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Printablenoimageatall said: Stymie said: God yes.
 How did you feel about "your" best friend? I mean, this bitchy woman was manipulative, condescending, downright hateful, phony, loud and obnoxious, thought she was cute and she looked like a man. Sometimes I would get so frustrated I would just blurt out..."WTF do you see in this bitch? How can you stand to be around her for hours at a time out shopping? Seriously, Pam...I would kill her on a road trip." In the beginning, I tired very hard to get along with her for my friends sake. Hell, we even went out alone together when Pam got sick and we had benefit tickets. But, I am not that phony, and could not keep up the pretense. We were all supposed to go on a cruise to Jamaica. The closer it got to our departure date, the more I knew that I would throw her overboard and be arrested for murder outside the US.  I told Pam that her trip would be ruined, and I did not feel like causing tension and so I cancelled.
How would you feel about "your" friend being friends with someone who was so obviously TO YOU a phony, spiteful person? Would you look at them differently and wonder why the hell you were even friends? Or would you just chalk it up to bad chemistry? clarification edit [Edited 4/12/08 9:26am] | |
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I thought JerseyKRS was a jerk when I first read his posts. The Normal Whores Club | |
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I have definitely met people that I have instinctively known are not the type of people I want to be around.....some just send off a vibe that makes u uncomfortable ...I wouldn't say hate though ...just the feeling of smile and back away slowly ...a bit like when I met althom really  | |
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I definitely believe in it, I've met people that I've immediately felt a bad vibe from or made me completely uncomfortable when I was around them and I generally stay away from people once I feel or get that vibe. | |
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Ocean said: I have definitely met people that I have instinctively known are not the type of people I want to be around.....some just send off a vibe that makes u uncomfortable ...I wouldn't say hate though ...just the feeling of smile and back away slowly ...a bit like when I met althom really
yeah, hate is too strong a word just note to self to avoid in future  | |
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FunkMistress said: I thought JerseyKRS was a jerk when I first read his posts.
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I think people get their hopes up when they assume too much of someone they never met -- especially on a site like this. People easily build up an image of a person in their mind that is sometimes unrealistic -- to the point where one gets upset when what they perceive in their mind clashes with the reality.
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Mara said: I think people get their hopes up when they assume too much of someone they never met -- especially on a site like this. People easily build up an image of a person in their mind that is sometimes unrealistic -- to the point where one gets upset when what they perceive in their mind clashes with the reality.
Why not just be the same all the time?This may or may not be what you're referencing. [Edited 4/16/08 9:59am] | |
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I don't tend to do hate at first sight, i prefer to have a valid reason to hate someones guts.....and i do.....many. However that is not to say it is as much the person as the attitude or thinking that i tend to hate | |
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Stymie said: Mara said: I think people get their hopes up when they assume too much of someone they never met -- especially on a site like this. People easily build up an image of a person in their mind that is sometimes unrealistic -- to the point where one gets upset when what they perceive in their mind clashes with the reality.
Why not just be the same all the time?This may or may not be what you're referencing. [Edited 4/16/08 9:59am] I know, right?
some people must not be comfortable enough in their own skin to be able to do that, and that is pretty sad  | |
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Stymie said: Mara said: I think people get their hopes up when they assume too much of someone they never met -- especially on a site like this. People easily build up an image of a person in their mind that is sometimes unrealistic -- to the point where one gets upset when what they perceive in their mind clashes with the reality.
Why not just be the same all the time?This may or may not be what you're referencing. [Edited 4/16/08 9:59am] sometimes i wonder if people make a conscious choice to have an online personality and a "real time" personality. it could be that they have an unaffected affectation. | |
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evenstar said: FunkMistress said: I thought JerseyKRS was a jerk when I first read his posts.
!!I did! It's actually how we interacted in the first place. We weren't smitten with each other til we met. The Normal Whores Club | |
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FunkMistress said: I thought JerseyKRS was a jerk when I first read his posts.
durr, you were RIGHT.  | |
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JerseyKRS said: FunkMistress said: I thought JerseyKRS was a jerk when I first read his posts.
durr, you were RIGHT. Yeah, but I didn't know you could dance. The Normal Whores Club | |
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FunkMistress said: evenstar said: !!I did! It's actually how we interacted in the first place. We weren't smitten with each other til we met. i thought ben was a total weirdo, but i had a crush on him anyway. | |
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evenstar3 said: FunkMistress said: I did! It's actually how we interacted in the first place. We weren't smitten with each other til we met. i thought ben was a total weirdo, but i had a crush on him anyway. I was under the impression she was gay.  | |
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JerseyKRS said: evenstar3 said: i thought ben was a total weirdo, but i had a crush on him anyway. I was under the impression she was gay. | |
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Most my boyfriends I have hated before I dated them
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mmmmm, I like this thread | |
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JDInteractive said: That's my problem. I don't think.
Your sig!!!  We got married? Why wasn't I told and where's my ring???  [Edited 4/21/08 13:21pm] | |
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I definitely have a "sixth sense" about people. I can tell almost from the moment I meet someone whether I'm going to be okay with them or not. And if it's a "not" situation, I usually find out something later that justifies my initial feelings.
Like there's this guy I work with. Something about him gave me the woogies from jump. I found out later that he lied on his resume to get hired here. We don’t mourn artists because we knew them. We mourn them because they helped us know ourselves. | |
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Genesia said: I definitely have a "sixth sense" about people. I can tell almost from the moment I meet someone whether I'm going to be okay with them or not. And if it's a "not" situation, I usually find out something later that justifies my initial feelings.
Like there's this guy I work with. Something about him gave me the woogies from jump. I found out later that he lied on his resume to get hired here. wwwooooo! woogie woogie wwoooo!!
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Genesia said: I definitely have a "sixth sense" about people. I can tell almost from the moment I meet someone whether I'm going to be okay with them or not. And if it's a "not" situation, I usually find out something later that justifies my initial feelings.
Like there's this guy I work with. Something about him gave me the woogies from jump. I found out later that he lied on his resume to get hired here. | |
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Genesia said: I definitely have a "sixth sense" about people. I can tell almost from the moment I meet someone whether I'm going to be okay with them or not. And if it's a "not" situation, I usually find out something later that justifies my initial feelings.
Like there's this guy I work with. Something about him gave me the woogies from jump. I found out later that he lied on his resume to get hired here. i've been thinking about this a bit...when i was younger, sometimes people who gave me a strong negative reaction when i first met them would become some of my closest friends. but i think with time and age, those impulses get sharper and more trustworthy (though never 100%). | |
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I absolutely believe in the negative-chemistry theory  | |
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JoeTyler said: I absolutely believe in the negative-chemistry theory
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Mara said: I think people get their hopes up when they assume too much of someone they never met -- especially on a site like this. People easily build up an image of a person in their mind that is sometimes unrealistic -- to the point where one gets upset when what they perceive in their mind clashes with the reality.
This may or may not be what you're referencing. [Edited 4/16/08 9:59am] yep, and you find out that the person was not @ all what you thought them to be | |
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Just try and have the person you hate send you a nice t-shirt. Worked for me!  | |
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