, she was my first true love, seriously.

Recently, I spotted her profile on linkedin ( , yeah I was randomly putting in names of hot girls from the past ) and we got in contact again.
I have her number ... now what am I to do ...

CalhounSq said:

well...ultimately i mean the first guy that ever was "your world" ...i you happened 2 lose your virginity to that same person cool

SirPsycho said:

and don't be mad cuz you can't remember

ZombieKitten said:

still

I so can feel the love

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

I just didn't know how these things worked! I didn't mess around

BlueZebra said:

yeah I loved him all right

I really thought she was gonna be my wife

BlueZebra said:

oh dear

ZombieKitten said:

really ... should I call her ?

sammij said:

you startin to think like me

SirPsycho said:

'kay...


where did you meet? @ some stupid job fair for all the local schools

who approached who? we were both staring, then he approached me.

where was your first kisses? I really can't remember. Probably in his car.

(depending on how old you were) did you go on dates? Yea - movies, to eat without leaving tips b/c we were ghetto & didn't know any better He would pick me up from school or get me @ lunch pretty frequently.

how did you feel?/why do you consider them your first? I was SO in love w/ him, though I was gonna marry him of course It was my first real relationship. Thank God he fucked it all up or I'd probably still be w/ his ridiculous ass

did you give each other gifts? We did all the b-day/valentines/xmas business... he'd give me roses when he'd done something very wrong... I still don't like red roses to this day

pretty much, paint me a picture of you, young and in love....so innocent...yakno when compared to the sick twisted perverted orger we've all come to know and love

That's pretty much the whole picture. We went to each others family functions, he'd work on my car when I got one eventually. When things were good it was really nice, we got along well. I still talk to him after all these years (we were together 4 years), but only once every year or 2. Sometimes I run into him out in the world. It's trippy, he always gives me the sense that he'd get back if he could (he always manages to ask me about any marriage/relationships within the first 3 minutes of talking, the goof). It satisfies me to know he never will after all he put me through.

BlueZebra said:

CAN OF WORMS YOU DON'T NEED

ZombieKitten said:

oh ... I've opened some fucking cans of critters I don't need in the past weeks I can handle one more

BlueZebra said:

I thought you were gonna call her MONTHS ago, weren't you going to meet for coffee or something?