Do you attribute your great love making skills to having sex with mature lovers?

Or is it more a case of instinctively knowing how to vibe with a woman?

What drives you in your pursuit to reach orgasm? Is it the thrill of pleasing her, that get you off, or is it more you trying to reach multiple orgasms?


What would you tell a younger man seeking your advice in his quest to please a woman?

paintedlady said:

the first thing to know is that all partners are not equal, so the slow tender approach with one will bore the tears off of a seasoned pro..on the other hand, the ike turner rough treatment might turn one chick on, but send the other to therapy. when going downtown, you have to gauge whether they like their blades gently clipped one by one, or mowed down like a weed whacker.

Have you generally had seasoned pros? Or does that matter?

paintedlady said:

it matters to a degree. i'm sure a lot of women up on here can tell you how some dude bragged he was fuck her brains to mush, only to find out that the game was a lame ass lay. generally speaking though, a guy with a piece with girth/thickness will generally drive a woman crazier than a guy with a long schlong. how much energy my partner puts out dtermines how much i put into it. so to answer your question, seasoned pro is a loose term--there are women who've been with one guy who can make your eyes roll in your head, and then there are chicks who have been with dozens of guys who is deader than a fish the waters around pittsburgh

There is only one man here who considers himself a good lover .

Good lovers are hard to find I was thinking the same thing Serious..


good thing that Fury is qualified enough to answer the question.

Fury said:

very true.

paintedlady said:

One male orger was answering at least one of the questions in an orgnote though and I won't mention his name .

Painted is ALWAYS into something sexual, ain't she?

My skills come from instincts, vibe of a woman, and repetition (There's joy in that, I heard ).

My instincts kick in once I get her vibe(s), and then it's all about repetition to get her rhythm(s) down so I'll then know how to please her and keep the pleasing as constant as possible. It's also very ego-driven for most men to be able to "break her off". And there's absolutely no better scene on Earth than to witness a woman coming. Truly gorgeous.

to Serious...

Doesn't count if I can't play



To Mutha...

'bout time you showed up! I was starting to worry.... it isn't like you to not want to lay some knowledge down.
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MuthaFunka said:

You say that like its a bad thang....

paintedlady said:

No, not at all! I just noticed that about you, that's all .

paintedlady said:

You know I had to "come in" and pull my dick out and drop some cock-diesel science!

paintedlady said:

Yeah I understand . Well maybe he decides to post here a well .

MuthaFunka said:

Thangs wouldn't be right if you weren't ssooo cocky... Muthafukka!

paintedlady said:

MuthaFunka said:

Listen... just 'cause I'm taking a mental break from P&R doesn't mean that I don't read all that shit you be posting... and don't think I haven't noticed all that big bootay talk you've been doing with the fella's (pot meet kettle).... and where are they anyways..


it's like a ghost town up in this thread... crickets chirping n shit.....

MuthaFunka said:

Well, that's a visual fo yo ass!

SCNDLS said:

fat and heavy science.

paintedlady said:

Thick, fat, AND heavy science

paintedlady said:

- We were just holding the fort down until you CAME....back.

SCNDLS said:

MuthaFunka said:

How did you know!?! OH shit....

My man is awesome

paintedlady said:

A always knows!

luv4u said:

aaawwww....








bitch....

Serious said:

Prince?

teaspoon said:

Sex with someone you totally connect with answers your question rather than saying men or women are good lovers in general..

REDFEATHERS said:

I agree with that to an extent... but I wonder if the connection has to do with his approach rather than his personality. I've had great sex with a guy I was pissed at, and awful sex with a guy I that I thought was awesome.


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