xplnyrslf said: sammij said: i had been working my ass off all last year and this year to prepare some work for applications into this gallery residency that my school has hooked up...
...and i spent hours on my application, and i was proud of it... and was convinced, confident, that i'd get in.. ...the chair of the department gave me the bad news 10 minutes ago. i didn't get in. she claims i'm not ready yet - but i see some of who got into the program, and i wonder. it just so happens that she's one of my profs too (the chair of the department) and has had it out for me since about a month ago. no reason at all - but there's a change in her how she interacts with me. not that i'm blaming that on my failiure.. i just... i worked so hard, you know? and i can't talk to anyone here at home about it because they just. don't . CARE. nor do they bother to try and understand. sorry, as you were. everything is nothing. The original topic plus this: "oh yeah i know, i can be that way too with other artists its just, ive been TOLD by my profs that i was something special and that if i didn't apply for honour studio it'd be a damn shame... i was told by that bird herself, that i should really do it, and that she thinks i would do really well in it... AND NOW THIS. like gatdamn. the art world is rarely confusing (to me) but it definitely is contradicting.. to the point of madness... glad i'm going to be a professor and not a fulltime artist. i'd off myself." Indicates: you should go back to those professors who encouraged you, and ask what could have been done different?, how could you improve your chances?, if given the opportunity.... I wouldn't take this lying down. Consider it a learning opportunity. I'd particularily approach the Chair of the Department, and ask for specifics on the "not ready" explanation. Do you have e-mail communication? Anything you can get in writing would help and maybe define what the department wants. I know it's "art" but let's eliminate the vague ambiguities. The problem with the education system at all levels: there's donors, alumni, friends of those in power, etc....that you have to work against. ive posted the email, its a few posts back there's nothing i can do, all decisions are final and non-negotiable, unless of course you got in and for whatever reason, you did not want to go ahead with it [...i think i can, i think i can, i think i can...] | |
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sammij said: Spookymuffin said: Failing at things you wanted more than anything's a real bitch (and believe me, I know - I still get the odd little comment from my parents about not getting into Oxford), but it really does all work out better in the long run.
Right now, I couldn't be happier. i wish i could see that far into the future sometimes... i think what hurt the most was how Jean said it i had plainly asked if i got in because i had yet to get an email because her clumsy ass has been clamoring around all day, "prioritizing" (her specialty ) that she forgot to notify everyone else. come to mention it, i have YET to get an email anyway. she goes to me "well i might as well just say it - no you didn't get in. we chose the students we felt were actually ready for this" she can lick mine. sorry, tangent. but i understand, and hope i can blow this whole institution out of the water in the next few years to come. Your e-mail was this post? If you ask me, they're getting off too easy.... "Define "ready"".....via e-mail preferably. One of the things I've discovered, is no one wants to put anything in writing, if they can help it. As impersonal as an e-mail can be, it's still in black and white. (Clear and specific, or not) YEARS? Maybe this is your stimulus to look at other opportunities. I'm not talking hasty decisions, take your time. I'd still nail them down on being encouraged, then declined. You may not think this, but you deserve an explanation. And those who made this decision, have that responsibility. Consider it a learning experience. "How can I do better?" Unless this is a "fly by the seat of your pants" organization, there must be set criteria and standards. [Edited 5/8/08 22:24pm] | |
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xplnyrslf said: sammij said: i wish i could see that far into the future sometimes... i think what hurt the most was how Jean said it i had plainly asked if i got in because i had yet to get an email because her clumsy ass has been clamoring around all day, "prioritizing" (her specialty ) that she forgot to notify everyone else. come to mention it, i have YET to get an email anyway. she goes to me "well i might as well just say it - no you didn't get in. we chose the students we felt were actually ready for this" she can lick mine. sorry, tangent. but i understand, and hope i can blow this whole institution out of the water in the next few years to come. Your e-mail was this post? If you ask me, they're getting off too easy.... "Define "ready"".....via e-mail preferably. One of the things I've discovered, is no one wants to put anything in writing, if they can help it. As impersonal as an e-mail can be, it's still in black and white. (Clear and specific, or not) YEARS? Maybe this is your stimulus too look at other opportunities. I'm not talking hasty decisions, take your time. I'd still nail them down on being encouraged, then declined. No, it was not that post. Jean has said: Hi Samille,
I am aware that you will be very disappointed with the news I gave your earlier this evening indicating that the Department of Visual Arts - having reviewed your proposal for VISA 4F06 - did not support your application for the Honours Studio at this time. Our decisions were made based on our understanding of the readiness of each student for sustained work in an intensive, self-defined and critically engaged studio environment. We carefully reviewed the interests outlined in each proposal - looking for clarity and substance. Moreover, we paid considerable attention to the work presented with each application for its demonstration of ability to produce relatively mature work that is stimulating on a variety of levels - from the formal to the conceptual. Given that the Honours Studio will require a high level of research and integration of discursive ideas with focused and sustained artistic practice, we found that not all applicants were prepared or suited for this course. We are confident that you can very effectively pursue your interests in courses like VISA 3F90 (Thematic Challenges in Integrated Media) and VISA 3P93/4 (the advanced drawing courses). I'd be happy to talk further with you about your options at any time. In the meantime, I hope you have a good summer! [...i think i can, i think i can, i think i can...] | |
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sammij said:[quote] xplnyrslf said: No, it was not that post. Jean has said: Hi Samille,
I am aware that you will be very disappointed with the news I gave your earlier this evening indicating that the Department of Visual Arts - having reviewed your proposal for VISA 4F06 - did not support your application for the Honours Studio at this time. Our decisions were made based on our understanding of the readiness of each student for sustained work in an intensive, self-defined and critically engaged studio environment. We carefully reviewed the interests outlined in each proposal - looking for clarity and substance. Moreover, we paid considerable attention to the work presented with each application for its demonstration of ability to produce relatively mature work that is stimulating on a variety of levels - from the formal to the conceptual. Given that the Honours Studio will require a high level of research and integration of discursive ideas with focused and sustained artistic practice, we found that not all applicants were prepared or suited for this course. We are confident that you can very effectively pursue your interests in courses like VISA 3F90 (Thematic Challenges in Integrated Media) and VISA 3P93/4 (the advanced drawing courses). I'd be happy to talk further with you about your options at any time. In the meantime, I hope you have a good summer! Oh sweet jesus.....You want me to dissect that e-mail??? Where do I begin??? This is a bunch of blather. I'll post a response, you're probably not going to want to send.....give me a moment... | |
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xplnyrslf said: sammij said: Oh sweet jesus.....You want me to dissect that e-mail??? Where do I begin??? This is a bunch of blather. I'll post a response, you're probably not going to want to send.....give me a moment... well i won't want to make things worse, will i? i realize what the email is, i deal with this woman on a daily basis.. anything i say will be misconstrued anyway. [...i think i can, i think i can, i think i can...] | |
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sammij said: i had been working my ass off all last year and this year to prepare some work for applications into this gallery residency that my school has hooked up...
I am so sorry Sammi. ...and i spent hours on my application, and i was proud of it... and was convinced, confident, that i'd get in.. ...the chair of the department gave me the bad news 10 minutes ago. i didn't get in. she claims i'm not ready yet - but i see some of who got into the program, and i wonder. it just so happens that she's one of my profs too (the chair of the department) and has had it out for me since about a month ago. no reason at all - but there's a change in her how she interacts with me. not that i'm blaming that on my failiure.. i just... i worked so hard, you know? and i can't talk to anyone here at home about it because they just. don't . CARE. nor do they bother to try and understand. sorry, as you were. everything is nothing. | |
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I'm so sorry, Sammi. Art is such a personal thing too - it's not like working for a math scholarship or a teaching fellowship (not that those are easier, it's just a different type of work). As you know, I'm in art school right now too, so I understand how it's hard to not take these things personally because your art is such an intimate expression of yourself.
I agree with xplnyrslf's advice - go and ask your advisors what you can do to nail it for next time. This isn't over. | |
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Sammi!
Girl, I know you're feeling down now, but you are so talented and I know that you're gonna do big things in the future. You can do it. Things will get better. BIG | |
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Stymie said: sammij said: i had been working my ass off all last year and this year to prepare some work for applications into this gallery residency that my school has hooked up...
I am so sorry Sammi. ...and i spent hours on my application, and i was proud of it... and was convinced, confident, that i'd get in.. ...the chair of the department gave me the bad news 10 minutes ago. i didn't get in. she claims i'm not ready yet - but i see some of who got into the program, and i wonder. it just so happens that she's one of my profs too (the chair of the department) and has had it out for me since about a month ago. no reason at all - but there's a change in her how she interacts with me. not that i'm blaming that on my failiure.. i just... i worked so hard, you know? and i can't talk to anyone here at home about it because they just. don't . CARE. nor do they bother to try and understand. sorry, as you were. everything is nothing. thank you hun [...i think i can, i think i can, i think i can...] | |
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applekisses said: I'm so sorry, Sammi. Art is such a personal thing too - it's not like working for a math scholarship or a teaching fellowship (not that those are easier, it's just a different type of work). As you know, I'm in art school right now too, so I understand how it's hard to not take these things personally because your art is such an intimate expression of yourself.
I agree with xplnyrslf's advice - go and ask your advisors what you can do to nail it for next time. This isn't over. well, it's over, where brock is concerned it's a 4th year course and i'm entering 4th year next year, (which is what i had applied for) so there really isn't a next time as to how to be "ready" ? well i dont know anymore considering i thought i was for sure going to get accepted... but thank you and to be honest, i had no idea you were in art school! [...i think i can, i think i can, i think i can...] | |
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JessieJ said: Sammi!
Girl, I know you're feeling down now, but you are so talented and I know that you're gonna do big things in the future. You can do it. Things will get better. BIG ohh jess... thank you (as the night drags on, i feel sadder and sadder... perhaps i should just sleep) i hope things start to turn around soon, like really soon - i need to forget about this whole thing [...i think i can, i think i can, i think i can...] | |
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This is a letter you do not want to send>>>>>humor aside:
Dear Jean, I appreciate your response, and regret your lack of support. Clearly, I misunderstood my readiness. Particularly, in an intensive self-defined critically engaged (WTF?) studio. What is a “critically engaged studio” in the first place? Critical towards each other?, towards our art?, other’s art? Obviously, my interests weren’t clear, nor had substance. In what way? Could you send me an example of a successful application, so I know what it is, you want to hear? Regarding the “relatively mature” work that stimulated the committee, the “variety of levels” of stimulation is kind of intimidating. It smacks of: “I like THAT one? I don’t know why! I just do!” In order for me to present work that hits the proper stimulation level I need to know what it is I need to stimulate……. Sooo……..”high level of research and integration of discursive ideas with focused and sustained artistic practice”: What are you saying? I’m not focused? This isn’t ROCKET SCIENCE! Get a grip!!! It’s ART! And you don’t get mine! Fine. I’m not bitter. I’ll enjoy my time in Thematic challenges in Integrated media (vs Nonintegrated Media) or ADVANCED DRAWING???? You can’t be serious. This is rather insulting. Nevermind. Could you please e-mail me with more details about my lack of readiness. You just seem to have sent me the pre-printed version of declinations. Put in a little more effort, and show me a mature rejection with a little more research, and focus. Eagerly awaiting your response, Sammi [Edited 5/8/08 22:27pm] | |
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that really sucks, I am sorry to hear that. | |
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I did not get accepted into the degree course I wanted to do, had to accept my second preference, and my BF at the time got into the one I wanted the year after. I could have declined the offer, done the extra TOP year like my bf, and applied again, but I wanted to get it over and done with - I finished with all school 2 years ahead of him, but he got the better qual.
Having said that, down the line many more opportunities present themselves and you just have to take them when they come. They will. I wouldn't be going in all confrontational like xplnyrslf is suggesting (and I know she is joking ) these people may be very helpful to you later down the track! | |
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Awwwww sweetie! I'm so sorry to hear that
Just remember all of the success you will have in the future. "Nobody makes me bleed my own blood...NOBODY!"
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I am very sorry . You are talented and you are passionate about what you are doing, so it's very natural that t hurts being rejected . But it won't stop you living your dream, so be strong . With a very special thank you to Tina: Is hammer already absolute, how much some people verändern...ICH hope is never so I will be! And if, then I hope that I would then have wen in my environment who joins me in the A.... | |
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PaisleyPark5083 said: that really sucks, I am sorry to hear that.
its all good, but thanks [...i think i can, i think i can, i think i can...] | |
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ZombieKitten said: I did not get accepted into the degree course I wanted to do, had to accept my second preference, and my BF at the time got into the one I wanted the year after. I could have declined the offer, done the extra TOP year like my bf, and applied again, but I wanted to get it over and done with - I finished with all school 2 years ahead of him, but he got the better qual.
Having said that, down the line many more opportunities present themselves and you just have to take them when they come. They will. I wouldn't be going in all confrontational like xplnyrslf is suggesting (and I know she is joking ) these people may be very helpful to you later down the track! that really does suck, especially because it was someone close to you i'm just keeping the faith... i hope something actually will turn up. [...i think i can, i think i can, i think i can...] | |
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ThreadCula said: Awwwww sweetie! I'm so sorry to hear that
Just remember all of the success you will have in the future. thanks luv (good to see you!) [...i think i can, i think i can, i think i can...] | |
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Serious said: I am very sorry . You are talented and you are passionate about what you are doing, so it's very natural that t hurts being rejected . But it won't stop you living your dream, so be strong .
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AWWW baby that sucks I am sorry that it turned out this way for you. Confrontation and humor aside xplnyrslf has a good point. You need to go to the other profs and find out what you needed to do to be successful. Leave that old Jean alone she is obviously not in your corner and means you detriment, but she has created a doubt for you in your mind about the validity of your art and your hard work. Those of us in academia know that there are so many egos there and the saying "those that can't, Teach" rings true so often. This biddy may know that you want to teach and feels like if you were in that program it would be wasted since your ambition isn't as pure as she deems it should be.
Go to the other profs, ask them what you need to do to get to the level of the Honor's studio and then work to that standard regardless of where you do the work it will show. Plus the word will get to the Biddy that she did not break you. Go forward and make the best of this, don't doubt your talent, integrity or drive, even though you don't think you have, you have given "Jean" power in your life when all she really has is perceived power, the difference is in what you do with it. Stay focused baby!! peace and blessings We all should know that diversity makes for a rich tapestry, and we must understand that all the threads of the tapestry are equal in value no matter what their color. Maya Angelou | |
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Honey, don't give up. Sometimes when things like this happen you have to push harder. It sucks though. I think it makes you stronger.
Hang in there love. We do care. xxoo MyeternalgrattitudetoPhil&Val.Herman said "We want sweaty truckers at the truck stop! We want cigar puffing men that look like they wanna beat the living daylights out of us" Val"sporking is spooning with benefits" | |
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butterfli25 said: AWWW baby that sucks I am sorry that it turned out this way for you. Confrontation and humor aside xplnyrslf has a good point. You need to go to the other profs and find out what you needed to do to be successful. Leave that old Jean alone she is obviously not in your corner and means you detriment, but she has created a doubt for you in your mind about the validity of your art and your hard work. Those of us in academia know that there are so many egos there and the saying "those that can't, Teach" rings true so often. This biddy may know that you want to teach and feels like if you were in that program it would be wasted since your ambition isn't as pure as she deems it should be.
Go to the other profs, ask them what you need to do to get to the level of the Honor's studio and then work to that standard regardless of where you do the work it will show. Plus the word will get to the Biddy that she did not break you. Go forward and make the best of this, don't doubt your talent, integrity or drive, even though you don't think you have, you have given "Jean" power in your life when all she really has is perceived power, the difference is in what you do with it. Stay focused baby!! peace and blessings thank you unfortunately, most if not all profs are off or gone because it's the spring/summer season it'll have to wait until september... [...i think i can, i think i can, i think i can...] | |
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MIGUELGOMEZ said: Honey, don't give up. Sometimes when things like this happen you have to push harder. It sucks though. I think it makes you stronger.
Hang in there love. We do care. xxoo merci, [...i think i can, i think i can, i think i can...] | |
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sammij said: butterfli25 said: AWWW baby that sucks I am sorry that it turned out this way for you. Confrontation and humor aside xplnyrslf has a good point. You need to go to the other profs and find out what you needed to do to be successful. Leave that old Jean alone she is obviously not in your corner and means you detriment, but she has created a doubt for you in your mind about the validity of your art and your hard work. Those of us in academia know that there are so many egos there and the saying "those that can't, Teach" rings true so often. This biddy may know that you want to teach and feels like if you were in that program it would be wasted since your ambition isn't as pure as she deems it should be.
Go to the other profs, ask them what you need to do to get to the level of the Honor's studio and then work to that standard regardless of where you do the work it will show. Plus the word will get to the Biddy that she did not break you. Go forward and make the best of this, don't doubt your talent, integrity or drive, even though you don't think you have, you have given "Jean" power in your life when all she really has is perceived power, the difference is in what you do with it. Stay focused baby!! peace and blessings thank you unfortunately, most if not all profs are off or gone because it's the spring/summer season it'll have to wait until september... ive never understood that, why leave as ppl are getting results/news etc. any issues, that can be resolved then and there can be left to fester over a long holiday period. anyway..... as miguel said, this can only make u stronger seems that i was busy doing something close to nothing, but different than the day before | |
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prb said: sammij said: thank you unfortunately, most if not all profs are off or gone because it's the spring/summer season it'll have to wait until september... ive never understood that, why leave as ppl are getting results/news etc. any issues, that can be resolved then and there can be left to fester over a long holiday period. anyway..... as miguel said, this can only make u stronger thank you [...i think i can, i think i can, i think i can...] | |
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Sorry girlie I know it feels like hell now but I believe everything happens for a reason
Years ago when I was applying to grad school I didn't get in the first time. So I went to the school to find out what I needed to do to make myself a more appealing applicant. They told me about some summer classes to take, so I did those. & the next year I applied again, but the program had been frozen (no new applicants) b/c they were revamping it The THIRD time I applied, I finally got in & here's what's great about the delay that I couldn't see @ the time - had I got in the first year my class would have been a bunch of assholes who couldn't work together & didn't give a shit about each other, they were snipey bastards. But the class I ended up with the year I got in had some of the most amazing people I've ever met in my LIFE It was a collaborative field & we all supported each other, respected each others opinions & strengths & it was just a really wonderful learning/growing experience. Most of us keep in touch to this day & try to gather once a year when folks are in town. Many of us have stayed the course & pursued our passions in one way or another... Now maybe you're not looking for all that friendship/lovey dovey shit but I'm just trying to point out that your path could lead you to something great without you necessarily knowing it. Hang in there & keep pushing, you'll get to where you wanna be | |
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Sammi everything happens for a reason, I know it's cliche but it's true! There's something better out there for you, even though you may not think so right now. Keep working hard and it'll pay off. Now go have a stiff cocktail!
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sammij said: academia sucks major balls.
It really does, and I've been in similar situations as you. The hurt and resentment of academic politics had crippled me academically for 2 years. It's only at this very moment that I'm picking up the pieces and moving on (see my "GRE" thread). Please try not to let this happen to you. As stated you, nor I, have lost talent. But I lost time. Be better than me. And hang in there. I'm sick and tired of the Prince fans being sick and tired of the Prince fans that are sick and tired! | |
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CalhounSq said: Sorry girlie I know it feels like hell now but I believe everything happens for a reason
Years ago when I was applying to grad school I didn't get in the first time. So I went to the school to find out what I needed to do to make myself a more appealing applicant. They told me about some summer classes to take, so I did those. & the next year I applied again, but the program had been frozen (no new applicants) b/c they were revamping it The THIRD time I applied, I finally got in & here's what's great about the delay that I couldn't see @ the time - had I got in the first year my class would have been a bunch of assholes who couldn't work together & didn't give a shit about each other, they were snipey bastards. But the class I ended up with the year I got in had some of the most amazing people I've ever met in my LIFE It was a collaborative field & we all supported each other, respected each others opinions & strengths & it was just a really wonderful learning/growing experience. Most of us keep in touch to this day & try to gather once a year when folks are in town. Many of us have stayed the course & pursued our passions in one way or another... Now maybe you're not looking for all that friendship/lovey dovey shit but I'm just trying to point out that your path could lead you to something great without you necessarily knowing it. Hang in there & keep pushing, you'll get to where you wanna be lovey dovey shit thanks hun , i guess i'm just seeing it as a failiure, i know my parents aren't too happy - eventhough they don't even know what it's for because they've never cared to listen i think i'll be fine [...i think i can, i think i can, i think i can...] | |
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