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PrintableAnd regardless of what 'face' you put on you cant make someone be into you-either they will or they won't; its all about chemistry. Its just a matter of finding the person who is on the same level as you. | |
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 STFU! His issue is his personality disorder. Little bit of therapy would go a long way! I survived 1:30 of that drivel! | |
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Great response! It's not about looks. It's all about the fact that once a woman finds some tiny defect in your character, they drop you like a hot potato. Just being a little fidgety or hyperactive makes women judge a man adversely. In years past, women gave guys a chance. How do I know? Well, women in high school were not like they are today. Times have changed thanks to television. whoops there it is. I do feel for him as that is true to an extent but work on the issue! | |
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Muse2NOPharaoh said: His comment:
Great response! It's not about looks. It's all about the fact that once a woman finds some tiny defect in your character, they drop you like a hot potato. Just being a little fidgety or hyperactive makes women judge a man adversely. In years past, women gave guys a chance. How do I know? Well, women in high school were not like they are today. Times have changed thanks to television. whoops there it is. I do feel for him as that is true to an extent but work on the issue! he's such a fucking idiot.  i couldn't watch any after the first vid. | |
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the amount of anger of this guy towards women is appalling and alarming, I think that Youtube should review this bullshit as I am sure that there are youngsters out there who will find this bullshit appealing.....oh, and I hope that this moron (and his bullshit-friend) will never get laid! | |
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With an attitude like that, no wonder women dont like him. Fuckin' idiot | |
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evenstar3 said: Muse2NOPharaoh said: His comment:
Great response! It's not about looks. It's all about the fact that once a woman finds some tiny defect in your character, they drop you like a hot potato. Just being a little fidgety or hyperactive makes women judge a man adversely. In years past, women gave guys a chance. How do I know? Well, women in high school were not like they are today. Times have changed thanks to television. whoops there it is. I do feel for him as that is true to an extent but work on the issue! he's such a fucking idiot. i couldn't watch any after the first vid.You made it through the first vid? Do you have any hair left? | |
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Muse2NOPharaoh said: evenstar3 said: he's such a fucking idiot. i couldn't watch any after the first vid.You made it through the first vid? Do you have any hair left? not after hearing his 'woman' voice.  | |
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evenstar3 said: Muse2NOPharaoh said: You made it through the first vid? Do you have any hair left? not after hearing his 'woman' voice. SteveHoca said: You women are so picky, picky, picky!!!
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damosuzuki said: NWF said: I'm sure there are internal factors as well as external ones. But what even if you're doing the right thing, what do you do if you get no results? My personal experience had led me to believe that the problem is not 'what you do': the problem is 'what you are.' Either you can try to change what you are (not easy) or you make peace with what you are. At the very least, do not be like the guy in the clip and try to place the responsibility on anything but yourself. I may be, to paraphrase Lyle Lovett, a lonely, weak, pathetic man, but at least I'm self-aware enough to know that the problem is myself, not every woman in the world. Why should I try to change myself to appease other people? I'm New Wave Forever, take me or leave me. Sure, I can always try and change the things that I'm flawed in, but I refuse to change my beliefs and values for the sake of someone. Another thing is that folks talk about hitting the gym as part of creating some kind of change to make one desirable. Does that really matter, or are people trying to own up to society and even the media's standard of beauty? I'm not saying that you should get away with putting on 400 pounds, but it ain't like your gonna be a supermodel for Calvin Klein either. I don't aspire to be that way anyway. Not everyone has it in them to look like Tyson Beckford or Tyra Banks. I think it comes down to one's personality and what they stand for that makes them attractive. But that's just me. I mean, I can't really fault this Steve guy. He's got a problem like me. But it's just that he might be a little misguided about why and is pointing his finger outwards. I don't think it's true that there's these external forces that are conspiring to create this problem for men. Maybe he's just weird or something. I don't know.  He's right about one thing though. Women do like to find fault in fellas so that they could easily write them off instead of actually taking time to getting to know them. They'll never know how sweet a guy can be because of some kind of superficial flaw they'll find in him, making it easy to just write him off. And Steve's not jiving either since I can tell you this from my own experiences.
One thing I will say is that I don't like the fact that people judge me harshly because I don't have the normal record number of relationships or liaisons and shit. I'm usually the punchline of every joke because I don't really have any stories to tell, and I'm fucking sick of it.  [Edited 4/20/08 3:39am] NEW WAVE FOREVER: SLAVE TO THE WAVE FROM THE CRADLE TO THE GRAVE. | |
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NWF said: damosuzuki said: My personal experience had led me to believe that the problem is not 'what you do': the problem is 'what you are.' Either you can try to change what you are (not easy) or you make peace with what you are. At the very least, do not be like the guy in the clip and try to place the responsibility on anything but yourself. I may be, to paraphrase Lyle Lovett, a lonely, weak, pathetic man, but at least I'm self-aware enough to know that the problem is myself, not every woman in the world. Why should I try to change myself to appease other people? You shouldn't. But in this instance, you aren't trying to appease other people. You're trying to appease yourself. You want to get laid or find love. Ultimately, any changes you make in your personality, appearance, etc., aren't to please someone else. The end goal is all about you and what you want. "Half of what I say is meaningless; but I say it so that the other half may reach you." - Kahlil Gibran | |
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NWF said: damosuzuki said: My personal experience had led me to believe that the problem is not 'what you do': the problem is 'what you are.' Either you can try to change what you are (not easy) or you make peace with what you are. At the very least, do not be like the guy in the clip and try to place the responsibility on anything but yourself. I may be, to paraphrase Lyle Lovett, a lonely, weak, pathetic man, but at least I'm self-aware enough to know that the problem is myself, not every woman in the world. Why should I try to change myself to appease other people? I'm New Wave Forever, take me or leave me. Sure, I can always try and change the things that I'm flawed in, but I refuse to change my beliefs and values for the sake of someone. Another thing is that folks talk about hitting the gym as part of creating some kind of change to make one desirable. Does that really matter, or are people trying to own up to society and even the media's standard of beauty? I'm not saying that you should get away with putting on 400 pounds, but it ain't like your gonna be a supermodel for Calvin Klein either. I don't aspire to be that way anyway. Not everyone has it in them to look like Tyson Beckford or Tyra Banks. I think it comes down to one's personality and what they stand for that makes them attractive. But that's just me. I mean, I can't really fault this Steve guy. He's got a problem like me. But it's just that he might be a little misguided about why and is pointing his finger outwards. I don't think it's true that there's these external forces that are conspiring to create this problem for men. Maybe he's just weird or something. I don't know. He's right about one thing though. Women do like to find fault in fellas so that they could easily write them off instead of actually taking time to getting to know them. They'll never know how sweet a guy can be because of some kind of superficial flaw they'll find in him, making it easy to just write him off. And Steve's not jiving either since I can tell you this from my own experiences.
One thing I will say is that I don't like the fact that people judge me harshly because I don't have the normal record number of relationships or liaisons and shit. I'm usually the punchline of every joke because I don't really have any stories to tell, and I'm fucking sick of it.
[Edited 4/20/08 3:39am] No, not women...people do this. It is absolutely NOT gender specific. Sure, draw on your own experiences to come to this conclusion when it comes to you, but do not dismiss others - women in this case - who say that men treat them the exact same way - they are basing it on their experiences as well. Steve seems to not be able to find a women because women are turned off by his personality. I mean, all you have to do is watch his videos (and he has posted other weird videos on other topics) and you'll see his attitude is a complete turn off. I'm pretty sure this has always been the way he was. A personality is not some superficial flaw, it's a massive determining factor in if a person is attractive or not. Steve is simply not attractive because of his character...and yes, women and men are picky...picky...picky when it comes to determining whether they want to be with a certain personality type or not. Aren't you? That's life - and EVERYONE is judged this way. | |
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JustErin said: ...and yes, women and men are picky...picky...picky when it comes to determining whether they want to be with a certain personality type or not. Aren't you?
That's life - and EVERYONE is judged this way. then there are those who will date assholes simply because they're hot. i worship at the alter of eversoul's ass. i rim. therefore, i am. | |
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He looks like he made the first film in his Mom's powder room.
Oh and I'm scared of that guy. Crazy eyes plus the way he talks about women getting to "choose" who they sleep with. EEK!  In spite of the cost of living, it's still popular. |
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NWF said: damosuzuki said: My personal experience had led me to believe that the problem is not 'what you do': the problem is 'what you are.' Either you can try to change what you are (not easy) or you make peace with what you are. At the very least, do not be like the guy in the clip and try to place the responsibility on anything but yourself. I may be, to paraphrase Lyle Lovett, a lonely, weak, pathetic man, but at least I'm self-aware enough to know that the problem is myself, not every woman in the world. Why should I try to change myself to appease other people? I'm New Wave Forever, take me or leave me. Sure, I can always try and change the things that I'm flawed in, but I refuse to change my beliefs and values for the sake of someone. Another thing is that folks talk about hitting the gym as part of creating some kind of change to make one desirable. Does that really matter, or are people trying to own up to society and even the media's standard of beauty? I'm not saying that you should get away with putting on 400 pounds, but it ain't like your gonna be a supermodel for Calvin Klein either. I don't aspire to be that way anyway. Not everyone has it in them to look like Tyson Beckford or Tyra Banks. I think it comes down to one's personality and what they stand for that makes them attractive. But that's just me. I mean, I can't really fault this Steve guy. He's got a problem like me. But it's just that he might be a little misguided about why and is pointing his finger outwards. I don't think it's true that there's these external forces that are conspiring to create this problem for men. Maybe he's just weird or something. I don't know. He's right about one thing though. Women do like to find fault in fellas so that they could easily write them off instead of actually taking time to getting to know them. They'll never know how sweet a guy can be because of some kind of superficial flaw they'll find in him, making it easy to just write him off. And Steve's not jiving either since I can tell you this from my own experiences.
One thing I will say is that I don't like the fact that people judge me harshly because I don't have the normal record number of relationships or liaisons and shit. I'm usually the punchline of every joke because I don't really have any stories to tell, and I'm fucking sick of it.
[Edited 4/20/08 3:39am] I agree with a lot of the things that you said on this post. Don't change because other people want you to. MyeternalgrattitudetoPhil&Val.Herman said "We want sweaty truckers at the truck stop! We want cigar puffing men that look like they wanna beat the living daylights out of us" Val"sporking is spooning with benefits" | |
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'The Pussy Renaissance Is Coming To An End'
http://www.youtube.com/wa...pyfeIgMngI Seriously people, take a look at this and see/feel the anger of this man! Anyone who takes this person seriously, should consider going into therapy.....what a nut-job!  [Edited 4/20/08 14:46pm] | |
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Cinnie said: rushing07 said: Go to the gym. Not to bulk - to feel better.
these poor women HAVE NO BOOBS!!!!! | |
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abierman said: the amount of anger of this guy towards women is appalling and alarming, I think that Youtube should review this bullshit as I am sure that there are youngsters out there who will find this bullshit appealing.....oh, and I hope that this moron (and his bullshit-friend) will never get laid!
Dude....this stuff is the beginnings for serial killers...seriously.. If he hasn't had a wiff of the poon poon in 20 years, he's bound to get a little crazy in the head. All women hating women killers begin this way..... | |
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AnalinGus said: JustErin said: ...and yes, women and men are picky...picky...picky when it comes to determining whether they want to be with a certain personality type or not. Aren't you?
That's life - and EVERYONE is judged this way. then there are those who will date assholes simply because they're hot. I will dates guys that I think are hot. Don't you date people you're attracted to?  | |
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NWF said: damosuzuki said: My personal experience had led me to believe that the problem is not 'what you do': the problem is 'what you are.' Either you can try to change what you are (not easy) or you make peace with what you are. At the very least, do not be like the guy in the clip and try to place the responsibility on anything but yourself. I may be, to paraphrase Lyle Lovett, a lonely, weak, pathetic man, but at least I'm self-aware enough to know that the problem is myself, not every woman in the world. Why should I try to change myself to appease other people? I'm New Wave Forever, take me or leave me. Sure, I can always try and change the things that I'm flawed in, but I refuse to change my beliefs and values for the sake of someone. Another thing is that folks talk about hitting the gym as part of creating some kind of change to make one desirable. Does that really matter, or are people trying to own up to society and even the media's standard of beauty? I'm not saying that you should get away with putting on 400 pounds, but it ain't like your gonna be a supermodel for Calvin Klein either. I don't aspire to be that way anyway. Not everyone has it in them to look like Tyson Beckford or Tyra Banks. I think it comes down to one's personality and what they stand for that makes them attractive. But that's just me. I mean, I can't really fault this Steve guy. He's got a problem like me. But it's just that he might be a little misguided about why and is pointing his finger outwards. I don't think it's true that there's these external forces that are conspiring to create this problem for men. Maybe he's just weird or something. I don't know. He's right about one thing though. Women do like to find fault in fellas so that they could easily write them off instead of actually taking time to getting to know them. They'll never know how sweet a guy can be because of some kind of superficial flaw they'll find in him, making it easy to just write him off. And Steve's not jiving either since I can tell you this from my own experiences.
One thing I will say is that I don't like the fact that people judge me harshly because I don't have the normal record number of relationships or liaisons and shit. I'm usually the punchline of every joke because I don't really have any stories to tell, and I'm fucking sick of it.
[Edited 4/20/08 3:39am] Dawg....I don't care how much game you are lacking or packing...I've known the most akwardest dudes that get more butts than ash trays. I don't care how bad it is...there really isn't an excuse for any dude to not get p#$$y. and please...until I can make $1.00 to a man's $1.00 don't cry to me about how bad we are. [Edited 4/20/08 15:27pm] | |
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KatSkrizzle said: NWF said: Why should I try to change myself to appease other people? I'm New Wave Forever, take me or leave me. Sure, I can always try and change the things that I'm flawed in, but I refuse to change my beliefs and values for the sake of someone. Another thing is that folks talk about hitting the gym as part of creating some kind of change to make one desirable. Does that really matter, or are people trying to own up to society and even the media's standard of beauty? I'm not saying that you should get away with putting on 400 pounds, but it ain't like your gonna be a supermodel for Calvin Klein either. I don't aspire to be that way anyway. Not everyone has it in them to look like Tyson Beckford or Tyra Banks. I think it comes down to one's personality and what they stand for that makes them attractive. But that's just me. I mean, I can't really fault this Steve guy. He's got a problem like me. But it's just that he might be a little misguided about why and is pointing his finger outwards. I don't think it's true that there's these external forces that are conspiring to create this problem for men. Maybe he's just weird or something. I don't know. He's right about one thing though. Women do like to find fault in fellas so that they could easily write them off instead of actually taking time to getting to know them. They'll never know how sweet a guy can be because of some kind of superficial flaw they'll find in him, making it easy to just write him off. And Steve's not jiving either since I can tell you this from my own experiences.
One thing I will say is that I don't like the fact that people judge me harshly because I don't have the normal record number of relationships or liaisons and shit. I'm usually the punchline of every joke because I don't really have any stories to tell, and I'm fucking sick of it.
[Edited 4/20/08 3:39am] Dawg....I don't care how much game you are lacking or packing...I've known the most akwardest dudes that get more butts than ash trays. I don't care how bad it is...there really isn't an excuse for any dude to not get p#$$y. and please...until I can make $1.00 to a man's $1.00 cry to me about how bad we are. Yeah but I'll be you those awkward guys just happen to get lucky. Hell, I got lucky last year for the first time, but I just thought it was a fluke. I don't believe everyone's fortune is the same, nor is their karma. (  I feel like I've said this before.) And of course it's not difficult to get some..er..sexy time, as Borat would say. But the easiest way is to buy it. And I'm sorry but I'm a law-abiding citizen, so I'd like for my kitty to be legit.NEW WAVE FOREVER: SLAVE TO THE WAVE FROM THE CRADLE TO THE GRAVE. | |
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JustErin said: AnalinGus said: then there are those who will date assholes simply because they're hot. I will dates guys that I think are hot. Don't you date people you're attracted to? true. but you said "personality type". some people will date or sleep with people that treat them poorly or are assholes simply because they're hot. that doesn't make a lot of sense to me. i worship at the alter of eversoul's ass. i rim. therefore, i am. | |
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dude....this you tube dude is the makings of another Ted Bundy! Or a heterosexual Dahmer! | |
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EWF,
if, for some reason you feel lonely, or you feel that you don't get enough pussy, or you feel it's the CIA's fault.....please don't listen to assholes like this SteveHoca dude, or his friend Bill122460.....these people are haters! And yes, this is the stuff serial-killers are made of.....want proof? Look at this: http://www.youtube.com/wa...YDn3-NpLhw then watch a girl's response (she's kinda cute! ):
http://www.youtube.com/wa...re=related people, wake up.....these people are hatemongers, womenhaters!!!! [Edited 4/20/08 16:32pm] | |
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abierman said: EWF,
if, for some reason you feel lonely, or you feel that you don't get enough pussy, or you feel it's the CIA's fault.....please don't listen to assholes like this SteveHoca dude, or his friend Bill122460.....these people are haters! And yes, this is the stuff serial-killers are made of.....want proof? Look at this: http://www.youtube.com/wa...YDn3-NpLhw then watch a girl's response (she's kinda cute! ):
http://www.youtube.com/wa...re=related people, wake up.....these people are hatemongers, womenhaters!!!! [Edited 4/20/08 16:32pm] Yeah, she is kinda hot. But yes, I'm glad that he's stepping out to address this issue since it is a real thing that's happening. But I'm also filtering out the whole conspiracy theory dribble that he's talking about. Some part of me feels like there's hope but I'm just not seeing it right now. Also, I've yet to see any kind of resolution from these guys. I know the issue, but I'm not really digging where they're going with it.
By the way, it's NWF. [Edited 4/20/08 17:29pm] NEW WAVE FOREVER: SLAVE TO THE WAVE FROM THE CRADLE TO THE GRAVE. | |
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NWF said: "....men are being rejected at an apalling rate." W T F ? Obviously this guy never went to college. Or to put it another way, if I ever have a daughter, she is NEVER going to college. | |
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TheMightyCelestial said: NWF said: "....men are being rejected at an apalling rate." W T F ? Obviously this guy never went to college. Or to put it another way, if I ever have a daughter, she is NEVER going to college. BTW, for any out there who didn't go to college or didn't live on campus during college, let me just say that the famous slogan used for Las Vegas can also apply for college. "What happens on campus, stays in campus". | |
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MIGUELGOMEZ said: NWF said: Why should I try to change myself to appease other people? I'm New Wave Forever, take me or leave me. Sure, I can always try and change the things that I'm flawed in, but I refuse to change my beliefs and values for the sake of someone. Another thing is that folks talk about hitting the gym as part of creating some kind of change to make one desirable. Does that really matter, or are people trying to own up to society and even the media's standard of beauty? I'm not saying that you should get away with putting on 400 pounds, but it ain't like your gonna be a supermodel for Calvin Klein either. I don't aspire to be that way anyway. Not everyone has it in them to look like Tyson Beckford or Tyra Banks. I think it comes down to one's personality and what they stand for that makes them attractive. But that's just me. I mean, I can't really fault this Steve guy. He's got a problem like me. But it's just that he might be a little misguided about why and is pointing his finger outwards. I don't think it's true that there's these external forces that are conspiring to create this problem for men. Maybe he's just weird or something. I don't know. He's right about one thing though. Women do like to find fault in fellas so that they could easily write them off instead of actually taking time to getting to know them. They'll never know how sweet a guy can be because of some kind of superficial flaw they'll find in him, making it easy to just write him off. And Steve's not jiving either since I can tell you this from my own experiences.
One thing I will say is that I don't like the fact that people judge me harshly because I don't have the normal record number of relationships or liaisons and shit. I'm usually the punchline of every joke because I don't really have any stories to tell, and I'm fucking sick of it.
[Edited 4/20/08 3:39am] I agree with a lot of the things that you said on this post. Don't change because other people want you to. I agree with that. But change it because you want to, or because it will lead to the the desired result. I don't think anyone should change who they are because someone else wants them to. But as I said in a post above, if a person wants something out of life that they are not getting, then they're going to have to change something about themselves or how they're going about getting it. He's not getting women. But he doesn't want to change anything to get them. And he doesn't want to change the way he goes about getting them. How is the situation going to change?  "Half of what I say is meaningless; but I say it so that the other half may reach you." - Kahlil Gibran | |
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Raze said: MIGUELGOMEZ said: I agree with a lot of the things that you said on this post. Don't change because other people want you to. I agree with that. But change it because you want to, or because it will lead to the the desired result. I don't think anyone should change who they are because someone else wants them to. But as I said in a post above, if a person wants something out of life that they are not getting, then they're going to have to change something about themselves or how they're going about getting it. He's not getting women. But he doesn't want to change anything to get them. And he doesn't want to change the way he goes about getting them. How is the situation going to change? I'll just be blunt here. He needs a new haircut desperately, and a goatee wouldn't hurt. Also, it wouldn't hurt him to wear more subdued colors with formal collars, ect. etc. And what woman would NOT walk into that room (in the first video), and not think he was gay as hell? LOOK AT THE WALLPAPER!  | |
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oh lawd
http://www.youtube.com/wa...re=related This guy exudes absolutely no confidence. I mean you can tell in his demeanor , mannerisms, etc. etc. that he just lacks confidence. It doesn't matter how modern society gets--I would venture to think being 'protected' is something women, at least subconsciously, find attractive. And he just ain't gonna fit that bill. Jesus. He's not getting lucky cause women are too picky--he ain't getting lucky cause ....well, look at him. That dude needs to change his attitude... that goes a looooonnnnggg way. | |
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