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Reply #60 posted 04/20/08 11:06pm

TheMightyCeles
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Dames.

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Reply #61 posted 04/21/08 1:49am

abierman

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oh lawd


http://www.youtube.com/wa...re=related

This guy exudes absolutely no confidence. I mean you can tell in his demeanor , mannerisms, etc. etc. that he just lacks confidence. It doesn't matter how modern society gets--I would venture to think being 'protected' is something women, at least subconsciously, find attractive. And he just ain't gonna fit that bill.

Jesus. He's not getting lucky cause women are too picky--he ain't getting lucky cause ....well, look at him. That dude needs to change his attitude... that goes a looooonnnnggg way.


that guy is just downright scary, he should be locked up! He definitely has the antics of a future serial killer!
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Reply #62 posted 04/21/08 2:06am

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In my early teens I was teased about never having had a gf. Guys would be talking about how many girls they had 'got off with' and I'd be all boxed

A few years later I thought 'fuck it!' and figured I was a nice guy, not too bad looking and that obviously I was just a bit shy and so not on any girl's radar. It wasn't that I was being turned down, just escaping girls' attention and so being overlooked. I stopped thinking about it and indeed about being in a relationship with a girl or consciously going out trying to hook up with one. Later at college while I was just doing my thing I found several girls were attracted to me (I only realised they were several years later though lol ) so just being me and not stressing it was obviously working given a bit of patience and a change in attitude. I just continued this way, not hoping or expecting anything, when I quite out of the blue found myself slowly but surely in a relationship that ultimately led to marriage.

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Reply #63 posted 04/21/08 5:37am

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Imago said:

oh lawd


http://www.youtube.com/wa...re=related

This guy exudes absolutely no confidence. I mean you can tell in his demeanor , mannerisms, etc. etc. that he just lacks confidence. It doesn't matter how modern society gets--I would venture to think being 'protected' is something women, at least subconsciously, find attractive. And he just ain't gonna fit that bill.

Jesus. He's not getting lucky cause women are too picky--he ain't getting lucky cause ....well, look at him. That dude needs to change his attitude... that goes a looooonnnnggg way.


It's not his looks or his style (or lack there of). I see plenty of not so good looking to downright ugly dudes in relationships.

It's his personality...but that said, even convicted murderers have women interested in them. I'm thinking that this guy probably wants a women that is his physical ideal and won't settle for any less.
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Reply #64 posted 04/21/08 6:10am

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I can't even watch it!

falloff

When he got to the part about women "choosing" who they sleep with... I mean, my god. The alternative is rape. What the hell is he talking about?
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Reply #65 posted 04/21/08 6:14am

Imago

CarrieMpls said:

I can't even watch it!

falloff

When he got to the part about women "choosing" who they sleep with... I mean, my god. The alternative is rape. What the hell is he talking about?

I can't get past his hair and wallpaper.
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Reply #66 posted 04/21/08 6:15am

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Imago said:

CarrieMpls said:

I can't even watch it!

falloff

When he got to the part about women "choosing" who they sleep with... I mean, my god. The alternative is rape. What the hell is he talking about?

I can't get past his hair and wallpaper.


And why is he filming in the bathroom? lol
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Reply #67 posted 04/21/08 6:17am

Imago

CarrieMpls said:

Imago said:


I can't get past his hair and wallpaper.


And why is he filming in the bathroom? lol

And the last minute of his pointless diatribe lambastes 'women's lib'.


I wish I knew his number cause I'd call him up and scream at him, "Pussy is everywhere!!! ANd girls are far far sluttier than they have EVER been! It's your haircut fool!"
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Reply #68 posted 04/21/08 6:20am

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Imago said:

CarrieMpls said:



And why is he filming in the bathroom? lol

And the last minute of his pointless diatribe lambastes 'women's lib'.


I wish I knew his number cause I'd call him up and scream at him, "Pussy is everywhere!!! ANd girls are far far sluttier than they have EVER been! It's your haircut fool!"


It's more than his haircut. He's SCARY!!!!!
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Reply #69 posted 04/21/08 6:22am

Imago

CarrieMpls said:

Imago said:


And the last minute of his pointless diatribe lambastes 'women's lib'.


I wish I knew his number cause I'd call him up and scream at him, "Pussy is everywhere!!! ANd girls are far far sluttier than they have EVER been! It's your haircut fool!"


It's more than his haircut. He's SCARY!!!!!

falloff falloff falloff

I sensed that too. lol

He's like one of those guys that if you went on a blind date with, within seconds you know you made a big mistake. Within minutes you're hoping he can't trace your phone number or email back to your address. By the end of the meal you rummage through your purse to makes sure you brought your pepper spray.
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Reply #70 posted 04/21/08 6:22am

abierman

CarrieMpls said:

I can't even watch it!

falloff

When he got to the part about women "choosing" who they sleep with... I mean, my god. The alternative is rape. What the hell is he talking about?



In fact I think it is good for women to watch this shit as it will make them even more aware that freaks like these do exist.....and yes, the next step for them could be rape because women are so picky, picky, picky.....I think it is kind of terrifying, and I am having a hard time judging whether this is an American phenomenon or do freaks like these also exist where I live? I tell you, if I would find out that someone in my direct environment would act like this, I would first beat the living daylights out of them and then drag their asses to counseling/therapy..... nod
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Reply #71 posted 04/21/08 6:59am

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CarrieMpls said:

Imago said:


I can't get past his hair and wallpaper.


And why is he filming in the bathroom? lol


If you follow the trail of his other vids you find out that he lives with his mother.
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Reply #72 posted 04/21/08 7:02am

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JustErin said:

CarrieMpls said:



And why is he filming in the bathroom? lol


If you follow the trail of his other vids you find out that he lives with his mother.


Well, there you have it.


confused
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Reply #73 posted 04/21/08 7:03am

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CarrieMpls said:

JustErin said:



If you follow the trail of his other vids you find out that he lives with his mother.


Well, there you have it.


confused


For sure that's part of it. He seems to not be able to success in anything...so it's not just with women.
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Reply #74 posted 04/21/08 10:39am

Cinnie

Imago said:

CarrieMpls said:



It's more than his haircut. He's SCARY!!!!!

falloff falloff falloff

I sensed that too. lol

He's like one of those guys that if you went on a blind date with, within seconds you know you made a big mistake. Within minutes you're hoping he can't trace your phone number or email back to your address. By the end of the meal you rummage through your purse to makes sure you brought your pepper spray.


lol
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Reply #75 posted 04/21/08 11:16am

TheMightyCeles
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He blames the CIA.
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Reply #76 posted 04/21/08 11:17am

TheMightyCeles
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The

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Reply #77 posted 04/21/08 12:19pm

abierman

TheMightyCelestial said:

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dude sees conspiracies everywhere.....9/11 was an inside job, probably some bitch with a 'stinking hole between her legs' (I kid you not, they talk like that!!) made that up! Or the Illuminati.....

sigh
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Reply #78 posted 04/21/08 3:37pm

NWF

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abierman said:

CarrieMpls said:

I can't even watch it!

falloff

When he got to the part about women "choosing" who they sleep with... I mean, my god. The alternative is rape. What the hell is he talking about?



In fact I think it is good for women to watch this shit as it will make them even more aware that freaks like these do exist.....and yes, the next step for them could be rape because women are so picky, picky, picky.....I think it is kind of terrifying, and I am having a hard time judging whether this is an American phenomenon or do freaks like these also exist where I live? I tell you, if I would find out that someone in my direct environment would act like this, I would first beat the living daylights out of them and then drag their asses to counseling/therapy..... nod



Well, I can certainly say that I'm not in bad of shape as this guy. I'm just a musician who's dealing with this problem. In fact, Steve talks about me. Yep, I had to write to him:

http://www.youtube.com/wa...xUaztS2VKs
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Reply #79 posted 04/21/08 3:44pm

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I see this as population control...yeah, it's all a conspiracy to keep you out of the pussy...yeah, that's it

falloff
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Reply #80 posted 04/21/08 5:10pm

abierman

NWF said:

abierman said:




In fact I think it is good for women to watch this shit as it will make them even more aware that freaks like these do exist.....and yes, the next step for them could be rape because women are so picky, picky, picky.....I think it is kind of terrifying, and I am having a hard time judging whether this is an American phenomenon or do freaks like these also exist where I live? I tell you, if I would find out that someone in my direct environment would act like this, I would first beat the living daylights out of them and then drag their asses to counseling/therapy..... nod



Well, I can certainly say that I'm not in bad of shape as this guy. I'm just a musician who's dealing with this problem. In fact, Steve talks about me. Yep, I had to write to him:

http://www.youtube.com/wa...xUaztS2VKs



Since you've started this thread I have watched some of the vids this guy has posted, since the subject intrigues me. Yes, I see stuff happening, people not finding a partner, being alone, no sex, etc.... But I am really not buying the conspiracy-BS this guy is trying to sell with his vids.
Your letter was very clear and you've stated your 'problem' quite well and intelligently. What you truely did well is turning the table to him.....yes, this loneliness-thing might affect people but it is no reason for anyone to start talking about women like Steve and his cronies ('Bill' and 'Dwayne') do. I do not think he is getting anywhere to say that women are the cause of his problem. I don't like his generalizations.....and then you write a letter because you recognize yourself in some of the stuff he has said.....and what does he do? Mr. Knowitall uses your letter as a weapon for his 'cause'.....NWF (got it right this time, lol), you hit the nail on the head when you said 'if you're in a frame of mind that nothing's gonna happen, nothing will happen'.....this guy is not providing any solutions, all he does is whine & bitch about how evil women are and the venom they spread. Do yourself a favor, please check some video's of his good friend Bill122460 and you'll see what company we're dealing with.....that guy is a redneck about to become a killer, talking about that women have 'stinking holes between their legs', women are evil because they have rejected him..... Let me tell you something, they have rejected them because they're assholes! Their attitudes are destructive and their 'movement' is destructive! All this bitching (not saying you are) and not providing any answers or solutions! And you recognize something in it, but do you want to become like them yourself????
I bet the answer is no, and you should start from there.....yourself! I don't know you, but what I have seen from you here is that your postings are positive & intelligent.....you want to go down the downward spiral that is the quest these people are on? These people actually say that they have given up, anything they do starts from negativity and that don't get you nowhere!!!
Again, your letter was intelligent and I can see where you are coming from.....but man, be yourself, do YOUR thing! These people do not provide any solutions! The government holds the lit on??? Give me a fucking break!!
Hell, everybody experiences good & bad things in the love-game (yes, also women) and you have to take these experiences on your path, learn from them. Myself, I haven't been in love for a while now.....yes, I have been dating, occasionally had sex.....the love-thing just didn't work at those times.....you know why?? You CAN NOT force it! And it is just not like that, that one day you'll wake up and leave your house and you'll find a line up of women in front of your door who are all willing to be your loving life-partner!
We (also the women) all have to work for it.....question is whether you are willing.....just playing the guitar in a band won't do the trick alone!

Anyways.....it's getting late here, need to go to bed! I wish you all the best! Women are people to too, dude.....with real emotions!
thumbs up!
A.
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Reply #81 posted 04/21/08 5:19pm

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abierman said:

NWF said:




Well, I can certainly say that I'm not in bad of shape as this guy. I'm just a musician who's dealing with this problem. In fact, Steve talks about me. Yep, I had to write to him:

http://www.youtube.com/wa...xUaztS2VKs



Since you've started this thread I have watched some of the vids this guy has posted, since the subject intrigues me. Yes, I see stuff happening, people not finding a partner, being alone, no sex, etc.... But I am really not buying the conspiracy-BS this guy is trying to sell with his vids.
Your letter was very clear and you've stated your 'problem' quite well and intelligently. What you truely did well is turning the table to him.....yes, this loneliness-thing might affect people but it is no reason for anyone to start talking about women like Steve and his cronies ('Bill' and 'Dwayne') do. I do not think he is getting anywhere to say that women are the cause of his problem. I don't like his generalizations.....and then you write a letter because you recognize yourself in some of the stuff he has said.....and what does he do? Mr. Knowitall uses your letter as a weapon for his 'cause'.....NWF (got it right this time, lol), you hit the nail on the head when you said 'if you're in a frame of mind that nothing's gonna happen, nothing will happen'.....this guy is not providing any solutions, all he does is whine & bitch about how evil women are and the venom they spread. Do yourself a favor, please check some video's of his good friend Bill122460 and you'll see what company we're dealing with.....that guy is a redneck about to become a killer, talking about that women have 'stinking holes between their legs', women are evil because they have rejected him..... Let me tell you something, they have rejected them because they're assholes! Their attitudes are destructive and their 'movement' is destructive! All this bitching (not saying you are) and not providing any answers or solutions! And you recognize something in it, but do you want to become like them yourself????
I bet the answer is no, and you should start from there.....yourself! I don't know you, but what I have seen from you here is that your postings are positive & intelligent.....you want to go down the downward spiral that is the quest these people are on? These people actually say that they have given up, anything they do starts from negativity and that don't get you nowhere!!!
Again, your letter was intelligent and I can see where you are coming from.....but man, be yourself, do YOUR thing! These people do not provide any solutions! The government holds the lit on??? Give me a fucking break!!
Hell, everybody experiences good & bad things in the love-game (yes, also women) and you have to take these experiences on your path, learn from them. Myself, I haven't been in love for a while now.....yes, I have been dating, occasionally had sex.....the love-thing just didn't work at those times.....you know why?? You CAN NOT force it! And it is just not like that, that one day you'll wake up and leave your house and you'll find a line up of women in front of your door who are all willing to be your loving life-partner!
We (also the women) all have to work for it.....question is whether you are willing.....just playing the guitar in a band won't do the trick alone!

Anyways.....it's getting late here, need to go to bed! I wish you all the best! Women are people to too, dude.....with real emotions!
thumbs up!
A.
[Edited 4/21/08 17:11pm]


A very informative and insightful answer. Thanks, Abierman. nod
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Reply #82 posted 04/21/08 5:57pm

TheMightyCeles
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abierman said:

NWF said:




Well, I can certainly say that I'm not in bad of shape as this guy. I'm just a musician who's dealing with this problem. In fact, Steve talks about me. Yep, I had to write to him:

http://www.youtube.com/wa...xUaztS2VKs



Since you've started this thread I have watched some of the vids this guy has posted, since the subject intrigues me. Yes, I see stuff happening, people not finding a partner, being alone, no sex, etc.... But I am really not buying the conspiracy-BS this guy is trying to sell with his vids.
Your letter was very clear and you've stated your 'problem' quite well and intelligently. What you truely did well is turning the table to him.....yes, this loneliness-thing might affect people but it is no reason for anyone to start talking about women like Steve and his cronies ('Bill' and 'Dwayne') do. I do not think he is getting anywhere to say that women are the cause of his problem. I don't like his generalizations.....and then you write a letter because you recognize yourself in some of the stuff he has said.....and what does he do? Mr. Knowitall uses your letter as a weapon for his 'cause'.....NWF (got it right this time, lol), you hit the nail on the head when you said 'if you're in a frame of mind that nothing's gonna happen, nothing will happen'.....this guy is not providing any solutions, all he does is whine & bitch about how evil women are and the venom they spread. Do yourself a favor, please check some video's of his good friend Bill122460 and you'll see what company we're dealing with.....that guy is a redneck about to become a killer, talking about that women have 'stinking holes between their legs', women are evil because they have rejected him..... Let me tell you something, they have rejected them because they're assholes! Their attitudes are destructive and their 'movement' is destructive! All this bitching (not saying you are) and not providing any answers or solutions! And you recognize something in it, but do you want to become like them yourself????
I bet the answer is no, and you should start from there.....yourself! I don't know you, but what I have seen from you here is that your postings are positive & intelligent.....you want to go down the downward spiral that is the quest these people are on? These people actually say that they have given up, anything they do starts from negativity and that don't get you nowhere!!!
Again, your letter was intelligent and I can see where you are coming from.....but man, be yourself, do YOUR thing! These people do not provide any solutions! The government holds the lit on??? Give me a fucking break!!
Hell, everybody experiences good & bad things in the love-game (yes, also women) and you have to take these experiences on your path, learn from them. Myself, I haven't been in love for a while now.....yes, I have been dating, occasionally had sex.....the love-thing just didn't work at those times.....you know why?? You CAN NOT force it! And it is just not like that, that one day you'll wake up and leave your house and you'll find a line up of women in front of your door who are all willing to be your loving life-partner!
We (also the women) all have to work for it.....question is whether you are willing.....just playing the guitar in a band won't do the trick alone!

Anyways.....it's getting late here, need to go to bed! I wish you all the best! Women are people to too, dude.....with real emotions!
thumbs up!
A.
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Good points, abierman.
However, for me, there are two things which struck me above all else in this video, almost immediately:

1. "...men are being being rejected at an appalling rate...."
the second that I heard him say that, 98% of the brain cells in my head that are responsible for deciphering any outside logistical reasoning said to me "Obviously, you're not gonna be needing us for the duration of this video, so, y'know....just wake us when your done, aight?"

2. " .....conspiracy by the C.I.A...."
After I heard that part, the remaing 2% of those same brain cells said " Yeah, us too".
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Reply #83 posted 04/21/08 6:27pm

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If what these guys say is true then how is my ugly and broke ass dad getting so many good women? I don't understand. Guys usually go for looks and I find they tend to go way beyond their league and get upset when they're rejected.
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Reply #84 posted 04/21/08 6:47pm

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squirrelscientist said:

If what these guys say is true then how is my ugly and broke ass dad getting so many good women? I don't understand. Guys usually go for looks and I find they tend to go way beyond their league and get upset when they're rejected.


Agreed.
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Reply #85 posted 04/21/08 6:56pm

TheMightyCeles
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Not all girls are as picky as this guy claims.
I once dated a girl who, after I thanked her givin' me a chance with to be with her, told me that she had dated worse than me.
And me bein' me, instead of leaving it alone right there, I asked her what exactly made her finally decide to give me a try, after weeks of my relentless pursuement of her.
She thought on it for a bit, looked me up & down & then said,
"Well, Celestial,
a piece of ass is still a piece of ass."


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Reply #86 posted 04/24/08 10:33pm

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hmmm Maybe Steve is right about one thing though. These pick-up artists scams and porn and stuff probably are used to keep men sane. What other choice do they have?

I can't just go on the phone right now and make some booty calls. Last time I did this was last year when I was mad drunk and called this girl up. Apparently I didn't remember that, but it was a pretty rude call and she did get pretty pissed. lol

And that's what I don't like about girls. It's like, I try to be romantic and even sexual and it only comes off in women's eyes as being a pig or pervert.

I may as well just be a fag. pout
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Reply #87 posted 04/24/08 10:37pm

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NWF said:

hmmm Maybe Steve is right about one thing though. These pick-up artists scams and porn and stuff probably are used to keep men sane. What other choice do they have?

I can't just go on the phone right now and make some booty calls. Last time I did this was last year when I was mad drunk and called this girl up. Apparently I didn't remember that, but it was a pretty rude call and she did get pretty pissed. lol

And that's what I don't like about girls. It's like, I try to be romantic and even sexual and it only comes off in women's eyes as being a pig or pervert.

I may as well just be a fag. pout


i am so damn tired of hearing that porn is only for men. lol

obviously you're either going about it the wrong way (which is highly probable, given that you said you were drunk), or directing it towards the wrong woman.

...and i'm not touching that last line. confused
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Reply #88 posted 04/24/08 11:04pm

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NWF said:

hmmm Maybe Steve is right about one thing though. These pick-up artists scams and porn and stuff probably are used to keep men sane. What other choice do they have?

I can't just go on the phone right now and make some booty calls. Last time I did this was last year when I was mad drunk and called this girl up. Apparently I didn't remember that, but it was a pretty rude call and she did get pretty pissed. lol

And that's what I don't like about girls. It's like, I try to be romantic and even sexual and it only comes off in women's eyes as being a pig or pervert.

I may as well just be a fag. pout


i am so damn tired of hearing that porn is only for men. lol

obviously you're either going about it the wrong way (which is highly probable, given that you said you were drunk), or directing it towards the wrong woman.

...and i'm not touching that last line. confused


Well, it's for all genders, but men are more inclined towards the skin media more than women. Let's face it, it's true.

Maybe that call was uncalled for, but that's not the only thing. Even when I was sober I tried to be flirtacious but came up short.

Do you know what that does to a guy? I mean, if being sexual towards a person makes you a pervert does that mean I should be asexual? hmm
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Reply #89 posted 04/25/08 12:27am

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NWF said:

evenstar3 said:



i am so damn tired of hearing that porn is only for men. lol

obviously you're either going about it the wrong way (which is highly probable, given that you said you were drunk), or directing it towards the wrong woman.

...and i'm not touching that last line. confused


Well, it's for all genders, but men are more inclined towards the skin media more than women. Let's face it, it's true.

Maybe that call was uncalled for, but that's not the only thing. Even when I was sober I tried to be flirtacious but came up short.

Do you know what that does to a guy? I mean, if being sexual towards a person makes you a pervert does that mean I should be asexual? hmm


I'm betting that's because we're expected by most of society to be repulsed by it, but that's a whole separate thread.

I didn't say being sexual makes guys perverts, if that were true I wouldn't be in a relationship now! lol It's not about that you're doing it in the first place, but how you're doing it.
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