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PrintableImago said: ehuffnsd said: 
if you can't attact a woman do you really think a gay man will be attracted to you? I've also noticed the most homophobic men with stories of "He was once in the restroom at the same time as I was, and I swear to you dude, he was looking at my package" type stories are guys most women wouldn't fuck, let alone a gay man who could walk into any gay bar and find guys exponentially better looking to 'ogle" 
Again, why would a gay man risk his life over some dude with a cheap ass haircut, and dark brown loafers with white socks? Hell. no.
(again, I'm stereotyping and not picking on anyone on this thread in particular). What's wrong with dark brown loafers.....?  MyeternalgrattitudetoPhil&Val.Herman said "We want sweaty truckers at the truck stop! We want cigar puffing men that look like they wanna beat the living daylights out of us" Val"sporking is spooning with benefits" | |
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MIGUELGOMEZ said: CarrieLee said: I guess I'm a magnet for gay people then. I don't mind, and I love dancing with them but when they start to go up my shirt or skirt it's NOT ok. I realize it's a gay bar and I don't want to hear "you're in their territory deal with it" because I don't discriminate when gays are in a "straight bar". I mean do "straight bars" even exist? I say the more the merrier whatever the hell you are. It's just when the hands get busy...it frustrates the fuck out of me! You are totally correct. Nobody should be touching you that way unless you say it's okay. I'm glad Miggy said this, I was going to say the same thing, I don't care where you are, people should respect YOUR body unless YOU are okay with it being more. Plain and simple. So when are the tops coming off?? | |
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MIGUELGOMEZ said: Imago said: I've also noticed the most homophobic men with stories of "He was once in the restroom at the same time as I was, and I swear to you dude, he was looking at my package" type stories are guys most women wouldn't fuck, let alone a gay man who could walk into any gay bar and find guys exponentially better looking to 'ogle"
Again, why would a gay man risk his life over some dude with a cheap ass haircut, and dark brown loafers with white socks? Hell. no.
(again, I'm stereotyping and not picking on anyone on this thread in particular). What's wrong with dark brown loafers.....? with. white. socks. | |
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Imago said: MIGUELGOMEZ said: What's wrong with dark brown loafers.....? with. white. socks.  MyeternalgrattitudetoPhil&Val.Herman said "We want sweaty truckers at the truck stop! We want cigar puffing men that look like they wanna beat the living daylights out of us" Val"sporking is spooning with benefits" | |
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JerseyKRS said: MIGUELGOMEZ said: You are totally correct. Nobody should be touching you that way unless you say it's okay. I'm glad Miggy said this, I was going to say the same thing, I don't care where you are, people should respect YOUR body unless YOU are okay with it being more. Plain and simple. So when are the tops coming off??
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CarrieLee said: FunkMistress said: Sorry, Carrie, but in the majority of establishments you can express your sexuality without fear of retaliation. Gay people (and gay MEN in particular) don't have that luxury. So if it gets a little, um, intense for you when you choose to venture into the few areas where that expression is allowed and welcomed...you guessed it...go to a straight bar! No! I'm sorry but I don't care where I am...nobody has the right to put their hands up my skirt or down my shirt. Nobody!!! I have every right to be there just as much as they do and I don't care what they do to themselves or their friends...keep your fucking hands off me! If they are uncomfortable with me being there, when they have no idea what my sexual orientation is btw, then maybe management should ask and not let me in. Fuck that I"m sorry but I don't agree with you here. I've been to lesbian bars and they didn't feel me up. They can express whatever they want. Doesn't give them the right to touch whoever they feel like at the time. . [Edited 4/9/08 12:22pm] 
I'm not condoning anyone touching you without your consent. That type of shit doesn't fly with me, either. I need to realize where I am at any given time, though. In gay clubs, sexuality often does get exaggerated because it's repressed elsewhere. I do have a problem with straight people's sense of entitlement. Like I said, if you don't like it at Ramrod or The Eagle or wherever, you have the luxury of hanging out comfortably pretty much anywhere. When the awareness of your hetero privilege gets taken out of the equation, arrogance creeps in and that's what bothers me. And the lesbians don't feel you up because they are too busy planning their next vegetarian potluck. The Normal Whores Club | |
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JerseyKRS said: MIGUELGOMEZ said: You are totally correct. Nobody should be touching you that way unless you say it's okay. I'm glad Miggy said this, I was going to say the same thing, I don't care where you are, people should respect YOUR body unless YOU are okay with it being more. Plain and simple. So when are the tops coming off?? Yeah, when? I'm a boobs man. MyeternalgrattitudetoPhil&Val.Herman said "We want sweaty truckers at the truck stop! We want cigar puffing men that look like they wanna beat the living daylights out of us" Val"sporking is spooning with benefits" | |
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FunkMistress said: And the lesbians don't feel you up because they are too busy planning their next vegetarian potluck.  [Edited 4/9/08 12:34pm] | |
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hokie said: I don't believe I've ever been hit on or flirted with by a female. It wouldn't bother me. It wouldn't freak me out.
I would treat it the same as if I was being flirted with by a man.  It's the same for me . Men are alway flirting with me, but women never. They might tell me that I am beautiful and make comments about my styling, but in a no flirty way and I can't remember any woman ever was interested in me. Oh and my 2 closest female friends are both lesbian .With a very special thank you to Tina: Is hammer already absolute, how much some people verändern...ICH hope is never so I will be! And if, then I hope that I would then have wen in my environment who joins me in the A.... | |
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Serious said: hokie said: I don't believe I've ever been hit on or flirted with by a female. It wouldn't bother me. It wouldn't freak me out.
I would treat it the same as if I was being flirted with by a man. It's the same for me . Men are alway flirting with me, but women never. They might tell me that I am beautiful and make comments about my styling, but in a no flirty way and I can't remember any woman ever was interested in me. Oh and my 2 closest female friends are both lesbian .We must not be good lesbian material??? I don't know. | |
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FunkMistress said: CarrieLee said: No! I'm sorry but I don't care where I am...nobody has the right to put their hands up my skirt or down my shirt. Nobody!!! I have every right to be there just as much as they do and I don't care what they do to themselves or their friends...keep your fucking hands off me! If they are uncomfortable with me being there, when they have no idea what my sexual orientation is btw, then maybe management should ask and not let me in. Fuck that I"m sorry but I don't agree with you here. I've been to lesbian bars and they didn't feel me up. They can express whatever they want. Doesn't give them the right to touch whoever they feel like at the time. . [Edited 4/9/08 12:22pm]
I'm not condoning anyone touching you without your consent. That type of shit doesn't fly with me, either. I need to realize where I am at any given time, though. In gay clubs, sexuality often does get exaggerated because it's repressed elsewhere. I do have a problem with straight people's sense of entitlement. Like I said, if you don't like it at Ramrod or The Eagle or wherever, you have the luxury of hanging out comfortably pretty much anywhere. When the awareness of your hetero privilege gets taken out of the equation, arrogance creeps in and that's what bothers me. And the lesbians don't feel you up because they are too busy planning their next vegetarian potluck. i feel offended if i leave a gay bar without out being groped or grapped or oogled or have someone follow me into the bathroom. took out a word so it made sense. [Edited 4/9/08 12:41pm] You CANNOT use the name of God, or religion, to justify acts of violence, to hurt, to hate, to discriminate- Madonna
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ehuffnsd said: FunkMistress said:
I'm not condoning anyone touching you without your consent. That type of shit doesn't fly with me, either. I need to realize where I am at any given time, though. In gay clubs, sexuality often does get exaggerated because it's repressed elsewhere. I do have a problem with straight people's sense of entitlement. Like I said, if you don't like it at Ramrod or The Eagle or wherever, you have the luxury of hanging out comfortably pretty much anywhere. When the awareness of your hetero privilege gets taken out of the equation, arrogance creeps in and that's what bothers me. And the lesbians don't feel you up because they are too busy planning their next vegetarian potluck. i feel offended if i don't leave a gay bar without out being groped or grapped or oogled or have someone follow me into the bathroom. The Normal Whores Club | |
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hokie said: Serious said: It's the same for me . Men are alway flirting with me, but women never. They might tell me that I am beautiful and make comments about my styling, but in a no flirty way and I can't remember any woman ever was interested in me. Oh and my 2 closest female friends are both lesbian .We must not be good lesbian material??? I don't know. It's strange, isn't it. They totally ignore me . Although I must say that I am happy that my lesbian friends are no interested in me as things might be complicated otherwise. They both found out they were lesbian when we already had been friends for years. Gay men like my styling usually and compliment me on that.With a very special thank you to Tina: Is hammer already absolute, how much some people verändern...ICH hope is never so I will be! And if, then I hope that I would then have wen in my environment who joins me in the A.... | |
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FunkMistress said: And the lesbians don't feel you up because they are too busy planning their next vegetarian potluck. | |
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Imago said: white. socks.
One man's silly couture obsession; 
Another man's fetish;  |
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i think a straight woman would have a better response from telling some touchy-feely gay guy to knock it off, than a gay guy would have in merely buying another guy a drink in a straight bar.
i'm just sayin'. | |
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HamsterHuey said: Imago said: white. socks.
One man's silly couture obsession;
Another man's fetish; Who is that guy? | |
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Anxiety said: i think a straight woman would have a better response from telling some touchy-feely gay guy to knock it off, than a gay guy would have in merely buying another guy a drink in a straight bar.
i'm just sayin'. If you can find a straight guy not cruising vegetarian potlucks. | |
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Imago said: HamsterHuey said: One man's silly couture obsession;
Another man's fetish; Who is that guy? Yes. I suddenly have a white sock fetish. | |
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When the str8 girls start rubbing on me at the club , I have fun with it til they start getting "grabby" and try to convince me that Im not totally gay . 90% of it is all in fun though.
If it gets too be to much I just move on and go over in the corner and grab a random guy and start making out . Then they leave me alone . | |
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newpower99 said: When the str8 girls start rubbing on me at the club , I have fun with it til they start getting "grabby" and try to convince me that Im not totally gay . 90% of it is all in fun though.
If it gets too be to much I just move on and go over in the corner and grab a random guy and start making out . Then they leave me alone .  | |
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Imago said: Anxiety said: i think a straight woman would have a better response from telling some touchy-feely gay guy to knock it off, than a gay guy would have in merely buying another guy a drink in a straight bar.
i'm just sayin'. If you can find a straight guy not cruising vegetarian potlucks. moby makes a lot more sense to me now. | |
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Fury said: have you ever caught someone of the same sex oogling your goodies? a guy from work carried on 95% of our conversation with his eyes on my crotch. no biggies to look i guess, but i'm like "hello, this head up here is the only one you'll be seeing"
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CarrieLee said: crazyhorse said: thats just because your fuckin' hot carrie. men and women wanna get with ya. Then why aren't I getting numbers from men??  The girls have more balls I guess.You want some numbers, I'll bet you could get a grip on here alone. crazyhorse is right! you're fuckin hot! To Sir, with Love | |
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Rhondab said: It get hit on all the time by females....I treat the oogling ones the same way I do men.....
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Imago said: ehuffnsd said:
if you can't attact a woman do you really think a gay man will be attracted to you? I've also noticed the most homophobic men with stories of "He was once in the restroom at the same time as I was, and I swear to you dude, he was looking at my package" type stories are guys most women wouldn't fuck, let alone a gay man who could walk into any gay bar and find guys exponentially better looking to 'ogle"
Again, why would a gay man risk his life over some dude with a cheap ass haircut, and dark brown loafers with white socks? Hell. no.
(again, I'm stereotyping and not picking on anyone on this thread in particular). Your sig  
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foxyflawedhands said: You realise I pay $3.75 to get my hair cut, right?
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Fury said: have you ever caught someone of the same sex oogling your goodies? a guy from work carried on 95% of our conversation with his eyes on my crotch. no biggies to look i guess, but i'm like "hello, this head up here is the only one you'll be seeing"
yep, I get that all the time. | |
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I don't get hit on by gay men. I have some banter with the odd gay waiter or barman in some pubs but they never grope me or anything. Ladyboys have done though. Oh, and a few drunken bargirls, very occasionally. That's not a massive problem unless Mon sees it and feels like a scrap. | |
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