VoicesCarry said:

My ex for example But I'm finally hitting puberty so I'm losing my girly edge but inside I still think I'll always be a chick. Please let someone hot need my particular niche!

Imago said:

I like over the top ultra masculine men only for one thing.

For a relationship I just want a regular, nerdy guy that can get along with my friends without being phony.....oh yeah, he has to have a nice butt.

I feel like I'm on matchmaker.com or something.....

orgnote me if any of you fit this description.....

I guess this is a good a place to say this then anywhere else on the Org. Santa Barbara, has some FINE gay men!!!!
The guy at the counter at my local super market is yummy! the guy at my favorite Starbucks, is drop dead gorgeous! take a walk down State Street any given day, and you are like, damn! Just sayin'

PaisleyPark5083 said:

Gay men are lucky

VoicesCarry said:

We just seem to have more then our fair share of gorgeous gay men.

PaisleyPark5083 said:

Gorgeous men in general.

I'm not sure why, but I'm not attracted to most straight guys. A lot of them simply don't take care of themselves.

VoicesCarry said:

There's no accounting for taste.

And that is your answer, Kylie. Even though it would seem easier to categorise gay people under one label, it is just the same with striaght men; some like to be dominate, others like to be dominated.

I myself am like Miguel and Josh here; I like 'dudes'. Just regular guys that aren't posterboys for fagdom. No bad to them, but to each their own, right?

And I can't believe Miguel and I are mirror-mates; his remarks about 'over the top ultra masculine men' being good for one thing is SO me. As is his desription of 'nerdy guy'.

I also have learned that even though I have preferences (older, wiser, butcher than myself) I will not limit myself to that. And true, my two long relationships in life were with men that I would never picture myself with, but we got together because of the 'spark'. Which is a thing you cannot ignore.

I have actually limited my type of men as 'men with a twinkle in their eyes'.

But I still have to bump into the guy I can talk music with and play music with and go to the pub with and share my friends with and go get a dog with so we can walk the bleeding dog and walk hand in hand and then get home and kiss and make out, cook, watch a movie, then off to bed for major cuddling.
Then wake up together.

Call me a sucker for romance. And if he looks good in leather, I am fine with that too.

VoicesCarry said:

This is exactly what stands out in my mind when I see a gorgeous gay guy, you can tell that they put effort and thought in the morning as to what to wear, and that they are nicely groomed. I am not one for the "just rolled outta bed, don't care what I look like," look.

HamsterHuey said:

JUICY!!!!!

Yeah, I'm a sucker.....for romance.

PaisleyPark5083 said:

Me either. I think that, with straight men, they often don't have to put much effort in because it's the women that society conditions to compete with respect to looks.
[Edited 5/6/08 15:22pm]

VoicesCarry said:

There ya go, when was the last time you saw a woman looking like she just finished cleaning the house, painting the bathroom, and just cleaned the fridge...and thought..damn she looks good! Not exactly cute material.

Thanks for answering guys ..and I'm glad Im not the only one that has wondered about this

What's funny is, somewhere over in P:M-M, about a dozen female Orgers would go crazy over

PANDURITO said:

Oh and
Pussies

Ocean said:

Steadwood said:

Sure sign of a lesbian is they hit you over the head with a chair at the slightest excuse

FunkMistress said:

ummmm.....what?!
Why would you put bubbles in a duck? and why would your duck be cold?
I like my duck hot, straight from the oven, with no bubbles.