NDRU said: I think it's natural, and goes back to the desire to see your genes succeed. A man wants to beat out other men, and a woman wants a man's attention/protection for her offspring not some other ho's.
I'm not saying those are the conscious reasons people are jealous today, but they are the innate instinctive cave reasons. my innocence raped my trust betrayed my mind deceived my heart in smitherines and u've got the gall to breathe. | |
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NDRU said: I think it's natural, and goes back to the desire to see your genes succeed. A man wants to beat out other men, and a woman wants a man's attention/protection for her offspring not some other ho's.
I'm not saying those are the conscious reasons people are jealous today, but they are the innate instinctive cave reasons. [Edited 4/25/08 15:01pm] funny, I think you're not the type to pay much attention to this topic in real life. So male-like Better for you, if you would keep an eye on it you would notice it's something very annoying and nasty and it spoils any friendship/relationship. But you are probably right and it was originally intented the way you say but times have changed big time indeed so the cave men jealousy has morphed into unhappy, stressy, being bored, high mortgage paying, fastfood eating people jealousy. If it makes any sense what I'm saying | |
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CJanssen said: NDRU said: I think it's natural, and goes back to the desire to see your genes succeed. A man wants to beat out other men, and a woman wants a man's attention/protection for her offspring not some other ho's.
I'm not saying those are the conscious reasons people are jealous today, but they are the innate instinctive cave reasons. [Edited 4/25/08 15:01pm] But you are probably right and it was originally intented the way you say but times have changed big time indeed so the cave men jealousy has morphed into unhappy, stressy, being bored, high mortgage paying, fastfood eating people jealousy. If it makes any sense what I'm saying it's probably more so for women.. i dont think guys have hang-ups like we do.. they have their problems too, but i think we outbeat them.. | |
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Flowerz said: CJanssen said: But you are probably right and it was originally intented the way you say but times have changed big time indeed so the cave men jealousy has morphed into unhappy, stressy, being bored, high mortgage paying, fastfood eating people jealousy. If it makes any sense what I'm saying it's probably more so for women.. i dont think guys have hang-ups like we do.. they have their problems too, but i think we outbeat them.. That's true, women are far more jealous than men but that is because men are more... simple, to say it nicely. But don't throw away men. Plenty of my male collegues are very jealous (in a cave man way ) of other men, acting very cocky, argueing and then go for a drink with eachother. I have to admit that I love that aspect about men. A lot of women are not capable to do that. Another male (thank god ex-) collegue of mine was so incredibly jealous of everybody that he made me literally ill. Just some simple example of his jealousy/envy, my brother in law did university and works as a manager somewhere. I work at an engineering company and I had send my ex collegue, named G. to my brother in law because I knew he had some projects we could use. Afterwards G. gets back and started talking about my brother in law, not about the work but about my brother in law. He said: pfff, that guy is just some dork who started at the bottom of the ladder and made it to manager. Not knowing this guy had done Uni and was a good manager. He himself had absolutely no certificates. My brother in law told me that G. was only asking him about his car since he had a very big car. Pure envy/jealousy whatever, sick in the head! And you can guess that we never got the projects. | |
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CJanssen said: Flowerz said: it's probably more so for women.. i dont think guys have hang-ups like we do.. they have their problems too, but i think we outbeat them.. That's true, women are far more jealous than men but that is because men are more... simple, to say it nicely. But don't throw away men. Plenty of my male collegues are very jealous (in a cave man way ) of other men, acting very cocky, argueing and then go for a drink with eachother. I have to admit that I love that aspect about men. A lot of women are not capable to do that. Another male (thank god ex-) collegue of mine was so incredibly jealous of everybody that he made me literally ill. Just some simple example of his jealousy/envy, my brother in law did university and works as a manager somewhere. I work at an engineering company and I had send my ex collegue, named G. to my brother in law because I knew he had some projects we could use. Afterwards G. gets back and started talking about my brother in law, not about the work but about my brother in law. He said: pfff, that guy is just some dork who started at the bottom of the ladder and made it to manager. Not knowing this guy had done Uni and was a good manager. He himself had absolutely no certificates. My brother in law told me that G. was only asking him about his car since he had a very big car. Pure envy/jealousy whatever, sick in the head! And you can guess that we never got the projects. yeah that's an example..ego/testoterone thing.. or.. how about .. the dude who flirts with everything.. but gets highly jealous if his women flirts.. it's a crime then if she does it, he'll make it seem she's more the guilty party than he is.. and have the nerve to justify it lol and he's literally serious..(do as i say, dont do as i do attitude) | |
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People get jealous out of wanting and seeing something that somebody else has which you don't. In that sense, I find it hard to believe when people say they never get jealous. I used to be a tremendously jealous person but not so much these days. I can't remember the last time I was jealous but I will let you know when I do! There's Joy In Expatriation. | |
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Anxiety said: don't hate. Congratulate. | |
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"dont talk to me
as if i'm dumb i am the Sun that keeps revolving in ur universe... a Jealous God who seeks Perfection in all that i am I Am All In All in nightmares and sweet dreams that call u as above so below my dear sweet fellow." my innocence raped my trust betrayed my mind deceived my heart in smitherines and u've got the gall to breathe. | |
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1 Corinthians 13:4-8 love is not jealous-
so I guess, sometimes we need more love- or need to love more- doveluv Smiling Makes Joy Come Alive........and Joy can never die ......... | |
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because they're ugly. | |
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jealousy umma lets see how 2 speak the truth.....
Waiting..& watching Fellowing ure every move & word. Their motive, 2 make u fall, surplating Underneath their skin....breathing with in. Every thought they have,words said. Seems....2 be wise & true. Just remember beneathe their eyes, They want 2 be where U are. They want 2 be U. Hey despiser layers deep under their wise, words. ( nice 2 have someone to watch out, play) (physician 2 ure mind). If their (PhD Approved, But their not. Just haters..... Their watching U. While in all their beautiful words. They speak...? what is ure lesson, (greedy one) Go back 2 the school, of t(True light) & get Yo, wisdom, knowledge & understanding. Be truly rebirthed & educated.. In (truth) Don't be jealous, evnious. just keep ure eye's on ure own plate. Now thats Phd approved. ( whats up Doc ? 4 the mind)..... Can I blossom now,? 4 my words still true Or U wanna take my shine, step back in ure shadow U..... Member this line. I smell good even if not 2 U. my freshness, honeesuckle & gardina fresh.....winds blew in whisper's of the voice of God life, giving trees all the time. watch ur own plate judge ure self, stop looking at mines....cause all u see is ur reflection not mines , I heard a Sneeze (( Ahhhhh Ah chew )) U need sinatab ? boo God bless U. jealous..don't eat it or feed it......food 4 thought Oh so wise one! my flowerr smellz good even if not 2 U Smiling Makes Joy Come Alive........and Joy can never die ......... | |
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Humans are weak in all ways that are important. | |
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JDInteractive said: People get jealous out of wanting and seeing something that somebody else has which you don't. In that sense, I find it hard to believe when people say they never get jealous. I used to be a tremendously jealous person but not so much these days. I can't remember the last time I was jealous but I will let you know when I do!
Envy and being jealous to me are 2 different things - way different energy and emotions So yup I sometimes have envy but very very seldom feel jealous very seldom | |
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