WHEN YOU HAVE MADE IT CLEAR WHAT YOU WANT?! Seriously Men complain that they are not mind readers and some things really don't need to be said do they? But when you have made it clear what you want and then they still have no goddamn clue because they don't freakin listen?



And I don't even have a boyfriend right now

:flashback:

You must be on your period.

The answer is: careful sex management.

Don't give him any and he'll figure it out!

Eventually.

Hopefully.

Maybe not.



Men.

Most men simply don't care. I can't tell you how many times I have told my partner I was doing such and such or going to so and so's. I could even have it WRITTEN ON THE FUCKIN WHITE BOARD and he'd still ask. Most men are idiot sloths!

superspaceboy said:

Do you need me to spank him for you?

a good man is hard to find

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

If by spank you mean smack up side the head...then SURE!

i think if someone continually has to figure out or work at how to make you happy, then they're not the one for you. i think if someone can make you happy just by the virtue of them being who they are, that's when you've got something worth keeping. i don't want the person i'm with to have to work at making me happy. either he does it naturally or he doesn't, and the "naturally" part is what separates the boyfriends from the boys.

cos they are selfish

selfish

superspaceboy said:

Well.....I guess I could do it that way

Anxiety said:

If I didn't know any better I might think you were rubbing your perfect lovelife in my face

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

what did that book say? "it is better to be rubbed in the face with someone else's perfect lovelife than not to be rubbed in the face by anything at all."

having said that, no, of COURSE i'm not. okay, maybe just a little. but over the years i've had PLENTY of experience on both sides of the unfulfilled expectations scenario, so i'd like to think i saved up my green stamps over the years and finally got enough to cash 'em in for something valuable.

Anxiety said:

Should they work on making you happy? Is that important? I mean shouldn't happiness be inherent within one self?

You dudes are so gay.





so so so so so sooooo very gay.

Imago said:

HATE!

Imago said:

compared to my kettle, your pot is so black.


so so so so so sooooo very black.

Anxiety said:

Black Holes are decorated Christmas Trees compared

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Does anybody here want to see a crotch shot of me in my underwear?
It even looks like I have a pee stain.

Imago said:

c - - - - - f

Send it to orgnote!

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

Why are yall ganging up on me?

I AIN'T AFRAID TO BLEED!

superspaceboy said:

i think making someone happy should be an effort that comes from the person doing the happymaking, and not something that the object of happy prompts from the other person. i'd rather have someone do something nice for me that was their own idea than to have them simply be responding to my command. what does that prove? compliance isn't thoughtfulness.

Anxiety said:

I mean, gay!

Imago said:

I aint afraid to cut you either!

I can understand the frustration, but if the TV is on, we can't be expected to retain information from an S.O., right?

If the mute is on, that's a gray area.

Imago said:

why don't you get lost in your rainbow of fruit-ass flavors, ya fuckin skittle.

Anxiety said:

I hold you in reverence, sir.

I honestly do this and it works with all men. i say"look, I dont have time to wiggle my ass and look cute. I need this done now. when I have time i will wiggle my ass for you,which is never." It actually works.It may even work on imago. p.s. Imago I need that pink dress back you borrowed from me last week.

misslilly said:

but why should we be expected to listen if you're not going to wiggle your ass & look cute?