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Bisexuality I think most are bisexual in nature but end up leaning one way or another based on conditions and desires.
What are your thoughts on this? Do you think there is such a thing or that people are simply confused? Are you Bi? If so do you like both equally or do you prefer one gender over another? Dan?  Christian Zombie Vampires | |
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Imago said:
What do you want me to say? Like a fucking charm.  [Edited 5/13/08 12:38pm] I'm not mad at you, I'm mad at the dirt. | |
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I believe in bisexuality. I think that I'm 98% gay. 2% Rose McGowan or Megan Fox. MyeternalgrattitudetoPhil&Val.Herman said "We want sweaty truckers at the truck stop! We want cigar puffing men that look like they wanna beat the living daylights out of us" Val"sporking is spooning with benefits" | |
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Erin believes every woman is a little bisexual.
I don't care either way as long as I keep getting ass. | |
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You've met me Bob.
What does your gaydar tell you? 
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rushing07 said: Imago said:
What do you want me to say? Like a fucking charm.
[Edited 5/13/08 12:38pm] Works every time! But I am serious about the question though. Christian Zombie Vampires | |
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Imago is an equal opportunity luvah!!!!! MyeternalgrattitudetoPhil&Val.Herman said "We want sweaty truckers at the truck stop! We want cigar puffing men that look like they wanna beat the living daylights out of us" Val"sporking is spooning with benefits" | |
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Imago said: You've met me Bob.
What does your gaydar tell you?
I'll answer this , I promise. Honestly, my gaydar is way off when I was around you. You are pretty masculine. However you have more hotties on facebook than Lohan has trips to rehab! Christian Zombie Vampires | |
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superspaceboy said: Imago said: You've met me Bob.
What does your gaydar tell you?
I'll answer this , I promise. Honestly, my gaydar is way off when I was around you. You are pretty masculine. However you have more hotties on facebook than Lohan has trips to rehab! I'm not mad at you, I'm mad at the dirt. | |
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MIGUELGOMEZ said: Imago is an equal opportunity luvah!!!!!
oh god I'm not mad at you, I'm mad at the dirt. | |
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superspaceboy said: Imago said: You've met me Bob.
What does your gaydar tell you?
I'll answer this , I promise. Honestly, my gaydar is way off when I was around you. You are pretty masculine. However you have more hotties on facebook than Lohan has trips to rehab! OMG, I started a private photo gallery (which I don't really have anything much posted on), and my friend Scott Kirwin (he's very very good looking) has like 1000 friends who all think I'm hot. So I got a billion add requests, and I accepted them all. Now I'm trying to figure out who the hell I knwo and who I don't, and it's annoying cause I'm getting status updates from guys in leather chaps and shit. 
I'm not THAT masculine. | |
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Imago said: superspaceboy said: Honestly, my gaydar is way off when I was around you. You are pretty masculine. However you have more hotties on facebook than Lohan has trips to rehab! OMG, I started a private photo gallery (which I don't really have anything much posted on), and my friend Scott Kirwin (he's very very good looking) has like 1000 friends who all think I'm hot. So I got a billion add requests, and I accepted them all. Now I'm trying to figure out who the hell I knwo and who I don't, and it's annoying cause I'm getting status updates from guys in leather chaps and shit.
I'm not THAT masculine.  I'm not mad at you, I'm mad at the dirt. | |
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MIGUELGOMEZ said: I believe in bisexuality. I think that I'm 98% gay. 2% Rose McGowan or Megan Fox.
Chris is disgusted by pretty much every female and male celebrity crush I've ever had. The Normal Whores Club | |
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MIGUELGOMEZ said: Imago is an equal opportunity luvah!!!!!
Proud Memaw to Seyhan Olivia Christine ,Zoey Cirilo Jaylee & Ellie Abigail Lillian  | |
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FunkMistress said: MIGUELGOMEZ said: I believe in bisexuality. I think that I'm 98% gay. 2% Rose McGowan or Megan Fox.
Chris is disgusted by pretty much every female and male celebrity crush I've ever had. Do tell!!!! MyeternalgrattitudetoPhil&Val.Herman said "We want sweaty truckers at the truck stop! We want cigar puffing men that look like they wanna beat the living daylights out of us" Val"sporking is spooning with benefits" | |
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rushing07 said: Imago said: OMG, I started a private photo gallery (which I don't really have anything much posted on), and my friend Scott Kirwin (he's very very good looking) has like 1000 friends who all think I'm hot. So I got a billion add requests, and I accepted them all. Now I'm trying to figure out who the hell I knwo and who I don't, and it's annoying cause I'm getting status updates from guys in leather chaps and shit.
I'm not THAT masculine. MyeternalgrattitudetoPhil&Val.Herman said "We want sweaty truckers at the truck stop! We want cigar puffing men that look like they wanna beat the living daylights out of us" Val"sporking is spooning with benefits" | |
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I'm bi for this certain type of guy and I won't fuck them. It's more of I get a crush on them kinda thing, and hell maybe we'd do some heavy petting, but I don't like the idea of screwing them because I like them too much. 
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Spookymuffin said: I'm bi for this certain type of guy and I won't fuck them. It's more of I get a crush on them kinda thing, and hell maybe we'd do some heavy petting, but I don't like the idea of screwing them because I like them too much.
I'm all about pussy otherwise. What if it's TRENT!!! MyeternalgrattitudetoPhil&Val.Herman said "We want sweaty truckers at the truck stop! We want cigar puffing men that look like they wanna beat the living daylights out of us" Val"sporking is spooning with benefits" | |
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i think most people are, to whatever extent. i don't know if i am more than i realize just because i haven't been in a situation to act on it yet.  [Edited 5/13/08 13:25pm] | |
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okkkkkaaaaay.
I'm not sure which one I find more attractive physically. I would think men. But there are aspects of women that I find incredible. Also women just present so many fewer problems then men. As flirtatious as I can be, and as misbehaved as I've been at times in my life in the past, I'm being awfully judgemental to other men, but we're depraved whores compared to most women. It's not that women don't want sex all the time. It's not that they don't want to do some pretty kinky stuff. It's that they present themselves with alot more self-respect, restraint, and class, always trying to maintain SOME dignity about it. Men seem to pride themselves in acting like animals. I exist in a world where I have been all too comfortable just identifying myself as striaght, and picking and chosing when or if to hop the fence (contrary to popular belief this is not often ), due to many of the afore mentioned factors (cowardice, convinience, and privileage).
You simply don't flaunt an alternative sexuality in my career field. It spells doom for your career even if those around you claim to be tolerant. This strange twilight zone of sexual energy I seem to exude towards folks seems to get me alot of attention at times. There's a certain type of gay man that seems to absolutely go for me--it's usually one who's dealing with a good deal of repression about being gay. I've had gay men in my life "come out" to just me and me alone, making me promise to take their secret to my grave. And then I've had GHEY gay men find me either repressed or irrisistable depending on where they are on their journey--and I'm starting to realize it really is a journy for those who identify themselves are being purely gay. Ultimately, if I could pick and chose those that I would rather be with, I'd probably pick women. All the complications that come with a 'hetero' relationship are dwarfed, in my opinion, of what comes with a gay relationship. There is absolutely no doubt in my mind about that. That being said, I've never had to think about or express my attraction towards other men. Nor , for cowardly reasons mostly, or for convinience, had to contemplate a true relationship with another man. I still look at other men as competition. I still find other men , especially strong, alpha males, as a threat or something to be 'dealt with'. Not exactly a good recipe for romance So even in my mid 30s I've never had to 'come out' so to speak about this aspect of my life. Repressed? Yeah. sure. Confused? I guess so. Sad, and cowardly? You bet.
But I've said this before on my myspace blogs. I may be a full grown man who is working on climbing the corporate later, setting up a house, planning for retirement, etc. etc. But emotionally, I'm still just a boy. I'm still just an ill tempered, vain, often frightenned little boy. I've built such an emotional shell around me through years of conditioning that I don't identify with this or that sexual orientation at all. Yes, I can come off as suprisingly masculine, but it's because I've deliberately done this. It's like I'm trying to strike a balance between fem (hair, etc. etc.) and butch (my voice, etc.) that I appear confused and repressed. I confuse everyone around me. All the time. And at times I love it. At others, I realize how alone I've been, even around my closest friends.
I'm out of place. If you were to stick me in a group of gay men, I would view them with odd fascination, some adoration, but a bit of discomfort--I don't exist in that world except to get my feet wet or ass licked
Stick me in a group of straight men, and I have a blast... until they start talking about marriage, or kids, etc. etc. Then I get a bit uncomfortable. Stick me in a group of bi-sexual men (and when I was in the military my two closes male friends were bi believe it or not) and I get uncomfortable as well. Most folks who label themselves bisexual (if indeed they REALLY are), are very promiscous and sexual. I know it's a stereotype but they are. And I've never been one who went to nightclubs simply looking to score--though it happenned from time to time. That being said, I'm currently madly in love with a man. And I've never felt this much in love. Like , ever. There, I said it.
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Imago said: okkkkkaaaaay.
I'm not sure which one I find more attractive physically. I would think men. But there are aspects of women that I find incredible. Also women just present so many fewer problems then men. As flirtatious as I can be, and as misbehaved as I've been at times in my life in the past, I'm being awfully judgemental to other men, but we're depraved whores compared to most women. It's not that women don't want sex all the time. It's not that they don't want to do some pretty kinky stuff. It's that they present themselves with alot more self-respect, restraint, and class, always trying to maintain SOME dignity about it. Men seem to pride themselves in acting like animals. I exist in a world where I have been all too comfortable just identifying myself as striaght, and picking and chosing when or if to hope the fence (contrary to popular belief this is not often ), due to many of the afore mentioned factors (cowardice, convinience, and privileage).
You simply don't flaunt an alternative sexuality in my career field. It spells doom for your career even if those around you claim to be tolerant. This strange twilight zone of sexual energy I seem to exude towards folks seems to get me alot of attention at times. There's a certain type of gay man that seems to absolutely go for me--it's usually one who's dealing with a good deal of repression about being gay. I've had gay men in my life "come out" to just me and me alone, making promise to take their secret to my grave. And then I've had GHEY gay men find me either repressed or irrisistable depending on where they are on their journey--and I'm starting to realize it really is a journy for those who identify themselves are being purely gay. Ultimately, if I could pick and chose those that I would rather be with, I'd probably pick women. All the complications that come with a 'hetero' relationship are dwarfed, in my opinion, of what comes with a gay relationship. There is absolutely no doubt in my mind about that. That being said, I'm currently madly in love with a man. And I've never felt this much in love. Like , ever. There, I said it.
That being said, I've never had to think about or express my attraction towards other men. Nor , for cowardly reasons mostly, or for convinience, had to contemplate a true relationship with another man. I still look at other men as competition. I still find other men , especially strong, alpha males, as a threat or something to be 'dealt with'. Not exactly a good recipe for romance So even in my mid 30s I've never had to 'come out' so to speak about this aspect of my life. Repressed? Yeah. sure. Confused? I guess so. Sad, and cowardly? You bet.
But I've said this before on my myspace blogs. I may be a full grown man who is working on climbinb the corporate later, setting up a house, planning for retirement, etc. etc. But emotionally, I'm still just a boy. I'm still just an ill tempered, vain, often frightenned little boy. I've built such an emotional shell around me through years of conditioning that I don't identify with this or that sexual orientation at all. Yes, I can come off as suprisingly masculine, but it's because I've deliberately done this. It's like I'm trying to strike a balance between fem (hair, etc. etc.) and butch (my voice, etc.) that I appear confused and repressed. I confuse everyone around me. All the time. And at times I love it. At others, I realize how alone I've been, even around my closest friends.
I'm out of place. If you were to stick me in a group of gay men, I would view them with odd fascination, some adoration, but a bit of discomfort--I don't exist in that world except to get my feet wet or ass licked
Stick me in a group of straight men, and I have a blast... until they start talking about marriage, or kids, etc. etc. Then I get a bit uncomfortable. Stick me in a group of bi-sexual men (and when I was in the military my two closes male friends were bi believe it or not) and I get uncomfortable as well. Most folks who label themselves bisexual (if indeed they REALLY are), are very promiscous and sexual. I know it's a stereotype but they are. And I've never been one who went to nightclubs simply looking to score--though it happenned from time to time. Awww crap, here we go... | |
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2the9s said: Imago said: okkkkkaaaaay.
I'm not sure which one I find more attractive physically. I would think men. But there are aspects of women that I find incredible. Also women just present so many fewer problems then men. As flirtatious as I can be, and as misbehaved as I've been at times in my life in the past, I'm being awfully judgemental to other men, but we're depraved whores compared to most women. It's not that women don't want sex all the time. It's not that they don't want to do some pretty kinky stuff. It's that they present themselves with alot more self-respect, restraint, and class, always trying to maintain SOME dignity about it. Men seem to pride themselves in acting like animals. I exist in a world where I have been all too comfortable just identifying myself as striaght, and picking and chosing when or if to hope the fence (contrary to popular belief this is not often ), due to many of the afore mentioned factors (cowardice, convinience, and privileage).
You simply don't flaunt an alternative sexuality in my career field. It spells doom for your career even if those around you claim to be tolerant. This strange twilight zone of sexual energy I seem to exude towards folks seems to get me alot of attention at times. There's a certain type of gay man that seems to absolutely go for me--it's usually one who's dealing with a good deal of repression about being gay. I've had gay men in my life "come out" to just me and me alone, making promise to take their secret to my grave. And then I've had GHEY gay men find me either repressed or irrisistable depending on where they are on their journey--and I'm starting to realize it really is a journy for those who identify themselves are being purely gay. Ultimately, if I could pick and chose those that I would rather be with, I'd probably pick women. All the complications that come with a 'hetero' relationship are dwarfed, in my opinion, of what comes with a gay relationship. There is absolutely no doubt in my mind about that. That being said, I'm currently madly in love with a man. And I've never felt this much in love. Like , ever. There, I said it.
That being said, I've never had to think about or express my attraction towards other men. Nor , for cowardly reasons mostly, or for convinience, had to contemplate a true relationship with another man. I still look at other men as competition. I still find other men , especially strong, alpha males, as a threat or something to be 'dealt with'. Not exactly a good recipe for romance So even in my mid 30s I've never had to 'come out' so to speak about this aspect of my life. Repressed? Yeah. sure. Confused? I guess so. Sad, and cowardly? You bet.
But I've said this before on my myspace blogs. I may be a full grown man who is working on climbinb the corporate later, setting up a house, planning for retirement, etc. etc. But emotionally, I'm still just a boy. I'm still just an ill tempered, vain, often frightenned little boy. I've built such an emotional shell around me through years of conditioning that I don't identify with this or that sexual orientation at all. Yes, I can come off as suprisingly masculine, but it's because I've deliberately done this. It's like I'm trying to strike a balance between fem (hair, etc. etc.) and butch (my voice, etc.) that I appear confused and repressed. I confuse everyone around me. All the time. And at times I love it. At others, I realize how alone I've been, even around my closest friends.
I'm out of place. If you were to stick me in a group of gay men, I would view them with odd fascination, some adoration, but a bit of discomfort--I don't exist in that world except to get my feet wet or ass licked
Stick me in a group of straight men, and I have a blast... until they start talking about marriage, or kids, etc. etc. Then I get a bit uncomfortable. Stick me in a group of bi-sexual men (and when I was in the military my two closes male friends were bi believe it or not) and I get uncomfortable as well. Most folks who label themselves bisexual (if indeed they REALLY are), are very promiscous and sexual. I know it's a stereotype but they are. And I've never been one who went to nightclubs simply looking to score--though it happenned from time to time. Awww crap, here we go...
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Bravo!!! Imago!!!!!
 MyeternalgrattitudetoPhil&Val.Herman said "We want sweaty truckers at the truck stop! We want cigar puffing men that look like they wanna beat the living daylights out of us" Val"sporking is spooning with benefits" | |
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Imago said: superspaceboy said: Honestly, my gaydar is way off when I was around you. You are pretty masculine. However you have more hotties on facebook than Lohan has trips to rehab! OMG, I started a private photo gallery (which I don't really have anything much posted on), and my friend Scott Kirwin (he's very very good looking) has like 1000 friends who all think I'm hot. So I got a billion add requests, and I accepted them all. Now I'm trying to figure out who the hell I knwo and who I don't, and it's annoying cause I'm getting status updates from guys in leather chaps and shit.
I'm not THAT masculine. It's probably the unknown bi-factor that is getting you all those requests. Nothing and I mean NOTHING turns a gay man on like the hint of straight guy being turned on by homoerotica. It's like waving a crack pipe in front of Amy Winehouse! SO what's this about private photos? Christian Zombie Vampires | |
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MIGUELGOMEZ said: Spookymuffin said: I'm bi for this certain type of guy and I won't fuck them. It's more of I get a crush on them kinda thing, and hell maybe we'd do some heavy petting, but I don't like the idea of screwing them because I like them too much.
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MIGUELGOMEZ said: Bravo!!! Imago!!!!!
What's there to be bravo about ?
It kills me that of all the gay men I met on the org, only Muse and Carrie's gaydars were set off.
And I wasn't trying to be 'butch' by any means. Orgers are folks I am completely comfortable being myself around. This sounds so damned stupid, but I've grown up a bit due to the org | |
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superspaceboy said: Imago said: OMG, I started a private photo gallery (which I don't really have anything much posted on), and my friend Scott Kirwin (he's very very good looking) has like 1000 friends who all think I'm hot. So I got a billion add requests, and I accepted them all. Now I'm trying to figure out who the hell I knwo and who I don't, and it's annoying cause I'm getting status updates from guys in leather chaps and shit.
I'm not THAT masculine. It's probably the unknown bi-factor that is getting you all those requests. Nothing and I mean NOTHING turns a gay man on like the hint of straight guy being turned on by homoerotica. It's like waving a crack pipe in front of Amy Winehouse! SO what's this about private photos?
You know Bob. I'll e honest. I found you instantly attractive when I met you. 
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I don't believe that "everyone" is bi. I do believe that everyone may have a crush on someone other than their normal preference at some point in their lives, but that doesn't equal "bi" to me.
I do believe bisexuality exists, though. Just not that everyone is. |
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