mdiver said:

you misunderstood my I just meant it's retarded for you to try to have some kind of insight on my life and say I'm inexperienced (with what, btw?). Just because you read some posts about some shit I did doesn't mean you know my life experiences (especially regarding this subject)

Volitan said:

Ok mate.

Lets look at the facts

#1 You have just received your first pay cheque
#2 You therefore are in your first job
#3 You have experience of one woman
#4 You spout immature generalizations on many subjects


DO any of these things point to a well rounded,experienced and worldy wise mature person whose life experience has led them to a reasoned conclusion


or



A young kid just out of school that thinks he knows it all?

Volitan said:

no offense Volitan, for anybody to say women are more promiscuous or would cheat more than men 'SAYS' something about the person making that statement.... whether you seem to realize that or not.. i dont believe it was really a personal attack, but .. everybody knows.... THAT is simply not true.. even other men will say that..
[Edited 4/18/08 4:41am]

Like I said, I'm talking from persoanl experience. I've never seen a man cheat. I've seen a couple girls cheat. I'm just going from what I've seen

mdiver said:

My first legal paycheck was, like 2 months ago. I've had other jobs before that though.

Okay, I'm not some kind of manwhore so, I'm inexperienced and immature? Staying with one woman doesn't make me immature. It means I was in love and in a relationship with someone. It's not like pussy is some sort of wisdom fountain that makes you smarter.

And I've never generalized about anything. Regarding this subject, I've never seen any guy I know, cheat. How ever, several girls I know have cheated on their boyfriends, so in my eyes that points to, girls cheat.

No. I'm a young white Englishman living in Bangkok and I've never cheated.

Regarding this subject, I've never seen any guy I know, cheat.

My first legal paycheck was, like 2 months ago. I've had other jobs before that though.

Okay, I'm not some kind of manwhore so, I'm inexperienced and immature? Staying with one woman doesn't make me immature. It means I was in love and in a relationship with someone. It's not like pussy is some sort of wisdom fountain that makes you smarter.

And I've never generalized about anything. Regarding this subject, I've never seen any guy I know, cheat. How ever, several girls I know have cheated on their boyfriends, so in my eyes that points to, girls cheat.

you cannot possibly deny it!

Jony, sometimes you turn me off with your threads but I pretty much agree with you on this one.

And for those who say women do it as much or more than men, no they don't. Sex means so much more to a woman and if she finds a man she wants to share her life with and her body with, she's not trying to sleep around.

Now, I do believe there are good men who would never cheat but I believe those men are rare and I have all in the respect in the world for them. I hope to find one of them one day.

Stymie said:

Sorry Ivy, this is a load of BS and you know it.....men are certainly no saints but I can tell you that I've met my share of women who did/do their deal of sleeping around, so much that your average manwhore would be blatantly intimidated by it.....it is NOT a typical man-thing!
[Edited 4/18/08 6:36am]

look lets rephrase

theres good looking men

theres not so good looking men

some people in life get more opportunities than others.....





yes i believe you lot havent cheated BUT a man is only as faithful as his options

now we could give a million different scenarios..and i have lots of married pals-and they all shoot me down BUT ive seen these motherfuckers drunk and drooling over women they know they COULD never get

but i know IF they could-if their OPTIONS allowed they would for the first time in their lives bang what soceity deems a beautiful/sexy woman

now thats the truth ruth!

abierman said:

Sorry but from my own personal experiences, I'm sticking to what I said. If you start a thread about who has been cheated on, I bet that most of the posts will come from women.

Stymie said:

But there is a whole other reason for that: men will not whine about deceit like that and will move on, whereas women most likely will seek comfort in their victim-role which gives them an opportunity to bitch about how evil & bad men are!

YEAH I SAID IT!

to paraphrase mr.rock


look its true-you cannot possibly deny it!

abierman said:

Sorry but from my own personal experiences, I'm sticking to what I said. If you start a thread about who has been cheated on, I bet that most of the posts will come from women.

jonylawson said:

B.S.....
Some men, have their shit together and don't have time 4 non-sense.

Graycap23 said:

For once I agree with your weird ass.

Graycap23 said:

For once I agree with your weird ass.

Stymie said:

But who are these men cheating with?? They can't all be single women who aren't also cheating on a partner, the odds are just against that.

I think women cheat just as much as men do. They're probably just better at not getting caught.

FunkMistress said:

Weird? Interesting.....

Graycap23 said:

No, just weird.

abierman said:

If I were there, I would jump up and punch you in the chin.

Men do whine about shit like that and I personally have been cheated on and not once have I even said anything about it on here til now. I moved on but I don't expect much from you cheating motherfuckers anyway.

As a man, once you realize that your actions define you, one realizes that if you make a commitment and then break it because something better comes along, your actions are really who you are.

With that standard being set for you and who you are, I'm pretty sure most women would be better off with a vibrator then trying to have a relationship with a man like you.

Yeah having integrity as a human being isn't a challenge for me...

Stymie said:

see, if I go in defense, you want to punch me.....

Like I said, I'd never claim that men are saints.....but women are just as bad!!! I agree on what Funkmistress says!