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Printablesexxydancer said: I never chase anybody-I usually get chased.
You're just that fucking amazing, eh? | |
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It's time to move on my friend. Your continued interest can be construed as creepy.
...I'm only sayin'..... MyeternalgrattitudetoPhil&Val.Herman said "We want sweaty truckers at the truck stop! We want cigar puffing men that look like they wanna beat the living daylights out of us" Val"sporking is spooning with benefits" | |
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JustErin said: sexxydancer said: I never chase anybody-I usually get chased.
You're just that fucking amazing, eh? | |
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sexxydancer said: JustErin said: You're just that fucking amazing, eh? Awesome. | |
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"Chasing" Are we in sixth grade trying to get a quick game of ass grab in?
Please. In this day an age, don't be an imbecile and play the "let's be friends" angle when you really want her sexually or otherwise. Life's too short and the amount of women in the world out number the men so grow up and speak your mind. Women respect that more and if they don't find another one that will. | |
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0 seconds. 2010: Healing the Wounds of the Past.... http://prince.org/msg/8/325740 | |
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and then you have the nerve to call yourself a "sexgod" with a fertility picture... 
 = maybe one day | |
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Ocean said: rushing07 said: 
 woo hoo ..u do poles too   Poles do the poles, yaknow. get it?  [Edited 5/13/08 12:32pm] I'm not mad at you, I'm mad at the dirt. | |
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SexGod said: OK, so here's a little addition to the story. This past weekend, my friend asked me to come to the bar and hang out. (collage town, massive amounts of people in a large group). At the end of the night, my friend went off with some other jackass. At 3 in the morning, as I stewed in my pity, I deleted her from my life. Deleting her off Facebook, that sort of thing, and I sent her a very harsh text which said: "you invite me out, i buy you drinks all night and you blow me off. don't call me...ever. delete this number from your phone"
The next day I left an apology on voicemail. She still hasn't contacted me. Now I fear I've blown the friendship...or she's just letting me grovel for a bit. You're being very weak and need to get over it unless you enjoy paying for a woman's night out for her to get loaded on your dime and then go off and fuck someone else 2010: Healing the Wounds of the Past.... http://prince.org/msg/8/325740 | |
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Anxiety said: SexGod said: OK, so here's a little addition to the story. This past weekend, my friend asked me to come to the bar and hang out. (collage town, massive amounts of people in a large group). At the end of the night, my friend went off with some other jackass. At 3 in the morning, as I stewed in my pity, I deleted her from my life. Deleting her off Facebook, that sort of thing, and I sent her a very harsh text which said: "you invite me out, i buy you drinks all night and you blow me off. don't call me...ever. delete this number from your phone"
The next day I left an apology on voicemail. She still hasn't contacted me. Now I fear I've blown the friendship...or she's just letting me grovel for a bit. you've probably blown the friendship. 
but time heals this kind of thing. down the road, you might bump into her at a party and you'll both be a little tipsy, and she'll be all "what the hell was your damage?" and you'll be all "hell, i don't know" and she'll call you a dork and then you'll be back in each other's social circles again as if nothing ever happened.  Ok, Heather 2010: Healing the Wounds of the Past.... http://prince.org/msg/8/325740 | |
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pardonme4livin said: Until they can't run no mo.....
 Tie yourself, to me Noone else no you're not rid of me, you're not rid of me Night and day I breathe You're not rid of me, yeah you're not rid of me... You're not rid of me, yeah you're not rid of me... I beg you, my darling Don't leave me, I'm hurting Lick my legs, I'm on Fire Lick my lips and I'm Desire I'll Tie your legs keep you against my chest oh you're not rid of me, yeah you're not rid of me I'll make you lick my injuries I'll twist your head off, say Till you say Don't you wish you never met her..... 2010: Healing the Wounds of the Past.... http://prince.org/msg/8/325740 | |
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Slave2daGroove said: "Chasing" Are we in sixth grade trying to get a quick game of ass grab in?
Please. In this day an age, don't be an imbecile and play the "let's be friends" angle when you really want her sexually or otherwise. Life's too short and the amount of women in the world out number the men so grow up and speak your mind. Women respect that more and if they don't find another one that will. i never got to play ass grab when i was in 6th grade. i'm 37 years old and i never got to play a proper game of ass grab. 
i always assumed you had to enter a meaningful relationship to have access to the ass grab. i've been cheated!!! where can i sign up for remedial ass grab tournaments? i need to catch up. no wonder my hands are so soft. | |
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Until he deletes his account. Christian Zombie Vampires | |
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Anxiety said: until you get tired of chasing and someone new comes along who interests you, at which point the former object of your affection will notice that you are suddenly unavailable and that will magically make you at least 50% more attractive to her, at which point it will be a moot point for you other than maybe you can laugh at how the tables have turned and now you're making her miserable, which is always a healthy way to approach things. love is magical.
Some Say It's an Illusion! Christian Zombie Vampires | |
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superspaceboy said: Anxiety said: until you get tired of chasing and someone new comes along who interests you, at which point the former object of your affection will notice that you are suddenly unavailable and that will magically make you at least 50% more attractive to her, at which point it will be a moot point for you other than maybe you can laugh at how the tables have turned and now you're making her miserable, which is always a healthy way to approach things. love is magical.
Some Say It's an Illusion! there's always room for illusion in the world of magic! 
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SexGod said: OK, so here's a little addition to the story. This past weekend, my friend asked me to come to the bar and hang out. (collage town, massive amounts of people in a large group). At the end of the night, my friend went off with some other jackass. At 3 in the morning, as I stewed in my pity, I deleted her from my life. Deleting her off Facebook, that sort of thing, and I sent her a very harsh text which said: "you invite me out, i buy you drinks all night and you blow me off. don't call me...ever. delete this number from your phone"
The next day I left an apology on voicemail. She still hasn't contacted me. Now I fear I've blown the friendship...or she's just letting me grovel for a bit. Well, if you were looking to keep her as a friend, I'd say you pretty much blew it. That's not how friends act towards another. How did she blow you off exactly? I think that when she wanted to remain friends you should have distanced yourself from her because it's not what you wanted. Christian Zombie Vampires | |
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Anxiety said: JasmineFire said: i think we all have. i don't know which side of the nightmare is worse. being the obsessive person or being the person who's being obsessed over. neither is exactly a feel-good extravaganza. God, this is bringing back memories of when I dated this guy...I was SOOO into him. There'd be times when we'd be going out and he'd end up going home with someone else. I can recall crying at 5am and calling an apt that noone answered. Of course he got his when we were out and I did the same thing to him. Karma is a bitch! Christian Zombie Vampires | |
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rushing07 said: Imago said: Are you talking about Rushing07 
 I miss Chicago....Christian Zombie Vampires | |
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Anxiety said: superspaceboy said:
Some Say It's an Illusion! there's always room for illusion in the world of magic!
**cues up "The Final Countdown" by Europe** Christian Zombie Vampires | |
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superspaceboy said: rushing07 said:
I miss Chicago.... it misses you tooI'm not mad at you, I'm mad at the dirt. | |
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superspaceboy said: Until he deletes his account.
ah, but there's always the alternate account that he'll log into the very next day.  "Try to remember how you used to feel about me
and think about how you're treating me now. Then try to reconcile them, if you can. But you don't even remember, do you?" | |
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Years.
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Update: I just hung out with her. Its all good! Her and her roommate were in my neighborhood and the roommate called and said "we're in your 'hood getting tat's, come and see us" and I was like, "does she know you're calling me" and then she put her on the phone, so I went and hung while they got ink and then we all went and had beers as if nothing happened! Isn't that funny!
Now I just have to date the roommate to get her to notice me, hahahaha!!! (that's a joke) | |
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Imago said: R3V said: someone told me that he and i would make a cute couple. do you agree? 
flames on the side of my face... breath.. heaving breaths...
I love that movie. And, I miss her dearly. | |
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SexGod said: 6 months ago, I started dating this girl. We dated for 2 months, then she said she just wanted to be friends, so we became friends. I still had feelings, of course. So I started trying to set up great dates, as friends, thinking I could still woo her over. We continued to be "friends" yet I kept trying. Now its out of control, I've confessed my love for her but she laughs it off. Its killin me, lol. I'm totally whipped on this girl, my friend.
I Sooooo feel your pain!!  If you will, so will I | |
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How much time do you have to spend? or waste?.
Since I've been married 25 yrs, and out of the dating scene, all I know is what I read. Romances of famous nature have been documented. Both Pattie Boyd's and Eric Clapton's autobiographies I've read: He wrote "Layla" based on his love of her,(Duane Allman played guitar on that session prior to his death)while she was married to George Harrison. It was a passionate love song. Of longing and yearning for someone he couldn't have. Who was beautiful, at the time.Years passed. She eventually left George, who slept around on her, for Eric, and he did the same thing. Even fathered a child with another woman. Along with his etoh/drug addictions. At the end of her bio, she wished she had stayed with George. (better financial arrangement, my best guess) Maybe there's nothing wrong with unrequited love. Maybe it keeps you away from the disappointment of reality? Discovering people aren't as perfect as you think. I'm in a cynical mood. Whatever you do, have dignity, good sense, and self respect. That xplns it. XO. [Edited 5/13/08 22:53pm] | |
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I just did an update a few posts up. We JUST hung out. It was soooo hard. She is so fucking hot!!! I was very casual and aloof. Nonchalant. I think everything is going to be cool... | |
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well seeing how I've been chasing pardonme4livin for 2 years and he's not interested I guess I should just give up lolIt isn't the load that breaks us down, it's the way we carry it. | |
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SexGod said: Nonchalant. I think everything is going to be cool...
Not while you're still in love with her, it's not. Unless you end up together. Right out of high school, I developed a social life. With people I actually went to school with but had never hung out with outside of shool, ironically enough. I fell in love with one of them. Deeply, madly. He had become my best friend. Thing is, he started dating my OTHER best friend (girl). wtf. And I had sort of feigned interest in this girl (to cover up the fact that I was gay, and also to have someone to take a long when all the guys were going out on dates with other girls... including my sister, who he was taking out... yes, it was a weird situation). The thing is, I never told him how I felt. He was actually the first person I told I was gay, shortly after he started taking out my other best friend. I didn't tell him it was HIM that I was in love with. Umm, anyway, I kind of went crazy (and I hate admitting this right now, because there are people who are going to read this and say "some things never change"), and it really put a strain on our friendship. We just couldn't be friends. Then 5 years later, we started hanging out sometimes again, out in public with most of those same friends, when our mutual friends' band was playing. He was married at this point. And it was okay, though I was still in love with him and it was kind of painful. Then I met someone, fell in love, moved to another state. Anyway, when that was over and I moved back home briefly, he and I reconnected as friends in a big way. He's divorced now. I'm single again. I'm not in love with him. And we can be friends. But it took a lot of stuff in between for us to re-connect as friends, and we didn't end up together. So I hope it turns out well for you whether you get together or not. I'm just sharing my experience over the last decade-plus with a friend that I fell in love with. "Try to remember how you used to feel about me
and think about how you're treating me now. Then try to reconcile them, if you can. But you don't even remember, do you?" | |
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eVeRsOlEsA said: well seeing how I've been chasing pardonme4livin for 2 years and he's not interested I guess I should just give up
lolLove..pityful effort..I mean u haven't sat outside his house with binoculars ...or rung him 20 times a day .....or sent him photo's of the wedding ring u want .....told all his friends he is in love with u Now get to it! Stalk Stalk That's how I got my husband
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