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What is wrong with expecting your man to know what you want WHEN YOU HAVE MADE IT CLEAR WHAT YOU WANT?! Seriously Men complain that they are not mind readers and some things really don't need to be said do they? But when you have made it clear what you want and then they still have no goddamn clue because they don't freakin listen?
And I don't even have a boyfriend right now :flashback: 2010: Healing the Wounds of the Past.... http://prince.org/msg/8/325740 | |
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You must be on your period. My Legacy
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The answer is: careful sex management.
Don't give him any and he'll figure it out! Eventually. Hopefully. Maybe not. Men. I'm not mad at you, I'm mad at the dirt. | |
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Most men simply don't care. I can't tell you how many times I have told my partner I was doing such and such or going to so and so's. I could even have it WRITTEN ON THE FUCKIN WHITE BOARD and he'd still ask. Most men are idiot sloths! Christian Zombie Vampires | |
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superspaceboy said: Most men simply don't care. I can't tell you how many times I have told my partner I was doing such and such or going to so and so's. I could even have it WRITTEN ON THE FUCKIN WHITE BOARD and he'd still ask. Most men are idiot sloths!
Do you need me to spank him for you? 2010: Healing the Wounds of the Past.... http://prince.org/msg/8/325740 | |
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a good man is hard to find | |
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SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said: superspaceboy said: Most men simply don't care. I can't tell you how many times I have told my partner I was doing such and such or going to so and so's. I could even have it WRITTEN ON THE FUCKIN WHITE BOARD and he'd still ask. Most men are idiot sloths!
Do you need me to spank him for you? If by spank you mean smack up side the head...then SURE! Christian Zombie Vampires | |
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i think if someone continually has to figure out or work at how to make you happy, then they're not the one for you. i think if someone can make you happy just by the virtue of them being who they are, that's when you've got something worth keeping. i don't want the person i'm with to have to work at making me happy. either he does it naturally or he doesn't, and the "naturally" part is what separates the boyfriends from the boys. | |
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cos they are selfish I will love you forever and you will never be forgotten - L.A.F. | |
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superspaceboy said: SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said: Do you need me to spank him for you? If by spank you mean smack up side the head...then SURE! Well.....I guess I could do it that way 2010: Healing the Wounds of the Past.... http://prince.org/msg/8/325740 | |
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Anxiety said: i think if someone continually has to figure out or work at how to make you happy, then they're not the one for you. i think if someone can make you happy just by the virtue of them being who they are, that's when you've got something worth keeping. i don't want the person i'm with to have to work at making me happy. either he does it naturally or he doesn't, and the "naturally" part is what separates the boyfriends from the boys.
If I didn't know any better I might think you were rubbing your perfect lovelife in my face 2010: Healing the Wounds of the Past.... http://prince.org/msg/8/325740 | |
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SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said: Anxiety said: i think if someone continually has to figure out or work at how to make you happy, then they're not the one for you. i think if someone can make you happy just by the virtue of them being who they are, that's when you've got something worth keeping. i don't want the person i'm with to have to work at making me happy. either he does it naturally or he doesn't, and the "naturally" part is what separates the boyfriends from the boys.
If I didn't know any better I might think you were rubbing your perfect lovelife in my face what did that book say? "it is better to be rubbed in the face with someone else's perfect lovelife than not to be rubbed in the face by anything at all." having said that, no, of COURSE i'm not. okay, maybe just a little. but over the years i've had PLENTY of experience on both sides of the unfulfilled expectations scenario, so i'd like to think i saved up my green stamps over the years and finally got enough to cash 'em in for something valuable. | |
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Anxiety said: i think if someone continually has to figure out or work at how to make you happy, then they're not the one for you. i think if someone can make you happy just by the virtue of them being who they are, that's when you've got something worth keeping. i don't want the person i'm with to have to work at making me happy. either he does it naturally or he doesn't, and the "naturally" part is what separates the boyfriends from the boys.
Should they work on making you happy? Is that important? I mean shouldn't happiness be inherent within one self? Christian Zombie Vampires | |
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You dudes are so gay.
so so so so so sooooo very gay. | |
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Imago said: You dudes are so gay.
so so so so so sooooo very gay. HATE! 2010: Healing the Wounds of the Past.... http://prince.org/msg/8/325740 | |
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Imago said: You dudes are so gay.
so so so so so sooooo very gay. compared to my kettle, your pot is so black. so so so so so sooooo very black. | |
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Anxiety said: Imago said: You dudes are so gay.
so so so so so sooooo very gay. compared to my kettle, your pot is so black. so so so so so sooooo very black. Black Holes are decorated Christmas Trees compared . [Edited 4/21/08 16:51pm] 2010: Healing the Wounds of the Past.... http://prince.org/msg/8/325740 | |
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Does anybody here want to see a crotch shot of me in my underwear?
It even looks like I have a pee stain. | |
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Imago said: Does anybody here want to see a crotch shot of me in my underwear?
It even looks like I have a pee stain. c - - - - - f Send it to orgnote! 2010: Healing the Wounds of the Past.... http://prince.org/msg/8/325740 | |
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SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said: Anxiety said: compared to my kettle, your pot is so black. so so so so so sooooo very black. Black Holes are decorated Christmas Trees compared . [Edited 4/21/08 16:51pm] Why are yall ganging up on me? I AIN'T AFRAID TO BLEED! | |
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superspaceboy said: Anxiety said: i think if someone continually has to figure out or work at how to make you happy, then they're not the one for you. i think if someone can make you happy just by the virtue of them being who they are, that's when you've got something worth keeping. i don't want the person i'm with to have to work at making me happy. either he does it naturally or he doesn't, and the "naturally" part is what separates the boyfriends from the boys.
Should they work on making you happy? Is that important? I mean shouldn't happiness be inherent within one self? i think making someone happy should be an effort that comes from the person doing the happymaking, and not something that the object of happy prompts from the other person. i'd rather have someone do something nice for me that was their own idea than to have them simply be responding to my command. what does that prove? compliance isn't thoughtfulness. | |
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Anxiety said: superspaceboy said: Should they work on making you happy? Is that important? I mean shouldn't happiness be inherent within one self? i think making someone happy should be an effort that comes from the person doing the happymaking, and not something that the object of happy prompts from the other person. i'd rather have someone do something nice for me that was their own idea than to have them simply be responding to my command. what does that prove? compliance isn't thoughtfulness. I mean, gay! | |
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Imago said: SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said: Black Holes are decorated Christmas Trees compared . [Edited 4/21/08 16:51pm] Why are yall ganging up on me? I AIN'T AFRAID TO BLEED! I aint afraid to cut you either! 2010: Healing the Wounds of the Past.... http://prince.org/msg/8/325740 | |
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I can understand the frustration, but if the TV is on, we can't be expected to retain information from an S.O., right?
If the mute is on, that's a gray area. My Legacy
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Imago said: Anxiety said: i think making someone happy should be an effort that comes from the person doing the happymaking, and not something that the object of happy prompts from the other person. i'd rather have someone do something nice for me that was their own idea than to have them simply be responding to my command. what does that prove? compliance isn't thoughtfulness. I mean, gay! why don't you get lost in your rainbow of fruit-ass flavors, ya fuckin skittle. | |
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Anxiety said: Imago said: I mean, gay! why don't you get lost in your rainbow of fruit-ass flavors, ya fuckin skittle. I hold you in reverence, sir. | |
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I honestly do this and it works with all men. i say"look, I dont have time to wiggle my ass and look cute. I need this done now. when I have time i will wiggle my ass for you,which is never." It actually works.It may even work on imago. p.s. Imago I need that pink dress back you borrowed from me last week. | |
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misslilly said: I honestly do this and it works with all men. i say"look, I dont have time to wiggle my ass and look cute. I need this done now. when I have time i will wiggle my ass for you,which is never." It actually works.It may even work on imago. p.s. Imago I need that pink dress back you borrowed from me last week.
but why should we be expected to listen if you're not going to wiggle your ass & look cute? My Legacy
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