How do you undo a crush you have on someone?

I'm really trying NOT to crush on this dude and just view him as a friend but damn it, its hard.


Any advice.

No advice.

I want you to keep crushin'.

Find a new crush.

CarrieMpls said:

As they say, the best way to get over someone is to get under someone else.

JustErin said:

Completely indulge in the crush.

Fantasize about him constantly, and force yourself to masturbate to him every single day. Every time you find yourself not crushing on him, crush on purpose.

Soon you'll get sick of it. It's like making your kid smoke the whole carton when you catch him with cigarettes.

I assume.

i'm still trying to figure that one out





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Rhondab said:

Three ways to deal with it. One is to completely remove that person from your life. But since you regard him as a friend, that may not be an option. The second option is to, as Carrie said, find a new one.

Or, as a last resort, you can take your mind off of it momentarily by sending me naked pics of yourself.

I know what I'd do.

Rhondab said:

Ok, seriously...I don't really think you can uncrush someone. You either do nothing and suffer or stop the contact.

Don't ask me.

Talk to him. You'll probably find something out about him that you dont like. Then again, you may start liking him more.

JustErin said:

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If I knew, I'd tell you. I'm having the same problem

they way i stop crushing on girls is asking them out for a date and as always they say no, do I never speak to them again

Rhondab said:

Do him.
He might be horrible in bed and his feet might stink.

That should do it

I think the easiest way is to find someone else to have a crush on.


But utlimately you have to gage whether this crush makes you feel better or worse, how it affects your self-esteem, before moving on from it.

If it's harmelss, by all means, go on crushin'.
If you end up feeling unimportant and self-pitying--girl, find someone else quick!!!!!

DanceWme said:

i don't think that'd make matters any better!

DanceWme said:

sammij said:

yeah ur right.

He might have the bomb ass sex AND his feet might be done up real pretty.

Ok scatch what I said.

Rhonda when you find the answer to this um, crush issue, orgnote me... I have the same problem

DanceWme said:

DanceWme said:

i'd be in sooo much trouble if i did that...

violator said:

ok....you seeing me naked will help me or you?

grrrrr


Yeah, I'm trying to continue the friendship but there's this crush thing.





I need a distraction.

I used to go through this ALL the damn time and - as hard as it may seem - I think distance is the key.

Why do you want to uncrush on your crush?

Do u think telling him, just to get it out of ur system, will help?

DanceWme said:

wouldn't that only make things awkward and thus kind of end things, especially if you want to remain friends?

sammij said:

thats what i was thinking.

Maybe he's feeling the same thing and u guys are meant to be together.
Take a risk.

find someone elssssseeeee!