uPtoWnNY said:

The list is LONG .....but I'm not mad at any of them.

Serious said:

Well, most women probably take it into consideration if they're planning to marry the guy and start a family. I mean, you don't wanna end up with a deadbeat on your hands, ala Bobby Brown.

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

That reminds me of the movie Shallow Hal. Jack Black was pissed at his friend for unhypnotizing him so he couldn't see his Rosemary as hot anymore. He didn't care if everyone else didn't find her attractive.

SCNDLS said:

If a woman marries a man she doesn't feel attracted to just for the money the marriage probably won't last.

SCNDLS said:

That dude was neither a good provider nor a pretty face.

God I wish gay men had this philosophy.

Serious said:

I know. I'm ugly now so I should be a babe magnet. Women are hard to figure out.

Would somebody PLEASE tell my roomate this? I'm tired of being scared by his beasts of a one-night-stands when I stumble through my hallway at night.

sextonseven said:

You are not ugly, but probably not as hot as you were before . But there are many woman who like men with short hair, so maybe that's the reason ?

Serious said:

I didn't say physical attraction isn't important, I'm saying that there are various factors if you're talking about marriage and building a family. If you're just gettin' your freak on then looks is pretty much first and foremost, for men AND women.

sextonseven said:

That's your opinion. But in Whitney's crack-hazed eyes Bobby was the bomb AND the king of R&B.

Graycap23 said:

In Beyonce and Jay-Z's case I really think she loves him. I think that he views her more as a trophy wife cuz he's always talking about how he's go the hottest chick in da game. She seems to refer to him in her music on a more emotional level. Besides she doesn't need his money and God knows she coulda found a handsome AND wealthy man to hook up with if it was all about loot and looks. The fact that she's been with him so long and kept mum about their relationship indicates to me that she really loves him. Now, him, I dunno.

Serious said:

What I need to do is make myself more ugly and get more money.

I like my men hot, thank you very much.

so this is TVs excuse for but ugly men having gorgeous women/wives on tv family shows?

sextonseven said:

SCNDLS said:

I would never want to build a family with a man I don't truly love no matter how much money he has. And I only fall in love with somebody if I am attracted to him.

JustErin said:

A man who is not technically hot, still may be a hot man. At least for me

sometimes I think people marry young when they both look well, then one lets themselves go and that where you end up having one look more attractive than the other. Or they both can let themselves go.

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

Sure, if you're talking about sweating in hot weather.

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

And men who might be considered good looking may not be my type like George Clooney. So even if he is considered hot an has money I would not be interested if he isn't attractive to me.

Serious said:

plz

horatio said:

What ?

Serious said:

sextonseven said:

pardonme4livin said:

omg

sextonseven said:

Are you insane? We spent hours talking about how hot you are.

You know, its funny, I heard it was because it was less likey for women to try to tempt the man into cheating. a coworker listed it as one of the reasons why shes engaged to not such a hot guy.

Well, if this is true, that means I have a chance

I think every guy I've dated has been way more attractive than me...

Perhaps that's why it never works out.