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PrintableBrownsugar said: I know when I
can talk with that person and know there is a high sense of trust and acceptance between the both of us. daydream about kisses touches start wanting to take care of them see things that remind me of them talk about them a lot I know its negative but I start to feel afraid that they may have the potential to hurt me (when it starts to happen) Good one. I'm the same. | |
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DanceWme said: When I wonder if everything I do and all the choices I make can be of significance to him also.
Or when guys try to talk to me or exchange numbers (and they are FINE as hell) but I just say no thanks cuz I know what I have. 
Even when he eats the last of the mac and cheese. If I do not immediately feel a rage of anger and pull out a knife, ThreadBare, Im a goner  Sis, I hear ya on that one. The last bit of your food. That's for real. | |
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ThreadBare said: DanceWme said: When I wonder if everything I do and all the choices I make can be of significance to him also.
Or when guys try to talk to me or exchange numbers (and they are FINE as hell) but I just say no thanks cuz I know what I have.
Even when he eats the last of the mac and cheese. If I do not immediately feel a rage of anger and pull out a knife, ThreadBare, Im a goner Sis, I hear ya on that one. The last bit of your food. That's for real.  | |
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How do you know when you're a goner for someone?
u keep thinking about them...and how they'd fit so perfectly in your life. Is it when you have to hear their voice as often as you can? 
Is it when you wonder how they are constantly?
Is it when you start devoting significant amounts of money to them?  never. it should never be about money unless it's for the sake of physically bringing you closer to them (if you're countries apart, etc)
Is it when you have to see them, touch them, hold them? ohh yes...
Is it when sappy love songs on the radio bring them to mind?  i think i was more like that in high school, i try not to let that happen, because once they leave your life (for whatever reason) those songs are often ruined... so not so much.
Is it when your lists of wants can't hold a candle to the torch you carry for them? (I know... dang it... I just mixed metaphors  )
i suppose to a degree, yes.
Is it when you mix your metaphors when trying to find words to describe your emotional state?  awww thready!
well, Plato said, at the touch of love, everyone becomes a poet... or something like that
When is it, exactly, what must transpire, for you to know you've reached your boombox moment?  aww... cusack.
damn you lovey dovey orgers and your lovey dovey cow poop.  [...i think i can, i think i can, i think i can...] | |
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JessieJ said: Brownsugar said: I know its negative but I start to feel afraid that they may have the potential to hurt me (when it starts to happen)
Good one. I'm the same. it's a scary feeling... shakes you from the soul, out.[...i think i can, i think i can, i think i can...] | |
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JessieJ said: Oh lawd. I have actually been thinking about this a lot lately
I know when I think about him all the time. I always check my phone to see if he called and if he did, I get REALLY excited and happy.
I want to take care of him and make him happy. If he's feeling down, I'll get sad too 'cause I don't want him to feel bad 
I'll cry if I hear a song that reminds me of him 
I start thinking of my future with that person. My friends take me on a "man hunt"  and I don't even pay any one any attention because I know that no one can even compare to him.
[Edited 5/4/08 7:03am] I really hope you're not talking about Imago.....I really do! | |
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abierman said: JessieJ said: Oh lawd. I have actually been thinking about this a lot lately
I know when I think about him all the time. I always check my phone to see if he called and if he did, I get REALLY excited and happy.
I want to take care of him and make him happy. If he's feeling down, I'll get sad too 'cause I don't want him to feel bad
I'll cry if I hear a song that reminds me of him
I start thinking of my future with that person. My friends take me on a "man hunt" and I don't even pay any one any attention because I know that no one can even compare to him.
[Edited 5/4/08 7:03am] I really hope you're not talking about Imago.....I really do!
No, it isn't him | |
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when i'm desperate not to fall in love because it's a) terrifying because you get hurt so easily, and b) highly impractical, and it happens anyway.
but otherwise, it's thinking of someone so much you call your guy friends their name by accident several times  , writing, wanting them to never, ever be upset, & girling out over really little things like texts. | |
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* I'm generally nonplussed by most things people say. When tiny statements by a person started completely rocketing me into wild emotional responses, I knew something was up.
* When I spent hours and hours with a person, but had to call them on the phone the moment we parted ways, I knew something was up. * When I A)actively had to tell myself NOT to keep talking about a person, but B) repeatedly caught myself talking about them anyway, I knew something was up. * When I found myself realizing how intoxicatingly attractive a person was in a quarrel with me, I knew something was up. * When I found myself daydreaming about lounging next to them in our living room at age 65, I knew something was up. * When I considered -- or actually found myself -- asking God to "please let me keep them," I was a goner. Ὅσον ζῇς φαίνου
μηδὲν ὅλως σὺ λυποῦ πρὸς ὀλίγον ἐστὶ τὸ ζῆν τὸ τέλος ὁ χρόνος ἀπαιτεῖ.” | |
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Lammastide said: * I'm generally nonplussed by most things people say. When tiny statements by a person started completely rocketing me into wild emotional responses, I knew something was up.
* When I spent hours and hours with a person, but had to call them on the phone the moment we parted ways, I knew something was up. * When I A)actively had to tell myself NOT to keep talking about a person, but B) repeatedly caught myself talking about them anyway, I knew something was up. * When I found myself realizing how intoxicatingly attractive a person was in a quarrel with me, I knew something was up. * When I found myself daydreaming about lounging next to them in our living room at age 65, I knew something was up. * When I considered -- or actually found myself -- asking God to "please let me keep them," I was a goner. so sweet | |
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Lammastide said: * When I A)actively had to tell myself NOT to keep talking about a person, but B) repeatedly caught myself talking about them anyway, I knew something was up. * When I found myself realizing how intoxicatingly attractive a person was in a quarrel with me, I knew something was up. yup! | |
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When she totally infuriates me and yet i look at her and realise that no matter how hard i try and how stubborn i want to be i just cant stop loving her long enough to stay mad. | |
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Imago, love addled? Pffffft  | |
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mdiver said: When she totally infuriates me and yet i look at her and realise that no matter how hard i try and how stubborn i want to be i just cant stop loving her long enough to stay mad.
when they're being SO ANNOYING but it doesn't really matter. | |
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evenstar3 said: mdiver said: When she totally infuriates me and yet i look at her and realise that no matter how hard i try and how stubborn i want to be i just cant stop loving her long enough to stay mad.
when they're being SO ANNOYING but it doesn't really matter.  i wonder how long that lasts | |
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Brownsugar said: evenstar3 said: when they're being SO ANNOYING but it doesn't really matter. i wonder how long that lasts forever and ever! 
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mdiver said: When she totally infuriates me and yet i look at her and realise that no matter how hard i try and how stubborn i want to be i just cant stop loving her long enough to stay mad.
Well until you find that women that infuriated you that much, I will just have to do. BTW...feelings mutual butthole. If I did not love you so much, I would have punched you in the nose last night. | |
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MrsMdiver said: mdiver said: When she totally infuriates me and yet i look at her and realise that no matter how hard i try and how stubborn i want to be i just cant stop loving her long enough to stay mad.
Well until you find that women that infuriated you that much, I will just have to do. BTW...feelings mutual butthole. If I did not love you so much, I would have punched you in the nose last night. I knew they were a little kinky. No More Haters on the Internet. | |
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littlemissG said: MrsMdiver said: Well until you find that women that infuriated you that much, I will just have to do. BTW...feelings mutual butthole. If I did not love you so much, I would have punched you in the nose last night. I knew they were a little kinky.  | |
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