Good to my boys

Someone who is not too uptight and laid back and being a bit goofy always helps.

makes me laugh

open minded

I've ran into some overly emotional guys and that sucks.

can appreciate the show "JackAss" reruns (okay thats just me )

Definitely be himself-I hate phonies

Be assertive-nobody wants a pushover. If you can't speak up for or defend yourself you can't speak up for or defend your woman.

Modesty is very nice.

Intelligence-a man who can talk about a lot of things, doesn't matter. I love to learn new things.

experienced and open-minded about sex

Someone who will listen to me and my concerns, whatever they may be, seriously

Someone who enjoys and understands personal space just as much as I do.

A man who treats me like the deserving Queen that I am.

Brownsugar said:

You really need to learn how to count. that's more than 5.

ArielB said:

all are important

Brownsugar said:

Just smack him.

He needs it.

hokie said:

FOR ARIEL:

hokie said:

Shut up and go back to the kitchen and make me some dinner!

ArielB said:

Make your own dinner bitch.

Passion and lots of it - for almost anything, especially in the arts, or just the simple things of life...

when a man is observant of small things (the way my hair curls or they way that bird hopped along the sidewalk in a cute way, the way the snow falls, or how them clouds look) i appreciate a guy that appreciates the same things i do...

that probably didnt answer your q

Oooo, I like that article, Byron. From the article, I'd like it if a man could:

Know at least one musical group as well as is possible
Write a letter.
Throw a punch
Show respect without being a suck-up
Speak a foreign language.
Be loyal
Play go fish with a kid.
Make a bed
Jump-start a car, Change a flat tire, Change the oil ---> That'd really impress me. I can't do any of that
Ask for help when it's needed
Iron a shirt

or at least stimulate my mind to the point of me being turned on just by deep conversation...i guess passion comes in there anyway

and i love a man that can cook
tell great stories
who appreciates silence - and not always the girly cuddly kind, just me doing me and him doing him in the same room, sharing each other's presence without saying a word...

he HAS to love music, he HAS to love art, at least to some significant degree...

i need someone who'll stimulate my mind as foreplay...

politics

i will NEVER date a man who 'isn't a reader'. just...no.

driving in a way that doesn't make me fear for my life

arguing constructively, not just for the sake of being right

JessieJ said:

ohh...yess... that too...

Byron said:

Moe Howard of the Three Stooges.

Byron said:

1. to be able to connect and understand (the vibe) - he can relate

2. carrying a decent conversation (even if we dont agree, the conversation can be constructive)

3. if he can out cook me, uh oh, that'll grab my attention

4. if he's a musician, he's dangerous.. (cause he can serenade you, gotta be on guard lol)

5. if he's knowledgeable on certain subjects, it shows his intelligence and that's attractive ..

1.MUST master the "art" of loving Prince.

2.Must love dogz.

3.B able 2 make a lot of money.

4.Know how 2 fix everything from dripping faucetz 2 carz.

5.Cook,clean,b loyal 2 me,and never lie.

Wait,that'z more than 5 thingz....
[Edited 5/6/08 20:27pm]

My list is dissapointing.

He must be a decent man ....with morals and a hate of cruelty
He must know his way around the bedroom
Be good with his hands
Be intelligent
Know how to have fun and know what he wants

KidaDynamite said:

I'll say, especially considering you don't even have one lol...

Byron said:

Byron said:

Here goes....

HAS to have a sense of humor

Smell good

I'm not gonna say he has to know how to cook but if he doesn't know how, he better not expect me to do so all of the time. Hell, I barely like to cook for myself!

Not lie about serious stuff

He has to love being touched bcuz I LOVE touching A LOT!

yeah, that's about all I can stir up right now.

i thought of more!

sex. i have demands/needs. don't call me a whore just because my sex drive is higher than yours.

respect my interests even if you don't share them- e.g., don't belittle my field of study.

be polite to my family.

be at least a little open-minded musically- don't just listen to one genre and hate everything i listen to, and refuse to try anything new.

don't be mean/aggressive/violent when drunk; don't get trashed every single time you drink.

the ability to nearly always make me laugh no matter what gets massive points.

be tactful.

and from byron's list-

56. Create a play-list in which ten seemingly random songs provide a secret message to one person.


[Edited 5/6/08 22:12pm]

KidaDynamite said:

Lucky u didn't mention hands Ms!!!

Ocean said:

Yeah, I love nice hands especially if they are big but every guy doesn't have that and i'm not really picky so.....

KidaDynamite said:

Here ya go then


ok that made me feel ill just posting it

Ocean said:

KidaDynamite said:

I'm hoping it's going to put u off hands forever

Ocean said:

Yes it definitely did.

Until fauxie posts another pic of his hands....:lurks:

KidaDynamite said:

well that didn't work

Byron said:

He better KNOW where the hell my g-spot is without a second guess!One wrong answer is a turn off to me!

toots said: