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Printableevenstar said: Slave2daGroove said: Yeah, it's not about you and what you want and don't be confused, I'm not talking about making a scene here. This is one guy to another and if you push my button after I tell you, it'll happen so fast that I'll be escorting people out of the bar while you're picking your teeth up off the floor wondering what just happened. I'm not a violent person but I will not take shit from anyone either. yeah, i've had an ex pull that shit with me and NO. just no. a perceived need to prove how much of a man you are, disregarding how your girlfriend/wife feels about the situation, is ridiculous. period. Yeah, it has nothing to do with the need to prove how much of a man I am and it has zero to do with your feelings...it's disrespect from one man to another. | |
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Slave2daGroove said: Stymie said: Your girl is hot.
Please don't punch my teeth in.  
See here's the double standard, I would never say anything to a woman about a woman hitting on her, ever. Gotta be a testosterone thing. and you Stymie, I couldn't hit you with a newspaper and not feel like the lowest form of scum on the earth... 
But dude your girl is really, really hot.  | |
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Slave2daGroove said: evenstar said: yeah, i've had an ex pull that shit with me and NO. just no. a perceived need to prove how much of a man you are, disregarding how your girlfriend/wife feels about the situation, is ridiculous. period. Yeah, it has nothing to do with the need to prove how much of a man I am and it has zero to do with your feelings...it's disrespect from one man to another. ah, but that is about manly macho crap in a way still, then.  the whole issue is centered around your SO, so yes, i think it should be considered whether she wants you to glare/make pointed comments/knock someone's teeth out. sometimes what you think is appropriate for a situation she might disagree with. | |
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Stymie said: Slave2daGroove said:
See here's the double standard, I would never say anything to a woman about a woman hitting on her, ever. Gotta be a testosterone thing. and you Stymie, I couldn't hit you with a newspaper and not feel like the lowest form of scum on the earth...
But dude your girl is really, really hot. So are most of the women here but I've really mellowed on this as I've gotten older and I've always dated hot women. The disrespect thing could happen even when a woman is not involved with the same reaction. The older we get the more we have to lose so I'd like to say I'm less reaction based then I was when I was younger. I just have zero tolerance for a lot of things and treating me or someone else with disrespect will make me see red. The same thing happens to me when I see a guy roughing up a woman in public, it's just an instant reaction and I've learned it's best to just walk away before I do something I'll regret for the rest of my life. | |
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evenstar said: Slave2daGroove said: Yeah, it has nothing to do with the need to prove how much of a man I am and it has zero to do with your feelings...it's disrespect from one man to another. ah, but that is about manly macho crap in a way still, then. the whole issue is centered around your SO, so yes, i think it should be considered whether she wants you to glare/make pointed comments/knock someone's teeth out. sometimes what you think is appropriate for a situation she might disagree with.Women are from Venus, Men are from Mars - it's just a fact. I've leashed the animal in getting older because once you own things you have more to lose in a lawsuit. | |
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Slave2daGroove said: CarrieMpls said:  Yeah, it's not about you and what you want and don't be confused, I'm not talking about making a scene here. This is one guy to another and if you push my button after I tell you, it'll happen so fast that I'll be escorting people out of the bar while you're picking your teeth up off the floor wondering what just happened. I'm not a violent person but I will not take shit from anyone either. This statement is exactly what bothers me. I don't need someone to "save" me. Of course, if the other guy is getting physical with a woman then maybe, but just because he flirts? And doesn't go away after a serious look? I find the "it's just the testosterone" excuse to be tired and overblown. Look. I don't know you. So again I am not picking on just you. I'm not really picking on anyone (or at least I'm not trying to). I just don't want a man to think I'm his property or some shit like that. Homie don't play that.  | |
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I don't mind. In fact, I think it's cute when he flirts with my female friends. (Hi, Ivy. )
He's mine...and sat-is-fied. I got nothing to worry about...so I don't.  We don’t mourn artists because we knew them. We mourn them because they helped us know ourselves. | |
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Genesia said: I don't mind. In fact, I think it's cute when he flirts with my female friends. (Hi, Ivy. )
He's mine...and sat-is-fied. I got nothing to worry about...so I don't. I don't think I've flirted with him or he's flirted with me in front of you but I have told you how hot I think he is. And he's a sweetheart to boot. | |
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hokie said: Slave2daGroove said: Yeah, it's not about you and what you want and don't be confused, I'm not talking about making a scene here. This is one guy to another and if you push my button after I tell you, it'll happen so fast that I'll be escorting people out of the bar while you're picking your teeth up off the floor wondering what just happened. I'm not a violent person but I will not take shit from anyone either. This statement is exactly what bothers me. I don't need someone to "save" me. Of course, if the other guy is getting physical with a woman then maybe, but just because he flirts? And doesn't go away after a serious look? I find the "it's just the testosterone" excuse to be tired and overblown. Look. I don't know you. So again I am not picking on just you. I'm not really picking on anyone (or at least I'm not trying to). I just don't want a man to think I'm his property or some shit like that. Homie don't play that. Sorry Homie, I've been told I'm getting to serious on this thread... I'll say it again because you're missing it; it's disrespect, testosterone just fuels it. It doesn't have anything to do with you or saving you or that you're property. Maybe it's something that you'd never understand but it seems to be in my DNA since I was a child. | |
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Stymie said: Genesia said: I don't mind. In fact, I think it's cute when he flirts with my female friends. (Hi, Ivy. )
He's mine...and sat-is-fied. I got nothing to worry about...so I don't. I don't think I've flirted with him or he's flirted with me in front of you but I have told you how hot I think he is. And he's a sweetheart to boot. Yes, you have - thank you.
And he was flirting with you. We don’t mourn artists because we knew them. We mourn them because they helped us know ourselves. | |
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Slave2daGroove said: hokie said: This statement is exactly what bothers me. I don't need someone to "save" me. Of course, if the other guy is getting physical with a woman then maybe, but just because he flirts? And doesn't go away after a serious look? I find the "it's just the testosterone" excuse to be tired and overblown. Look. I don't know you. So again I am not picking on just you. I'm not really picking on anyone (or at least I'm not trying to). I just don't want a man to think I'm his property or some shit like that. Homie don't play that. Sorry Homie, I've been told I'm getting to serious on this thread... I'll say it again because you're missing it; it's disrespect, testosterone just fuels it. It doesn't have anything to do with you or saving you or that you're property. Maybe it's something that you'd never understand but it seems to be in my DNA since I was a child. Oh well. I guess we'll agree to disagree. I do think it's about the girl, but I digress. No hard feelings.  | |
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hokie said: Slave2daGroove said: Yeah, it's not about you and what you want and don't be confused, I'm not talking about making a scene here. This is one guy to another and if you push my button after I tell you, it'll happen so fast that I'll be escorting people out of the bar while you're picking your teeth up off the floor wondering what just happened. I'm not a violent person but I will not take shit from anyone either. This statement is exactly what bothers me. I don't need someone to "save" me. Of course, if the other guy is getting physical with a woman then maybe, but just because he flirts? And doesn't go away after a serious look? I find the "it's just the testosterone" excuse to be tired and overblown. Look. I don't know you. So again I am not picking on just you. I'm not really picking on anyone (or at least I'm not trying to). I just don't want a man to think I'm his property or some shit like that. Homie don't play that. yeah! and i also think it's kinda disrespectful to the woman to steamroll over her opinions to satisfy a testosterone-fueled urge. that's all. | |
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evenstar said: hokie said: This statement is exactly what bothers me. I don't need someone to "save" me. Of course, if the other guy is getting physical with a woman then maybe, but just because he flirts? And doesn't go away after a serious look? I find the "it's just the testosterone" excuse to be tired and overblown. Look. I don't know you. So again I am not picking on just you. I'm not really picking on anyone (or at least I'm not trying to). I just don't want a man to think I'm his property or some shit like that. Homie don't play that. yeah! and i also think it's kinda disrespectful to the woman to steamroll over her opinions to satisfy a testosterone-fueled urge. that's all. I agree 100%. It's a little too caveman-ish for me. | |
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hokie said: evenstar said: yeah! and i also think it's kinda disrespectful to the woman to steamroll over her opinions to satisfy a testosterone-fueled urge. that's all. I agree 100%. It's a little too caveman-ish for me. i like to be possessed/controlled in bed, not anywhere else   | |
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evenstar said: hokie said: I agree 100%. It's a little too caveman-ish for me. i like to be possessed/controlled in bed, not anywhere else  Well, that's different. You WANT it to be that way. | |
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Slave2daGroove said: CarrieMpls said: Yeah, it's not about you and what you want and don't be confused, I'm not talking about making a scene here. This is one guy to another and if you push my button after I tell you, it'll happen so fast that I'll be escorting people out of the bar while you're picking your teeth up off the floor wondering what just happened. I'm not a violent person but I will not take shit from anyone either.
If someone is hitting on me it's between me and them...not my bf and him. Pull that shit on me and I'm outta there. I'm not interested in having someone talk on my behalf. If I want someone to do that...I'll ask. A bf like that would not last long at all with me. | |
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evenstar said: hokie said: I agree 100%. It's a little too caveman-ish for me. i like to be possessed/controlled in bed, not anywhere else  | |
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Imago said: evenstar said: i like to be possessed/controlled in bed, not anywhere else  | |
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Genesia said: Stymie said: I don't think I've flirted with him or he's flirted with me in front of you but I have told you how hot I think he is. And he's a sweetheart to boot. Yes, you have - thank you.
And he was flirting with you. | |
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DanceWme said: It has happened plenty of times.
Hey..its a compliment to me I guess. But let some chick get out of line imma straight rock her jaw piece!!! I haven't even read the rest of the responses yet and I found just what I wanted to say TeeTee don't play that  | |
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veronikka said: Women would flirt with my ex all the time, sad thing was he'd flirt back with me there
 one time I just said I was his sister so that I wouldnt look so dumb standing there next to him.You should've checked his ass. Don't let a man do that shit to you ever again. | |
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FunkMistress said: Imago said: Well, I'm 'going to be a complete hypocrite when I say this.
It annoys me. I think it's terribly disrespectful and shows very little class if you flirt with someone who's married or involved. Even if they're receptive to it, it just seems dishonorable regardless of how 'harmless' the flirting is. That being said, Jerseykrs is going to have to watch out as I WILL cop a feel. 
I was just saying last night, "I know I'm a grown-ass woman, but sometimes I just have this urge to fight somebody, I mean really fuck them up. I just never find myself in a situation that warrants it." Really, I did. | |
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